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	SD! : Web boards : Captivity : "Controlling Orgasms" 1 2 3 4 Controlling Orgasms (35) Thu 31 Jan 08, 7:44 PM Mistressofmypretty UK, 2 yrs Y! Hello My submissive male (my pretty) has been masturbating whilst wearing his CB3000. he does this quite easily, by simply pulling the shaft of the device up and down, and so manages to orgasm. I lock him into the device when he is away overnight and I want to ensure that no orgasms occur without My say so. Any thoughts or suggetions would be appreciated. Thanks 31 Jan 08, 8:33 PM slave_tink 13 mths As a slave i am not allowed pleasure without my Mistresses permission. i have made that mistake once and She punished me by playing with me and not allowing me to cum no matter how badly i needed to and made we wait a week before She would even touch me in that area. i personally think that is that worst thing that She could have done to me. sincerely, kitten slave 1 Feb 08, 11:57 AM Michael_X UK, 3 yrs Hi, No MCD is 100% secure. All chastity games require people play by the rules and behave with a sufficient degree of trust. Even a full metal florentine style can be defeated with a powerful enough vibrator. The technology isn't there yet. Tell your slave to stop it. If he doesn't then confiscate the MCD for a period. You could check ring size and locking post/spacer length. Try reducing the ring size to the next smallest and if that is okay repeat until you have him in the smallest he can fit in. Consider additional options such as the points of intrigue or ksd-g2. Giving him a ruined orgasm prior to fitting won't stop him but may make it harder for him to orgasm in it. Bottom line if he is disobeying clear orders talk about it and if necessary refuse to have anything further to do with his MCD until he is prepared to obey. Michael. 1 Feb 08, 12:21 PM OwnedByChartreuse 12 mths Ok this is just my view but what is the point of doing something when you are not allowed to ? If you choose to be controlled by someone else (and initially it is a choice) why would you them feel the need to disobey them ? I love being Her slave and the control She has over me. If i cheat and do things i have been told not to do i would not only be letting Her down but i would be failing myself. This is just a personal view and may not agree with everyone but it is how i feel. i am Her property 1 Feb 08, 10:41 PM Chartreuse 11 mths How did you find out about his disobedience and misbehaviour? Did he tell you without prompting or did you ask him and get him to confess? Have you punished him for doing it? Although, if he is prone to disobedience he may also be prone to lying... so, the next time you ask him to tell you if he has or not he may tell you hasn't, even though he may have. If he won't obey you there is no point him wearing the device... let him know how disappointed you are with him and stop using the device... Ask yourself the true reason why you place him in chastity when he is away... is there an issue with trust? Personally, I wouldn't tolerate this from a slave and would refuse to allow him any sort of sexual release for a period of time if he didn't do as I told him to. He would also have to suffer regular humiliation, time-out in the naughty corner and removal of privileges. If he did it again or if I doubted his honesty when I next asked him, I would question his desire to submit to me. C x Edited 1 Feb 08, 10:42 PM by Chartreuse 4 Feb 08, 10:27 PM 244-365-153 CA, 12 mths Mistressofmypretty wrote: Controlling Orgasms Hello My submissive male (my pretty) has been masturbating whilst wearing his CB3000. he does this quite easily, by simply pulling the shaft of the device up and down, and so manages to orgasm. I lock him into the device when he is away overnight and I want to ensure that no orgasms occur without My say so. Any thoughts or suggetions would be appreciated. Thanks i am only a humble kajira and i understand that male slaves are still men and have sex permanently built into the brain, but as a kajira i am pleased to respect my Master's command of not having an orgasm without His permission for very simple reasons: 1. Master commands and i obey every command, all the time 2. Master enjoys the pleasure of seeing me squirm after so long of not having one and giving me the most amazing orgasms 3. tying into #2 - orgasm restrictions not only makes the orgasms my Master allows me to have to be extremely powerful, but it reminds me of my place and gives me great pleasure to make my Master happy 4. i am bound to obey as Master's property i cannot as a kajira comment too much, but should i ever disobey