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	SD! : Web boards : Ritual : "Naked Master" 1 2 3 Naked Master (22) Sat 22 Dec 07, 9:09 PM 770-326-260 US, 23 mths There was another thread that had to do with whether Masters kept some emotional distance or barrier between themselves and their slaves. i think that there is something mysterious about a Master who can be just a little removed. Something comes to mind. When Master does get around to whipping me or binding me, he always takes off his clothing first. For some reason i feel thatMaster should have his clothing on? (i was thinking that maybe when i see that he is so aroused, i know very well that it ain't gonna be too much playing going on before he's gonna want to penetrate me and his penis is all available for that).. or is it something more along the lines of keeping some mystery, and that distance, that makes Master in his clothing more exciting? what's up with that? slave margo 22 Dec 07, 9:31 PM HeartExalted US(MA), 14 mths 770-326-260 wrote: Naked Master There was another thread that had to do with whether Masters kept some emotional distance or barrier between themselves and their slaves. i think that there is something mysterious about a Master who can be just a little removed. Something comes to mind. When Master does get around to whipping me or binding me, he always takes off his clothing first. For some reason i feel thatMaster should have his clothing on? (i was thinking that maybe when i see that he is so aroused, i know very well that it ain't gonna be too much playing going on before he's gonna want to penetrate me and his penis is all available for that).. or is it something more along the lines of keeping some mystery, and that distance, that makes Master in his clothing more exciting? what's up with that? Perhaps you've heard of CFNM ("clothed female, naked male"). If you google the phrase, or even the acronym, you will find countless sites. I think there's a latent subtext of domination and submission, and even power exchange, in that particular fetish. Conceivably, from both sides. I think there is some degree of power related to clothes, their presence or absence, that might be similar. There is some degree of power and authority in the Master's privilege of being dressed; hence, the frequent CMNS ("clothed Master, naked slave") set up. The fact that he has the right to cover himself and chooses to exercise it can be an excellent and enthralling display of power. In my opinion, both a clothed Master and a naked Master have their own unique, special appeals--depending on the situation. 23 Dec 07, 1:42 AM 770-326-260 US, 23 mths Wow...i never knew there was such a thing as a particular Clothed Female, Naked Male fetish... interesting. Also interesting that there is very little about Clothed Male, Naked Female.. Thanks for the information. slave margo 23 Dec 07, 1:51 AM HeartExalted US(MA), 14 mths No prob! 23 Dec 07, 12:19 PM ColdHarbour UK, 14 mths Y! 770-326-260 wrote: Naked Master For some reason i feel that Master should have his clothing on? ... what's up with that? There's nothing up with it at all. I think you're right. But I don't think it has much to do with fetish. It seems to be just some sort of natural kink in human-nature — that we are programmed to judge by appearances and hence what we wear (or do not wear) reflects relative status. Even the vanilla-world uses the trick. It's why authority-figure uniforms work and why being made to strip naked in front of one's fully-clothed future superiors is a part of induction into the military and into prisons. The fact is, nudity is a great leveller. Prince or pauper, naked we are all just weak little apes with not even fur to conceal what nature made us. Add to that the cultural spin put on nudity by Western culture and you get the whole “naked = vulnerable + inferior” equation. Clothing, on the other hand, allows us to project whatever image we choose — hiding our flaws and even giving us physical attributes that we do not in fact possess: like being taller, or slimmer, more athletic or whatever. Clothed, a Master can be thought of as the most powerfully virile and massively endowed demi-god imaginable. Naked, he is just a man! Although, that said, there is a little twist that I stole from Japanese culture and which is now my custom in the induction of new slaves. Once they are naked, I have them undress me and bathe me! By the time they are done, they know! They know they are ruled, not by some guy who needs to hide behind a mask of clothing to assert his dominance, but by me — a man who can be treated like a little baby without ever losing himself or losing control. It works! You cannot run away from what is inside you — African proverb 23 Dec 07, 1:22 PM VadFarkas US(IL), 20 mths Very well said ColdHarbour! Vad Farkas Ringsmith 23 Dec 07, 7:23 PM jakesemma US(WA), 15 mths Y! Errr... as a slave margo while I agree I love when Master leaves his clothes on because of making me feel even more vulnerable in my nakedness, I also at times feel more vulnerable with my clothes on too (depending on the situation), and it makes for some kinky sex when I have articles of clothing on and he's completely naked... I don't know if your Master is confident, but my Master is very dominant and comfortable in his nakedness, and I am not.... so it totally depends on the situation for me... Maybe you are just thinking to hard about the roles... its not abnormal though.. I do it with a lot of things too since I am still learning... if your tied, and he's naked, he has you the way he wants you, he's the way he wants to be, and if he just wants to bend you over and take you and wants his body available, then he's in control and the situation is the way he wants it right? 