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	SD! : Web boards : Off Topic : "What is the "role" of the Master?" What is the "role" of the Master? (3) Wed 23 May 07, 8:51 PM ursa_minor US, 4 yrs  my Master and i (due to vanilla roommies and other reasons) were forced to put our M/s relationship on hold for a bit, but now we are starting over. :D Master and i are doing research so that we can get back on track with little problems. Master is VERY concerned about me and understands the importance of a happy slave. Although i continually reassure him that my pleasure comes from his satisfaction with me he wants to be the best Master he can be from the (re)start. W/we have noticed that in many 24/7 M/s relationships the servant does all of the housework as well as working outside the home at the request of the Master/Mistress and is still required to please her Top whenever S/He deams it. W/we are both full-time college students (i am an art major and will eventually be able to work from home), but for now W/we need both of U/us bringing in an income. Master says that because the only major role He has seen for the Master is providing for his servant financially He wants to put off my serious devotion for a few more years. i cannot wait any longer. i would like any input i could get on what others perceive the Master's role to be. Thank Y/you 23 May 07, 10:08 PM Philipy 3 yrs  shyla wrote: Master says that because the only major role He has seen for the Master is providing for his servant financially He wants to put off my serious devotion for a few more years. i cannot wait any longer. i would like any input i could get on what others perceive the Master's role to be. We are all different, of course, but for us I would happily provide financially if that were possible, but for various reasons susie needs an income to keep her alive that I cannot come near, so we need her contribution literally as matter of her life or death. BUT...finance has nothing at all to do with our M/s relationship. I am her master, her owner, I guide her and control her and protect her. THAT is my contribution to the exchange, to be there for her, whenever and whatever she needs. If money were the be-all and end-all of the relationship, I would simply be hiring a housekeeper. Philip 24 May 07, 5:34 AM Masters_zero 2 yrs  shyla might i suggest a book for your master to read? http://www.peter-masters.com/control_book/index.... there are alot of good books that will help explain just what the role of a master is and how that will be implemented in a relationship. a master does much more than financial coordinating just as a slave does much more than perform acts of servitude. as far as doing it all yourself, that's probably impossible considering your situation. many slaves work full time, continue their education and so forth. just because you both work, doesn't mean he cannot be your master. best wishes ~zero~ " i could while away the hours, conferrin' with the flowers, regarding love & art" but i hear Master calling... 24 May 07, 7:34 AM 862-203-011 AU, 23 mths   This one would like to add that it is your relationship. You can make it anything you want. No two M/s relationships are the same because there are different needs, wants and demands on the time of the people involved. Where does it say a Masters only function is to provide financially? Master provides this one with support, understanding and a shoulder to cry on at times. Hell He has even been known to do house work (but we don't talk about that ). The point is, don't let an idea get in the way of the life you want. Master's piece