my Master then the consequences are not worth contemplating from my side. my Master is very strict, a Gorean, and it is His pleasure that i come when told to, which cannot be achieved any other way really. May i be permitted to ask, please, if Your slave understands fully why orgasm restrictions are so important? i do not wish to step out of my place here, but it seems to me that Your slave does not or maybe is not willing to comply. If ever i was to disobey my Master, His spankings would be unrelenting and He would talk to me the whole time, correcting me both verbally and physically with every stroke. He has only had to punish me twice so far and frankly i never want to experience spankings like that again. i humbly wish You luck with this matter. 11 Feb 08, 4:50 PM Mistress_Jo US, 24 mths Hi, I don't know if you are still having a problem with this or not..but I will give you my opinion, just in case. I don't think I could let my slave get away with this. My slave knows better. he is only to touch my toy whenever I give him permission. If he does touch it he is punished, and if it is done more than once (this goes for anything that he does that I don't tell him) he is punished in different ways, that way he won't think 'If i do this only this will happen'. In the end you need to have control of everything. he should mind his Mistress, and you should show him that he needs to. Do what is conforting to you, and think about him later. You don't want him to have pleasure he should respect you and do as he is told. I know that sex is on the male brain 24/7. But for him to be a submissive, not finishing should appeal to him. Reward him when he is good, punish him as harshly as you feel he deserves when he is bad. Maybe he is a slave that enjoys his punishment. I don't know your punishments to him. But maybe you could punish him more or find something that will make him listen to you. I hope this help atleast a little bit! 11 Feb 08, 5:04 PM slave2serve UK, 14 mths i have worn a chastity device for long periods and would not have dreamt of trying to defeat it as my Mistress had ordered me to abstain until given permission. i think you should talk seriously to Your pretty and explain Your disappointment and then decide on a punishment which he would find most objectionable. Physical pain,humiliation, being ignored for a significant period, or if necessary the threat of public humiliation or as the final choice to release him. After all there seems little point in keeping a slave who persists in ignoring instructions and seems not to want to submit to you. 27 Feb 08, 4:41 PM Mistressofmypretty UK, 2 yrs Y! Thank you for all of your thoughts and responses to my post. The MCD was withdrawn immediately and has not been re-instigated. I have also purchased the points of intrigue as Michael suggested however after reading your responses, and giving this due thought, I am unlikely to use them. I don't question my pretty's will to submit, but his ability is sometimes lacking. my pretty has disobeyed the 'no orgasm without permission' rule before on just a few occasions, and has always confessed to Me when we've sessioned. Each transgression has been duly punished. In a change of approach I am going to test his ability to submit; the device is no longer on the horizon for him - when he is away from Me, he will 'hang free', and must live with the knowledge that I am wildly disappointed in his behaviour. Compared to a few extra strokes of the crop, or being spoon fed his own semen, this will be a far greater punishment and test. Thank you all again for your responses. Mistress of my pretty. 29 Feb 08, 3:09 AM 996-150-083 AU, 13 mths My Mistress locks a chastity device known as "The curve" on me that is made of glass and prevents an erection. Previously I had to wear a leather chastity thong whenever I left the house and Mistress would check the inside of the chastity thong when I returned home. Even the slightest trace of pre-cum would result in a severe flogging. With training your slave will learn to obey you. Spanked Slave 996-150-083 29 Feb 08, 10:22 PM 977-866-767 DE, 16 mths I also wear my CB3000 as my Mistresses order. I respect and follow this order consequently. Because after few time of wearing it, my Mistress want to see my ordered cum. This means I can't and I would never cheat my Mistress order to cum besides. I respect and follow her rules strictly. It means my Mistress can control the cum if I have orgasm besides the order.And this have hard consequences! In other words: I obey my Mistress Slave Thing, Property of Dueña Katya. 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