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	SD! : Web boards : Ritual : "Out in the World" 1 2 3 4 5 Out in the World (47) Sat 30 Jun 07, 6:21 PM Fritzkatt1955 US, 23 mths When you are out and about in the every day world do you sometimes stop and notice who may be in the lifestyle? Of course there are the every day physical signs; collar, cuffs, etc, but have other couples or individuals demonstrated signs that they might be in a D/s relationship just by their actions or mannerisms? What are some examples of what you have noticed in the everyday world both physical symbols and discreet actions? Have you ever commented to another when you suspected they were in the lifestyle? 30 Jun 07, 7:59 PM 379-922-962 UK, 19 mths i have, like if i see someone with a collar, (leather with perhaps a d ring) i played with my necklace looking directly into her/his eyes. (this is when i had another mistress who collared me. unfortunately she abandoned me, and de-collared me but my mistress now, is very nice. i enjoy pleasing her, and doing everything she says. even though i do make a few mistakes she punishes heavily. 1 Jul 07, 2:23 AM 681-671-077 US, 21 mths Y! I have...when I see someone in a collar who is not obviously wearing it as a fashion statement. Or sometimes I'll see two people and one is walking one step behind the other, head down and not obviously one of the religious sects living around here. Or I'll hear a comment, see a mannerism and wonder. I remember once I saw a woman in a simple, but thick, omega necklace. She was with a man and while he was looking at watches she was looking at pendants. She pointed one out when he came back over and asked, "May I put a pendant on this?" and touched the omega. He responded, "No, when you have on it, it will be because I chose it." As they walked away, she stuck her tongue out at him (his back was to her) and he turned and said, "10". She turned white as a sheet. I remember thinking..."OH MY GOD!" Hell, my Dom saw the same exchange and now he does something similar.... 1 Jul 07, 2:23 AM 681-671-077 US, 21 mths Y! I have...when I see someone in a collar who is not obviously wearing it as a fashion statement. Or sometimes I'll see two people and one is walking one step behind the other, head down and not obviously one of the religious sects living around here. Or I'll hear a comment, see a mannerism and wonder. I remember once I saw a woman in a simple, but thick, omega necklace. She was with a man and while he was looking at watches she was looking at pendants. She pointed one out when he came back over and asked, "May I put a pendant on this?" and touched the omega. He responded, "No, when you have on it, it will be because I chose it." As they walked away, she stuck her tongue out at him (his back was to her) and he turned and said, "10". She turned white as a sheet. I remember thinking..."OH MY GOD!" Hell, my Dom saw the same exchange and now he does something similar.... 1 Jul 07, 2:48 PM 773-531-661 US, 2 yrs Y! Have a bit of a funny story about this, actually. Years ago I was at a family Christmas party, and my soon to be cousin-in-law was sitting on the floor near me. I didn't think anything of it, since all the chairs were filled. Until I saw the chain locked around her ankle, and then realized she was sitting at the feet of my cousin. I stared at the chain, and then at her face. Must have been written all over my face because she grabbed me and dragged me outside (in the middle of winter!) faster than you can say anything. The first words out of her mouth: "You know! HOW do you know?!?" It was the beginning of a beautiful friendship. Years later, she and my cousin are married, have a child, and are still in the lifestyle. I was the only one who received a wedding invitation with his name capitalized and hers in lowercase. Though I was in the service at the time and unable to attend, I heard later from family that is was a very 'traditional' service. Heavy on the 'honor and obey' part of the vows. I had a real good laugh over it, and to this day I'm apparently the only family member who really knows what's going on. 1 Jul 07, 3:47 PM AlexsGirl 19 mths i myself have not yet had an experience such as those that were recounted here, how i enjoyed these stories. But my Master recently had one that He told me about. He was in the supermarket, i was unable to be with him at the time. While He was shopping, he kept bumping into this couple. He commented to me that she was being punished and he realized it right away. He told me of how she was dressed (no bra, revealing skirt, very high heels, thigh highs, etc), much as He has me dress, then he mentioned something he overheard while in the checkout line. her Master told her to take the soda He'd just sent her to fetch, back to where she retrieved it and instead, choose a new bottle of the same thing from the lower most shelf. As she was leaving, he commented to her "remember how you are to bend to retrieve it." As my Master watched, she bent at the hips, not at the knees, which exposed her to anyone's view. I remember my thought was of envy ... that she was with her Master and that he was able to pay such close attention to her, even if in punishment, when i was myself unable to be with mine at the time. Commenting on the post of 773-531-661 in which it was commented on what the family knew or didn't know of the cousin's relationship with his sub ... i myself do not hide what i am and what my Master and i are together, from my family, though we do not make things hugely obvious with family (with my collar and such). my behavior and manerisms do not change and i discuss my role as a sub and his as my Dom openly with my mother and my sisters as well as with my good friends. When we are not alone, or not with others within the sub-culture, i substitute "my Master" with "my Love" and He knows it is the same form of respect and submission just altered for the comfort of those around us. He always smiles. It never amazes me how everyone always understands and are happy for me that i'm so happy. No one ever criticizes me or U/us and never do they think less of me nor does anyone ever think W/we are derranged lol. When anyone i discuss it with doesn't understand about D/s, they always listen with open minds and when i explain, i always give examples of how it's not really all that different than relationships between men and women a very long time ago in history (the core of His being in control and her obeying, etc). For my Master and i, everything about our relationship is natural, not forced, not expected ... just totally natural. This girl is the loving property of Alexandre Santos. ... everything happens for a reason ... for this girl, my Master is the reason everything happens! 2 Jul 07, 5:26 AM 975-173-980 US, 2 yrs Y! i have had several experiences of seeing others and wondering. one was a few months ago at a gym i worked out at. 2 girls came in to work out, and the one was wearing a thin satin choker with an emblem on it. i noticed it because i had just been given my collar at the time. i overheard this girl's friend say to her "why do you wear that thing all the time? you are going to be so uncomfortable wearing it as you workout." She blushed bright red and said she just enjoys wearing it. sadly, i never saw her again to try and talk to her. Then a few months after that, i saw a couple teenage girls walking down the street. the one was leading the other by a chain type dog leash and the girl had a collar around her neck. and i know i have been noticed a few times when out in public wearing my collar. It is a locking black leather collar that was custom made for me. Since it is only 1/2" wide it initially looks like a choker. i had one man at the mall a few days ago stop in his tracks and stare at my neck (my hair was partially pulled back and the lock was visible)...then he grinned and winked at me. i smiled and lowered my eyes and kept walking. but it is interesting watching and wondering. slave kamea 2 Jul 07, 7:38 AM ElenaS UK, 19 mths This story is just frustrating, having looked for signs in others around me i can never spot anyone. However! i was recently at the Chicago Highland Games (if anyone here has any experience with piping you'll know that they're a strange lot to begin with). It was unbearably hot and i ended up sharing the shade with a couple. The gentleman went to take his turn piping and i was left next to this woman wearing a dog collar with a name tag. However, on asking her about it (Oh! That's pretty! Where did you get it?) she gave me a 10 minute speech about Petsmart and home crafts. The icing on the cake was when her companion came back and she started screaming at him: "See! She likes it!" 2 Jul 07, 5:22 PM daddyscherry US, 2 yrs Y! I've never seen anyone that i thought was actually wearing a collar as a slave, of course there are the fashionistas that wear them, goths and teens. Once when i was out with my Daddy though there was a girl that was dressed provacatively, but appropriate for where we were, she was wearing boots and my Daddy pointed at her ankle and said, "Look baby, she wears her collar on her ankle like you do." (when my neck hurts i wear my collar around my ankle)...i laughed but doubted that she was actually a slave. i do get looks sometimes when i wear my rhinestone princess collars as opposed to one that looks more like a necklace. They especially stand out if i am wearing jeans and sweatpants and there is all of this bling around my neck. Also, on those days when my neck hurts i will sometimes wear one of the princess collars around my ankle (it is the only one that fits around my ankle) when i go to the gym or grocery store. i'm sure people have thought me weird but that's it.(unless they're in the lifestyle and i don't realize it.) Also, i'm sure people have heard me calling my Master- Daddy on more occasions than i can count, because i don't hide it or lower my voice too much. For example yesterday we were out skating at Venice Beach and my Daddy kept making me do this one thing over and over again. i'd do it, or try and he'd make me go back up and do it again....i know there were a few people watching us and one said something about it....during the whole thing though i was saying, "Daddy did i get it?... Did you see that Daddy...Daddy...do i HAVE to do it again?" But it was Venice Beach and he could've had me on a leash out there and it wouldn't have caused too much of a stir lol. Doing my best to be obediant one day at a time. www.mycollarspace.com 2 Jul 07, 7:38 PM Masque66 US, 21 mths Y! This has been driving me crazy since I started reading this site. every time I see someone with a collar, a locket, some leather, piercings, or a hankerchief in their pocket all I can think is "is that one?". Working motorcycle week was hell for that. Knowledge is Power Wisdom is God 3 Jul 07, 4:42 AM 882-754-975 US, 2 yrs I've only seen it once that was certain; although I've seen several where I had a strong suspicion. Last year at a local medieval faire, M'Lord & I were browsing in a leather shop. The woman working there had her hair pulled up, and there on her neck was a chocker collar with a large (that seemed HUGE to me) brass padlock. Master complimented her on her collar, and she responded very quickly that it was not hers, but that it was his (referring to the man working there as well). We weren't able to speak with the man, as we had our children with us so comments had to be very discreet. It was very strange and at the same time exhilerating to recognize that someone else understood. wench 882-754-975 a caged bird...singing Next page