Maintaining discipline and hierarchy in a D/s household http://www.seekdiscipline.com/boards/discipline/ The IC RSS Gadget webmaster@informedconsent.co.uk 360 Mon, 22 Dec 2008 22:08:55 GMT Mon, 22 Dec 2008 22:08:55 GMT Mon, 22 Dec 2008 22:08:55 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178190/ NICOLI If a slave/sub is failing to meet your needs sexually but you dont want to get rid of the slave for this reason. is allowing them to have pleasure to the point of orgasming but not allowing them to orgasm punishment enough until they learn to pleasure my needs or is there something more suitable for this problem that may yield better results. Mon, 15 Dec 2008 23:09:37 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178149/ Sgiandubh For those Master/slave couples that were husband and wife and later became Master/slave. Do any of the Masters have difficulty disciplining your slave? Thu, 11 Dec 2008 05:10:05 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178138/ 269-153-209 Ok I wear a collar is there anyway I can attach my leash so when im commanded to sit up straight the rope digs deeper Thu, 04 Dec 2008 02:15:28 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178101/ Alissa my Master and I are separated by distance right now (I am at college and he is at home)and recently I have been acting badly. I love my Master, and only want to be good, but I am having a hard time. I keep starting arguments and refusing to listen, even though he is right. Sat, 22 Nov 2008 20:20:09 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178047/ 179-740-261 Hi i will give a little backround, me and my Master have been together for awhile, and we have started 24/7 a couple of months ago. One of Master's rules was that when we are alone i am not to have a shirt and bra on. Last month i had an operation and my thought were so far from BDSM, but have been getting back to them. The thing is i have not been following this rule. Fri, 07 Nov 2008 19:20:50 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177978/ Mistress_Diane This is my first post and although I was debating it I really need some advise or it will just keep eating at me. Me and my sub have been going through a "rough patch" and for some reason I have no idea what to do. Tue, 04 Nov 2008 21:45:32 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177967/ jjsslave i looked and didnt find a thread about this and i am just curious. What bad habits/addictions did you have to give up when you went to be with your Master? Mine was/is smoking and its been a long time since ive had a cig but i have days where its still soo hard. ive came a long way. i agreed to stop when i moved here, almost a year ago and have had only a few since then however on days like today( when Master is busy and i'm doing my own thing) it would be soo easy to just get a pack. i still fight that alot. Once Master smelled it on me when i came home from work and i told him yes i had and why and He said he didnt like it but knows its hard to just quit. i'm just wondering how others handle this? And i am past the stage of withdraw where i need patches or anything like that its just an urge every once in a while if i get too bored. Fri, 17 Oct 2008 20:42:10 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177903/ 597-866-048 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 06:37:36 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177886/ EilisMoonfire Hey everyone, Sat, 11 Oct 2008 19:08:07 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177875/ 646-577-833 i was late for my master when he came to pick me up and i missed him when i got downstairs he was gone i was 1 minute late for him and now he said i will be punished when/ if he see me again today or tomorrow. what do you think my punishment would be/ what would you do to me if i was late like i was today. im sorry master knox i hope you will give me another chance to prove my worthiness and for me updating my profile i might have a master that why i did not put his name up there i need his permission first. Fri, 10 Oct 2008 02:35:02 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177869/ 212-050-289 here's what wrote to Master and Mel this morning 10-10-08 Fri, 26 Sep 2008 05:38:13 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177842/ Monti1342 I have seen many posts both Dom and sub regarding the misuse of power by Masters/Mistresses. I would really like to here opinions on those who have problems with the Domineering attitude of those in control as to the more disciplined attitudes of us Dominating. Mon, 15 Sep 2008 19:44:40 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177803/ Mistress_Tiara I've noticed a truism developing on the board lately which I would like to examine. Mon, 15 Sep 2008 07:30:23 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177800/ slave107 with the permission of my master.. Fri, 05 Sep 2008 21:15:21 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177760/ 234-086-891 As I read through a lot of the posts I see that most are about punishment. While I agree that this a main part of O/our lives. What about the rewards for good behavior ect? I'm just wondering if any of you other masters have a reward system like my master does? it does not have to be extravagant. most the of the time mine is a praising email or a tender caress on the face. Do any of you have something similar? Tue, 19 Aug 2008 08:30:33 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177697/ 365-195-714 I have to bed habbits that in one year and 8 month of our Ds relationship my Mistress was not able to solve. (we are both quite new to this lifestyle). First of all is finger in the nose: I put them very often and she still didn't manage to remove me this habbit. The second is regarding food: I love eating and I eat a lot (I weight 85 kg and I'm only 170 cm high). How you Master and Mistress solve/would solve the problem? What do you think subs?? Mon, 18 Aug 2008 01:59:04 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177692/ 994-437-094 I am posting this with my Master's permission. I have come here to seek advice on a pending punishment that I have coming my way. Long story short I most definitely overstepped my boundaries as my Master's slave! I not only defied rules that He had set in place but disrespected Him in various ways. I verbally abused Him and as an immediate consequence, I almost lost my Master, my lover, and my best friend. Along with his forgiveness, He has asked me to post this in hopes of gathering a wide opinion on the punishment that His slave deserves. Do not hold back and please be specific. I need put back in my proper place! Fri, 15 Aug 2008 22:51:59 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177682/ 365-195-714 I'm spending my vacation with my family on our yacht and my girfriend is with us. how can she punish me in a harsh way but not visible?? I'm basicaly not respecting any of our rules. Sat, 26 Jul 2008 16:53:43 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177586/ Amo_s_beauty If it pleases you to do so I was wondering if a few or as many that want to would tell me what a typical day with you and your slave is like, preferably Masters who have to go out and work and have children. What do you do to maintain the lifestyle out of the home for work? When your not present? Thank you so much ahead of time! what do things do you do to make your slave feel controlled? :) Wed, 23 Jul 2008 22:36:22 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177573/ Amo_s_beauty Should a slave be punished if a Master loses control and gets angry and the slave gets angry back? Just wondering your opinions? Should a slave also get punished for bad PMS attitudes?