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	SD! : Web boards : Ritual : "Punishment ritual" 1 2 Punishment ritual (15) Fri 1 Jun 07, 2:13 PM slavelofty 21 mths Mistress has "Punishment Board" fastened to the wall in the entrance hall. At any time when Mistress decides that it has committed an act or failed in some way that deserves punishment it is ordered to write the offence on the board. When Mistress decides it is punishment time, usually last thing at night, it has to gather whatever instruments Mistress specifies which may be floggers,whips,canes etc, clamps and weights or needles or dildos and butt plugs and then wait in the slave position. The punishment may then be administered suspended from ceiling hooks, fastened to the cross or simply bent over the bench. It must then ask to be punished for each offence noted on the board in turn. Any offence forgotten incurs double the penalty. It must then clear the board before being secured to the foot of Mistress's bed for the night. What routines do other slaves go through for punishment? 1 Jun 07, 2:24 PM 554-362-101 24 mths Call me a masochist, but that sounds like way too much fun to fly over here. You'd find me getting in trouble on purpose. The (sad) fact is, punishments like that don't work for me. It builds a negative cycle. I know I'm *supposed* to be all caught up in the intent of the application and Master's disappointment, but it really just feeds the masochism too much to be effective. These days punishment is much less "enjoyable" and involves things that I really hate. Like no internet for days at a time, or writing sentences eleventy-billion times. (God I *loathe* writing sentences and copying dictionary definitions!) The result since He's implemented this new plan is that my behavior has improved tremendously (go figure, right?) I'm much less prone to weighing the options of consequence. Plus, there isn't the cross-over confusion during scenes of "is this for fun or punishment?" His_kaya Under His Hand 1 Jun 07, 2:33 PM Pierced_Knight UK, 2 yrs £ Hmmmm, punishment. I do like this subject. I read through the OP's piece and didn't sense an aweful lot of fear of the 'Punishment Board'. In fact, come to think of it, I also didn't sense much shock at the thought that daily misdemeaners require an entire board! This leads Me to wonder at the semantics of the word and resulting actions of punishment. For Me, I dread the thought that I would have to punish. Punishment is a very, very last resort. If a sub/slave made a genuine mistake which resulted in a negative outcome, I would ensure that after a reprimand, they understood what they had done wrong and why it resulted in the way that it did. From this education, I would expect for the action not to be repeated. If a negative activity was produced 'on purpose', then that would be altogether a different thing. For Me, punishment is an action that is so severe, that the sub/slave would think that they would never EVER want to have it repeated and would therefore do anything in their power to not repeat the offending action again. A last resort. I also beleive that true punishment should be administered with clear aims. The recipient should be fully aware of what would bring punishment their way, why they are being punished and how to avoid it in the future. In short, punishment should be a learning experience. Aside from this, it always makes Me smile when I hear a sub/slave giggling as they say "Oooh, Master/Mistress punished me last night for such and such reason". I just think to Myself, "Oh dear, you wouldn't be smiling if I punished you". Regards, Pierced Knight. Educate to Liberate! Liberation through Education Edited 1 Jun 07, 2:38 PM by Pierced_Knight 1 Jun 07, 3:29 PM miamirubber US, 24 mths Y! One of the things my Owner does to punish me rather than play is to keep me from entering subspace... She is methodical in Her application of torment...and also keeping me out of subspace removes that enjoyment factor...which She knows i like... Also when being punished...She usually starts with the harder implements first...though She does build me up...but again that not slipping into subspace really is punishment for me... Regards, ~miamirubber 1 Jun 07, 4:31 PM 902-660-194 US(PA), 3 yrs sorry.. my punishment time is not at all glamorous or kinky or anything that would excited one who likes to be punished. most of the time Master just comes up from the gameroom, grabs my neck or hair & leads me down there. then either places me on the floor or has me stand, locking me into my leather cuffs attached to rope & eyebolts in the ceiling & whips me. thats it, no fun, no excitement, no sexual pleasures from it.. just a lesson learned the sting of His whip~ the welts from His crop~ the warmth of His kiss~ the click of the lock~ assures me i am His most cherished possession. 1 Jun 07, 8:35 PM little_linnet US, 3 yrs Pierced_Knight wrote: I read through the OP's piece and didn't sense an aweful lot of fear of the 'Punishment Board'. In fact, come to think of it, I also didn't sense much shock at the thought that daily misdemeaners require an entire board! This leads Me to wonder at the semantics of the word and resulting actions of punishment. I thought the same thing. I've been punished I think 3, maybe 4 times in a year and a half. I don't say this to brag about what a whiz at obeying, or something, I am; just to point up an apparent chasm between "punishment" meant as SM activity, and punishment intended for genuine behavior conditioning. My understanding is that when it comes to behavior conditioning, punishment is pretty much useless. In my relationship it comes in at the direst times and the worst aspect of it is my master's unhappiness with me, a genuine unhappiness, not an act. Krista "My way or the highway" is the copout of a man who cannot master a girl, and so must demand that she master herself for him. "My way period, as easy or as hard as you want to make it" is an attitude much more appropriate to a man who has any real power over the woman he is speaking to. 1 Jun 07, 8:39 PM Mistress_Rose12 US, 22 mths Y! When My slave misbehaves he gets things taken away from him. Lastnight he got fun taken away from him because he masturbated the night befeore without asking Me first. W/we do live in different states so it does make it harder for U/us but still he knows he is to ask before doing things. he did learn his lesson though so I hope that he doesn't do this again. If he does do it again I'll end up coming up with something more harsh for him. Something I know he'll regret doing this again. 1 Jun 07, 10:18 PM fuzzy_pet_pup US, 2 yrs Master never punishes, it is not really needed. Spanking, etc are for fun... for the both of us. When i do something out of line, He carefully explains to me what i have done wrong. Usually that is all it takes, one mild word of rebuke from Him is enough to make me cry, thinking i have disappointed Him. The biggest mistakes i have made have been because i have not been taught something yet. Master sees that as an opportunity to teach, but i am expected to not repeat errors. He has told me many times that He will not reward misbehavior with attention of any form, so that keeps me from being tempted to perform this noxious brand of "subbie foreplay". The worst punishment for me would be for Him to pay me no attention at all, the "cold shoulder" would just about slay me! 2 Jun 07, 4:28 PM mountain_honey 20 mths totally agree!!! Master's most effective punishment is "the silent treatment" xx honey xx 6 Jun 07, 5:22 PM 000-719-381 US(OK), 7 yrs Y! Pierced_Knight wrote: For Me, I dread the thought that I would have to punish. Punishment is a very, very last resort.. I also beleive that true punishment should be administered with clear aims. The recipient should be fully aware of what would bring punishment their way, why they are being punished and how to avoid it in the future. In short, punishment should be a learning experience. Pierced Knight. this slut fully agrees with thse wise words . . . this slut, when in training or owned, has rarely been corporally punished, though often trained, educated, and even reprimanded. To not be excelling as slave, and to be told so in no uncertain terms, is itself a "punishment" of great severity to this slut. most respectfully slut phylassia 6 Jun 07, 6:23 PM missey US, 2 yrs Y! slavelofty wrote: What routines do other slaves go through for punishment? Well....Master knows i love my pain so punishment for me normally is having to write a essay or something...lol. And its a true punishment as i hate to write ! m Next page