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	SD! : Web boards : Submission : "Degrading/Humiliating" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Degrading/Humiliating (93) This topic is now full - if you want to reply, please make a new post on the board itself. Sun 6 May 07, 2:07 AM Masters_LittleKitten US(TX), 22 mths  Well let me start off by saying that i hope i have put this in the correct place. My Master has asked that i post these questions. (i am sorry if this question has been posted before) For all slaves/submissive what is the most degrading/humiliating thing you have had to do or had done to you? For all Dom/me, Masters, and the likes what is the most degrading/humiliating thing you have done to your slave/s or submissive/s. Thank you all for any response. kitten PS: It took me almost three hours to convince my Master not to require me to post what He has done to me…. (i am very glad though it still may change) 6 May 07, 3:55 AM Slutty_cottontail 20 mths  Now see, kitten....how are you going to ask others to share when you won't? However for me it would have to be being suspended vertically, flogged and then forced to eat out of a dog bowl while Master had friends over. ~*I need a master...are you him?*~ ~*California girl*~ ~*I love 69 and water sex*~ ~*"Bend me down, spank me now!"*~ ~*I'm a free slave...but hopefully not for long!*~ 6 May 07, 4:36 AM 554-362-101 24 mths  I can't say that I'm humiliated by much anymore. I've moved into the mindset where everything that I'm doing is being done at his direction so how can I be humiliated by following his orders? There is nothing degrading or humiliating about being obedient. That little switch in my head took some of the fun out of it for him, too. I used to be humiliated by the piss play. Piss enemas, drinking it, wearing it... but not anymore. It's too commonplace these days to continue to find it humiliating. I hate having to eat from the floor. Literally, the food on the floor, no dishes, no hands. The first time was humiliating, but after that? Hey.. I'm just doing what I'm told to do. (I still hate it though.) I guess I still get a little humiliated when I'm treated lower than his dog. But that's more because I've displeased him somehow. I used to be highly humiliated by the raunchy pictures he makes me post, but shoot.. I'm way used to that now. I get embarrassed by weird things these days. Like when he just looks at me, examines me and my body, close-up staring inspections. That makes me want to disappear. Especially when it's my pussy. I'm like "gah! what are you looking for in there!!?" Another thing that he likes to do that embarrasses the hell out of me is put these huge, loud bells on my ankle cuffs. Not the delicate tinkle of the tiny bell bracelet I have, but giant cowbell things. Every single twitch I make is heard a half a block away. It makes me very conscious of trying to move gracefully, and how badly I suck at trying to move gracefully. I know that's probably not the list you were looking for! Sorry. :D I do think it's only fair that you share your stuff, too. His_kaya Under His Hand 6 May 07, 6:19 AM ancillla US, 2 yrs  Made me strip in a public park and drove off with my clothes, i had to streak naked in broad daylight quite a long way to catch up to the car. Doesn't sound like much to most of you all but i was very embarrassed. 6 May 07, 8:36 AM susieslave 3 yrs  Hi, It seems that we are in a different kind of M/s TPE relationship than most on here. Master has never humiliated me in any way and i do not think he would ever do. susieslave 6 May 07, 8:42 AM Coyotes_kitten US(WI), 2 yrs  susieslave wrote: Hi, It seems that we are in a different kind of M/s TPE relationship than most on here. Master has never humiliated me in any way and i do not think he would ever do. susieslave susie, kitten thinks that it is more a personal need or desire. For instance, some Owners are sadistic, where others could not fathom whipping their property. Some Owners enjoy humiliating their slaves, where others would not see the pleasure nor purpose in it Master Coyote for instance is a sadistic Master. And with kitten being a masochist, that works perfectly. Now Master has done things that other's might see as humiliating (like lifting kitten's skirt when she had no underwear on and unzipping her vest and making her walk to the car like that from the exit door of a strip club..). But kitten thoroughly enjoyed it. There was no humiliation involved at all. Coyote's kitten (116-597-286) ~ Owned & collared by Master Coyote "I have found my other half, and submitted to Him completely, so that He may be whole." 