24 Dec 07, 12:19 AM slave_luci 2 yrs jakesemma wrote: I love when Master leaves his clothes on because of making me feel even more vulnerable in my nakedness I totally agree, jakesemma. When I am nude and bound or restrained and being hurt and He still has every stitch on, it is so very exciting to me. There's just something about Him not being naked and exposed that makes it seem like He's getting off - not 'cause we may soon be making genital to genital contact - but on the fact that He's got me right where He wants me and is enjoying the art of hurting me . It's like He's being very serious about His sadism at that point and not rushing forward to get to the finish line which may or may not involve orgasms for either or both of us. It's hard to explain but Him having His clothes still on just feels to me like He's serious and focused on the acts of the moment and not just on sex that may occur in the near future............luci "None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." ---Johann W. von Goethe "He who establishes his argument by noise and command shows that his reason is weak." ---Michel de Montaigne 24 Dec 07, 12:30 AM yoda_dog UK, 2 yrs Why should clothes play such an important part? I understand the base instinct of it, but he's my Dom, clothed or not. I feel vulnerable when I'm tied up, regardless of his state of dress. He can do what he wants to me, and he can be dressed or undressed, it's up to him. When push comes to shove (so to speak), he calls the shots. If he wants to be naked, he will be, and if he wants to us me, he will, clothed or not. Maybe it's more a mental thing rather than physical. 25 Dec 07, 11:57 AM 770-326-260 US, 23 mths slave_luci wrote: jakesemma wrote: I love when Master leaves his clothes on because of making me feel even more vulnerable in my nakedness I totally agree, jakesemma. When I am nude and bound or restrained and being hurt and He still has every stitch on, it is so very exciting to me. There's just something about Him not being naked and exposed that makes it seem like He's getting off - not 'cause we may soon be making genital to genital contact - but on the fact that He's got me right where He wants me and is enjoying the art of hurting me . It's like He's being very serious about His sadism at that point and not rushing forward to get to the finish line which may or may not involve orgasms for either or both of us. It's hard to explain but Him having His clothes still on just feels to me like He's serious and focused on the acts of the moment and not just on sex that may occur in the near future............luci This is what i was sort of getting to when i said that i can see his erection and i know my Master will want to put it somewhere before too long (when i know i could take further whipping, or some other activity). With clothing on, then it feels to me that he's not thinking ahead to the orgasm, but simply enjoying the controlling or torturing activity...and in my situation, where i am the one with the long term desire and need for enslavement, it's important to me, i guess, to know that Master is really enjoying having me tied or whipping me. i won't read too much into this unclothed, clothed thing. Perhaps he just prefers to be naked. So yesterday i touched on the subject -- we're talking non stop in preparation of his return in about a week or so -- and i mentioned that i would love for him to fuck me in the ass while he has his pistol in his shoulder holster. I mentioned that i think it would be great if he kept his clothing on when he did it. He said he would certainly do that -- but in Egypt because he's not licensed for a firearm here. i'm trying to think what i could do to put several of his favorite things together, like i could dress up like a feminine boy, Master with his gun....gee, if i could get this all to occur in his favorite car while he's wearing a dozen of his favorite watches, i think he would just go crazy!! slave margo 25 Dec 07, 12:05 PM 770-326-260 US, 23 mths jakesemma wrote: Errr... as a slave margo while I agree I love when Master leaves his clothes on because of making me feel even more vulnerable in my nakedness, I also at times feel more vulnerable with my clothes on too (depending on the situation), and it makes for some kinky sex when I have articles of clothing on and he's completely naked... I don't know if your Master is confident, but my Master is very dominant and comfortable in his nakedness, and I am not.... so it totally depends on the situation for me... Maybe you are just thinking to hard about the roles... its not abnormal though.. I do it with a lot of things too since I am still learning... if your tied, and he's naked, he has you the way he wants you, he's the way he wants to be, and if he just wants to bend you over and take you and wants his body available, then he's in control and the situation is the way he wants it right? i agree that it is very exciting to be clothed while a man is naked. That has never happened with Master but i do recall this very clearly from a past relationship -- and it was sooo hot! That guy may have been on the submissive side. He thoroughly enjoyed giving me orgasms and really intense ones...most times with his clothing off and my clothing on. He seemed to love to struggle to gain access and i recall planning to wear clothing that would make it harder and harder for him to get into. i always put up a bit of a struggle, swatting him away...letting him get to a certain point and then pushing away - Would come a point where he would use his strength (he was a gorgeous and very strong soccer player) to hold me down as he forced me to orgasm...was pretty hot, but i recall thinking that maybe he might be a Master type -- but when i brought up the possibility of him tying me up ,it never happened and we sort of drifted apart. slave margo Next page