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	SD! : Web boards : Service : "learning to crave things you don't like...." 1 2 3 4 learning to crave things you don't like.... (35) 3 Feb 08, 4:16 AM moon_of_Muse 15 mths oh dorothy, that is so interesting about the crying! So of course acting would not work, has to be actual felt real tears, wow! it is very hard for moon to cry, she is looking forward to being with her Sir soon and yes hopefully made to cry, sounds very wonderful on many levels. please let me know how it works out for you? Memo moon if you want please. moon The personal life deeply lived always expands into truths beyond itself. ~ Anais Nin 4 Feb 08, 1:15 AM dorothy US, 12 mths Y! Master is 'working' on it. At our last public scene, there was wetness in my eyes. It's a start. Master wants this because it is a new level of letting go for dorothy. His property, His body, His mind. 7 Feb 08, 4:28 AM 519-672-801 12 mths My body craves the pain of the beatings but my mind does not. When Daddy asks if I like it, I always tell him the truth (no) but my BODY always likes it. I just try to push through it. He knows my limitations and I trust him. MasterD's Pet (519-672-801) - Owned and collared by MasterD 7 Feb 08, 5:38 AM Hers_alone US, 17 mths My slave used to HATE and I mean HATE eating his own cum. Through training he was able to do it without much trouble, however he stated to me that once I claimed, collared, and took ownership of him that his cum instantly tasted sweet and he CRAVED it. He started begging me to be allowed to eat it, whethor I put him in a space to enjoy the orgasm or not. Still to this day he craves his cum when he is allowed. 7 Feb 08, 4:31 PM Mistress_Tiara UK, 2 yrs dorothy wrote: This slave has learned to enjoy what Master enjoys - like anal play. Now i love it. When slave was allowed to get her nipples pierced, Master was surprised at how quickly she lifted her shirt for the piercing -- slave was still pretty shy. Master's new 'push' is to teach his sub to cry for Him. Slave cannot usually cry with tears, and Master wants this new thing to happen for Him. Being a slave is wonderful when you are pushing the boundaries for your Master! I love making My slave cry. he is very masculine and tough and 'old fashioned male', so crying during use is a big boundary breaker he needs pushing to. But when hes beaten exceptionally hard for a long time he will occasionally sob (this only happens about twice a year). More frequent is when I fuck his bottom roughly for a long time so he's crying out, if I keep going then and shaft him really hard he occasionally sobs into the matress. I love that, having him sob his way through a good buggering is a real turn on for Me, and very good humility training for him. ~ *Mistress Tiara* 29 Feb 08, 11:12 PM 296-036-452 AT, 12 mths Thank you all for your replies. I have now really reached a point where I somehow can't wait to be allowed to eat my cum up. I still don't really like the taste of it, but I just wouldn't feel as if I served Her well if i didn't eat my cum up. The experiences you shared with me helped me a lot to realize that I am only there to please Miss Julie and for nothing else. She knows what is best for me and I completely trust Her judgement. 2 Mar 08, 1:33 PM PoisonEmerald 2 yrs I would like to add one more if I may if you can find it useful. Something I often do to My slaves is put them on the edge or in an uncomfortable situation that would ride the edge of their soft limits. They trust Me and I worship that trust. Part of My job is seeing that they get over their phobias and dislikes. Not to the point where they are jaded, but because I can teach them to be confident and safe. Let us say that I have a girl who is afraid of spiders? Each day I help her to become her own beautiful person by asking her if she is ready to handle one of my friend's tarantulas. Some tarantulas are actually friendly and my reaction has been once they see that the animal has feelings too and that it's legs feel like velvet and they are nice to touch like a kitten it helps them get over the phobia or dislike. Maybe a Domme's perspective helps? Either way, good luck with that. Mistress Valkyrie 10 Mar 08, 7:16 AM 393-588-014 UK, 2 yrs Y! bitchboy_x wrote: OwnedByChartreuse wrote: This may well be a common thing with slaves but i absolutely LOVE to do anything that pleases my Mistress and i LOVE anything She does to me. Even things i don't like and would not choose to do, even things i have always refused to do and would NOT do for anyone else. If it pleases my Mistress i love it and desire to do it for Her if the things we do as subs please us then whats the point of being commanded to do them, i worship my Mistress and beg for her commands The point is in pleasing Mistress, any pleasure a slave derives from following commands is a bonus. The greater pleasure comes from the knowledge that you have served well. 10 Mar 08, 1:07 PM 912-800-450 NO, 18 mths Y! Greetings oral sex is a problem for me to. Master want it, but it is almost like a phobia for me. But Master is kind and let me go slowly. However it is something i will have to learn to like, or at least tolerate after a while. But is not that a good way to show service and submission, to learn to like what you hate for the sake of one's Master i wish you all well nephandi 9 Sep 08, 12:33 AM Damsel US, 4 mths I used to hate anal and I mean hate it...it was awful and painful for me but through anal training and exposure I now love it. Frankly everything used to scare me even just the sight of my masters cock terrified me but now I suck cock and like it, can do urine play and some other pretty edgy stuff that would of made my blood run cold before. Next page