6 May 07, 11:37 AM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs  Coyotes_kitten wrote: susieslave wrote: Hi, It seems that we are in a different kind of M/s TPE relationship than most on here. Master has never humiliated me in any way and i do not think he would ever do. susieslave susie, kitten thinks that it is more a personal need or desire. For instance, some Owners are sadistic, where others could not fathom whipping their property. Some Owners enjoy humiliating their slaves, where others would not see the pleasure nor purpose in it Master Coyote for instance is a sadistic Master. And with kitten being a masochist, that works perfectly. Now Master has done things that other's might see as humiliating (like lifting kitten's skirt when she had no underwear on and unzipping her vest and making her walk to the car like that from the exit door of a strip club..). But kitten thoroughly enjoyed it. There was no humiliation involved at all. I agree with kitten, but I add into my comment that I can't stand the words humiliation and degradation, for the simple reason anything Miss does to me or has me do that could be considered either one by the 'nilla-rites (we suppose), like piss-drinking, feminisation in public or face-sitting during Her time of the month, give me my sense of worth as Her slave, because they remind me of my place below Her and as such, as kitten rightly says, there is no humiliation in that. and susie, I'm not suggesting that your Master would ever set out to humiliate you in the same way our ever-loving sadists would be perceived as, but never say never.. *thinks up-turned broom with bowl of chocolate sauce and feathers balanced on it round the next corner, Daffy Duck style* ss 6 May 07, 12:14 PM slaveanne US, 20 mths  i don't know if this qualifies as humiliation or just being embarrassed but from time to time my Master forbids me from closing the bath room door. Not all the time and unless He says something i close it normally when i am using the toilet. i love to show of in public so there is little humiliation in His making me wear revealing clothes. He does limit me to a single garment, usually a backless halter dress, naturally with no underwear whatsoever. 6 May 07, 2:00 PM susieslave 3 yrs  slaveanne wrote: i don't know if this qualifies as humiliation or just being embarrassed but from time to time my Master forbids me from closing the bath room door. Not all the time and unless He says something i close it normally when i am using the toilet. i love to show of in public so there is little humiliation in His making me wear revealing clothes. He does limit me to a single garment, usually a backless halter dress, naturally with no underwear whatsoever. I never close the bathroom door. Master chooses my clothes to suit the occasion...it could be leather, lace, rubber..and i never wear any kind of underwear apart from a corset. In our relationship nothing is hidden. Our homepage tells all. susieslave 6 May 07, 3:04 PM Masters_zero 2 yrs  ya know what? it's just my opinion but i think that if ANYONE humiliates another long enough, it is going to have a negative impact. i have said to myself before " why in the world would a master refer to his slave disrespectfully? " my master doesn't care to own a slut. my master doesn't care to cause me emotional distress, that would only affect me adversely. so it would affect Him adversely in the long run. He only cares to "hurt a place on me" physically. it can be fixed. the only thing i can come up with is that it is not humiliation simply because it is invited. it is acceptable to the slave (for whatever reason) so she must take pleasure in that... don't fool yourself and call it humiliation if it's acceptable to you. my master feels responsible for my emotional well being in addition to all the other responsibilities of being an owner. He would never hurt His "most prized possession". the world is cruel enough; people slam and hurt each other without blinking an eye. Master is my oasis of freedom from the rest of the world. being His slave does have its rewards.... ( and it's just my ardent viewpoint; i do not profess to know what goes on in other peoples heads...) zero ~~~Owned & Operated by Master_of_zero~~~ Edited 6 May 07, 3:05 PM by Masters_zero 6 May 07, 3:20 PM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs  Masters_zero wrote: ya know what? it's just my opinion but i think that if ANYONE humiliates another long enough, it is going to have a negative impact. *snipped* zero This is why I don't like the words humiliation and degradation! The acts that could be perceived as such to the 'nilla-rites are 'such' a pleasure to me in my Service to Miss Sabina, and simply cannot then be so, cant they!! I haven't been faced with anything yet that I don't at least like to do, or want to try and haven't yet.. Having said that, I am Her slave, and as such it 'is' for Her to decide what I do, and I can only request that She be kind in Her choices. This isn't 'always' the case, but in saying that, Miss keeps me grounded, keeps me sane, I know I am valued, I know I'm loved, cherished and Owned. I love and worship Miss Sabina, and wouldn't change Her for the world. ss Next page