Seek Discipline!

8 Jan 2009, 12:05 AM GMT

You are Guest

Main - Help&About

All web boards
- All active topics

24/7 D/s topics
- dominance, submission, poly, events

Households
- discipline, service, ritual, captivity

IE/TPE
- theory, practice

BDSM/Fetish
- SM&bondage, Sex&fetishes, Online&LDR BDSM

Admin
- TSR, Website Help. Search

SD! Wiki
- Help, All, New

Personal Ads
- By interest / location

The Slave Register
- Registration guide, listings, events, weblogs

TSR Store
- Logos, ownership icons, BDSM Book List

This page sponsored by Mr. S Leather, San Francisco    [other banners]
This page sponsored by Mr. S Leather, San Francisco

SD! : Web boards : Service : "Being Rented"
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9

Being Rented (84)

13 Apr 07, 1:25 PM
tangie
US(MI), 6 yrs
 
Actually, when I was young (up until in my early 20's) I was addicted to sex. In all honesty, I can't remember how many men I've had. Being loaned, rented, gifted or otherwise shared has absolutely no appeal for me.

I mention the above because my opinion does not come from a place of inexperience. Not that I 'couldn't' do, or 'wouldn't' do, and survive well; I just don't know how many men could deal well with it whether or not it was something they initially wanted.

I personally sought out a man who was possessive. I made sure, in the beginning, that he wouldn't want to share me, because in my experience it's the rare male (dominant or otherwise) who is sexually secure enough to not let it eat at them.

Besides, one of my own personal quirks is that I honestly believe that most dominants are naturally possessive. Which isn't to say that that is a criteria for domination--I know of some wonderful Masters who have happily shared their slaves sexual service. This is just my own opinion, and not saying that if a person wants to share makes him less dominant to everyone, just less dominant to me.

Barbara

Learning is not childs play; there can be no growth without pain~ Aristotle

13 Apr 07, 2:43 PM
shysweetie
CA, 22 mths 
this girl feels that this would be a true test of her submission if she were to be loaned or rented.

Peace, Love and Honesty to You Now and Forevermore
shysweetie

13 Apr 07, 4:00 PM
658-425-221
US, 21 mths 
i would obey my master and do what ever he wants .
13 Apr 07, 6:40 PM
ravenkaldera
US(MA), 3 yrs
 
My Joshua was a sex worker before I got him. He has absolutely no problem being rented out for various sexual activities, as long as he knows that he's safe, and actually would probably do it far more often than it does happen, if he had his way. He's naturally a whore. If he could support me by giving blowjobs to strangers in bars for money, he would, happily. Not that I would ever consider such a thing to be safe enough. I'm the one with the possessiveness issues. I also don't want him to get physically hurt, and I am more careful with his well-being than he was.

As Barbara said, a certain amount of possessiveness does come along with being an owner. For myself, when I've comfortably lent or rented my human property out without feeling like my territory was being threatened - "I pissed on it, it's mine!" - it's been for people whom I trusted to see the situation for what it was and respect it, and I could feel generous about it. I was letting them have a taste of the benefits of what I have all the time. That's all right. (But this is a rare thing. Generally we're too busy to play ourselves, much less actually go anywhere and play out, I'm afraid.)

Obviously, I wouldn't do this with a slave that was uncomfortable with such things. I may be the only owner on this list whose slave would rather be more of a whore than I allow him to be.

Of course, the irony is, now that he's almost all the way through his massage therapy training (and has turned out to have a real gift for it; I'm having him go for Shiatsu training next spring) people want me to whore him out for nonsexual massages much more often than they want sex. Blowjobs they can get anywhere; good massages are apparently more valuable. ("Can you have Josh rub my feet? Please?")

-Raven Kaldera

13 Apr 07, 10:04 PM
173-682-895
US(NY), 21 mths
 
ravenkaldera wrote:
I was letting them have a taste of the benefits of what I have all the time.

