Practical issues relating to service in a D/s household http://www.seekdiscipline.com/boards/service/ The IC RSS Gadget webmaster@informedconsent.co.uk 360 Thu, 01 Jan 2009 05:10:20 GMT Thu, 01 Jan 2009 05:10:20 GMT Thu, 01 Jan 2009 05:10:20 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178229/ ravenkaldera First, I just wanted to say that I have the best boy ever. Sat, 27 Dec 2008 20:07:08 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178209/ 281-731-461 This slave is new to posting, but could use a little help from like minded people. she is in a 24/7 relationship and has been collared by Master for over a year now. Lately she has had a problem with speaking out of turn and failing to stay silent as much as she is supposed to. Does anyone have any advice for helping discipline the urge to speak at innapropriate times? Any tips shared would be a great help as this slave is always trying to better herself. Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:01:51 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178175/ 259-044-531 hi everyone i guess i want to know how this works. will a master choose me ,if 1 does is there some sort of protocol/contract or do i have to advertise myself as a willing slave seeking a master. is there any negotiating between us until i'n enslaved & will the negotiating if any be binding thank you for reading kazza Thu, 11 Dec 2008 03:16:09 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178137/ blue_eyes So its Christmas time again! Now that this very special time of year has rolled around I am coming across a small issue that hopefully some of you can help me with. I know that my Master has been diligently looking for my Christmas present and I seem to be having trouble coming up with something for him that is related to our 24/7 lifestyle. If you all have any recommendations please post them. Wed, 10 Dec 2008 23:07:50 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178135/ 590-744-664 has anyone here ever been used as the entertainment for their master and his friends on a regular or semi-regular basis?such as being taken to other ppls places or have men brought to your place that you share with your m/ and told to make yourself available in any way they want you? I would very much like som feedback on this question both from a slaves perspective as well as a dom view.how did your slave react or if you r the slave how did u react and feel at the conclusion of an experience like this? Wed, 03 Dec 2008 04:03:50 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178095/ his_slavepet Okay, so yeah, that's an oxymoron...kinda. I haven't been on here in a long time, and I truly wanted to share with everyone an experience that has left me changed inside. I am forever grateful to the one who owns me because he provides these experiences, sometimes through no effort of his own. After a year and a half under his hand, I am still the misty-eyed, wondering "child" I was when I first donned his collar. Every day I wonder, can I really be this happy? Can this be REAL? Tue, 02 Dec 2008 16:53:13 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178092/ Masters_suki So my dilemma is this, my son is 18 and coming home on leave for the next few weeks (i pick him up tomorrow and he is here until the 31st) and doesn't know about the lifestyle W/we live. J (my son) is a very open-minded young man and i really don't keep secrets from him, but i'm just not sure how to approach this one. i know that there have been other threads that are similar, but this being my grown son, just not sure what to say, if anything at all. Any suggestions would be wonderful and welcome. Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:29:02 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178027/ 887-458-885 I don't know whom of you remember me, but I have pretty much always had problems with my D/s relationship. Sat, 15 Nov 2008 00:46:58 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178017/ Andrin Hi all Tue, 11 Nov 2008 18:33:37 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177998/ property_of_MacCain So, its that time of the year again. Family pops out of the woodwork wondering about holiday plans. Most of us are discrete about the workings of our relationships when dealing with family. How are you going to deal with service during this hectic holiday season? Tue, 11 Nov 2008 15:43:16 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177997/ Bonnie_Lass I live in a M/s house with another couple and have for six months. The submissive will be going into back surgery in a few weeks and I'm trying not to over-think myself into a bad headspace. Sun, 09 Nov 2008 13:59:55 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177986/ S_Kitten Master has recently come to visit me and we are in the middle of our 1 1/2 weeks together, and so far i feel the service i have given has been substandard and useless, i dont seem to be able to cook his meals the way he wants/likes, i have no sex drive at all which doesnt help when Master wants sex or sexual attention, and Master keeps looking very dissapointed and annoyed Sat, 01 Nov 2008 22:44:24 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177956/ Slave_Becky I am an owned slave, almost 21 years old. I do not have any kids, and my owner doesn't want me to have any, So we are looking for someone to perform an in house Tubal ligation for a permanent sterilization procedure. I am looking for someone who could help me find a doctor who would be willing to help me with this. Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:18:02 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177942/ CherieMarie A week ago I became very ill. Seeing how I have a bad immune system.. I anything that is going around then some, but the reason for this posting is, during the time I was sick I was unable to do serve Erus for the past week, unable to do my chores and I felt usless, I was very unhappy even though he was taking care of me, just it didn't seem right nor did it feel natural to me. Mon, 20 Oct 2008 20:59:39 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177917/ SirLawrence Well, we've gone and done it--eliminated monthly Brazilians at $60 a pop plus tip. A long look at our stock portfolio and continued grim forecasts about the economy have convinced us to (ahem)do some shaving of costs in this delicate area. I am waiting for the first feature article on the impact of the recession on the waxing business. The good news is that we are discovering that a good razor can do the trick rather nicely. Plus it forces my sub to be mindful of another ritual and gives me another reason for regular inspections. Waxing does seem to work better for the rear area, however. I welcome other cost-cutting suggestions for these hard times. Sun, 19 Oct 2008 20:13:00 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177911/ SixThreeFive I love housekeeping. And more than that, I love reading about it. I've just been given a giftcard to buy books with and I'm now looking for more books on cleaning, organizing, cooking and baking. Sat, 18 Oct 2008 15:39:45 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177906/ Morniel This may not be the right spot for this; if it gets closed or moved, I understand. Sat, 11 Oct 2008 23:41:02 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177877/ moncherie What is the ONE thing you hate the most in your service to your Master/Mistress? Thu, 09 Oct 2008 10:38:44 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177868/ puppypam For long this slave has had fantasies about serving as a butler in a large brittish old style mansion, polishing silver and leather shoes. The thought never accurred to her before that it is possible to achieve that still. Mon, 22 Sep 2008 17:04:35 GMT http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/177830/ 136-814-165 Hi all, This is my first post and I'm not sure if I'm putting it in the right place so please forgive me if I am in the wrong. Also, please forgive the fact that there is a lack of paragraphs, I read how to do it and for some reason it isn't working. Master and I have run into a bit of a dilema and I was just wondering if anyone else is dealing with the same issues and if so how did you get through it? We have been together for a year and a half now 3 months of that being D/s time. He is trying his best to *train* me. I have a pretty good handle on a majority of the training and of course there are some others that are not so easy. My biggest problem however is that we only get about 8 hours of alone time a week. So due to this it is hard to get into the swing of things. I have two young children who are always around and of course I can't be naked, chained, and shackled. I know from reading the boards I am not the only one with children, so I am just wondering how you find the time to do the things you *want* lol If anyone has any information or advice it would be much appreciated. Thank you for your time.