That's it exactly. Master is very possessive, but He does like sharing in the right setting.

ravenkaldera wrote:
"I pissed on it, it's mine!"
Heh heh, i like that! :)

13 Apr 07, 10:33 PM
slave_luci
2 yrs
 
tangie wrote:
This is just my own opinion, and not saying that if a person wants to share makes him less dominant to everyone, just less dominant to me. Barbara
i could not agree more.......slave luci

"But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor, into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears" - Kahlil Gibran

14 Apr 07, 3:56 AM
631-535-398
US, 2 yrs
  Y!*
ravenkaldera wrote:
My Joshua was a sex worker before I got him. He has absolutely no problem being rented out for various sexual activities, as long as he knows that he's safe, and actually would probably do it far more often than it does happen, if he had his way. He's naturally a whore. If he could support me by giving blowjobs to strangers in bars for money, he would, happily. Not that I would ever consider such a thing to be safe enough.

*snipped* I may be the only owner on this list whose slave would rather be more of a whore than I allow him to be.

*snipped* -Raven Kaldera

Thank You Sir Raven, and You aren't the only Owner who has a slave that would like to be more of a whore than is allowed ;) This girl would love to be able to support her Master and herself by being paid for sex (bit of a sex addict). she's been marked by Him both the way You mentioned as well as tatoo, piercing and in her heart and mind He and she knows she's His :)

slave giolla

*wow i just switched to third person there, ok that must be a trigger for me

14 Apr 07, 4:43 PM
RIsubcdmaid
3 yrs 
Hi

My ex wife would rent me out while she went out "with friends" She would drop meoff and pick me up. at first I didn't like it but I grew to enjoy the way others treated me.

14 Apr 07, 7:18 PM
000-857-861
4 yrs
 
his_5lut wrote:
What do you feel about your Master/Mistress whoring or renting you? But have any of you been used in a similar way? And what do you feel about it?

Its prostitution in my book. No questions asked. It's unethical and immoral. Why would you share someone that you say that you care about? Its mind boggling. Their are soooo many STDs out there that you are just adding to your risk of getting any of them, and for the ladies, HPV can KILL.

Whatever happened to common sence?! Sharing is not common sence, even if its with friends, its prostitution, even if money never exchanges hands.

If I had a partner that brought it up, I would simply ask how he would feel if someone did the same thing to his DAUGHTER or SON. If he would not liek it, then why would he do that to someone else?!

Think about that.

"Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you - not because they are nice, but because you are." ~Author Unknown

14 Apr 07, 7:40 PM
slave_luci
2 yrs
 
000-857-861 wrote:
Its prostitution in my book. No questions asked. It's unethical and immoral. Why would you share someone that you say that you care about? Its mind boggling.

Whatever happened to common sence?! Sharing is not common sence, even if its with friends, its prostitution, even if money never exchanges hands.

Think about that.

See this is the problem i have with your posts. You speak as if you are the final word on every matter. You started off fine because you said "in my book." That means that it's simply your opinion. Then you quickly turn it right into a "no questions asked" issue. It's "unethical," it's "immoral," it's "mind boggling," and it makes no "common sence." That is YOUR opinion, not fact. You don't agree with the concept and that is your right. To call it all the above-mentioned things is judgemental, narrow-minded and simply unfair. i have already posted that my Master does not share me with other men and that is something He will never do. i'm glad. However, i am the first to say that if that is the way other M/s couples operate and it works for them, that is wonderful. You act as if because a dominant wishes to share his sub/slave with someone else, that means he'll share her with EVERYONE else. That is not the same. One master can share one slave with one other person and, meanwhile, a single gal such as yourself could theoretically go out and screw a new man every night of the month. Which is worse as far as the possibility of spreading disease? You are assuming that any sharing is bad. YOU think about it........slave luci

"But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor, into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears" - Kahlil Gibran

Next page

 

 
TS  ©1997-2009
House of Tanos
Donate to TSR Ownership Flag BDSM Rights Flag A carbon neutral website