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	SD! : Web boards : Poly D/s : "2 slaves 1 master dose it work and how" 1 2 3 4 2 slaves 1 master dose it work and how (39) 9 Jun 08, 12:45 AM 473-995-350 US, 2 yrs I have personally been in a poly - as the second slave. There were definite good times and I adored my Master. But, in the end, the wife/slave had major issues with things that I will not go into detail with and the relationship came to a disasterous end. Based only on what you said in your post, I would suggest that you two need to further explore this. If you are not feeling that the addition of a second would add to your relationship then it might not work. Even though he is the Master and you the slave, you are still married with that set of real life responsibilities that you have to maintain. As a second, I tried very hard NOT to step on the wife/slaves toes. It was very difficult to do. I wanted so much to serve my Master but not knowing if I was doing something she always did or something she never considered doing and would think I was trying to show her up was difficult. My opinion is that the two of you need to have clear and concrete expectations of what this person will bring to the relationship. In my previous situation we tried, at times, to sit down and divide responsibilities and it worked sometimes and other times there were areas that were not clearly defined. Will this person sleep in your bed? All the time? Sometimes? How are you going to feel if he leaves your bed to spend the night in hers? It's a lonely feeling even if you know it's going to happen. I found my pleasure in being the domestic side of things during the day. I took great pride in keeping the house neat and clean even though at times the other seemed to make messes just to tick me off. We all shared a bed and for Master it was even a difficult decision on which of us he "snuggled as we fell asleep. He slept in the middle of us and I became very found of snuggling up to his back while he slept. It did not bother me, but she had huge issues if he turned his back on her during the night. And, sex. While I'm moderately bi-sexual, I was not attracted to her (primarily I think based on her personality) and she claimed to be bi but never wanted to be on the giving side of things. It was awkward. To say our poly had challenges is an understatement. It last only a year and I honestly don't know that I'd ever enter into another one. My final comment is for your Master: I would encourage him to talk to others who have given serious effort to having a live in. I think he'll find that it's not only the two women who have to work through things but he'll find himself pulled and torn when having to cope with two different sets of emotion. I know it tired my Master to balance everything, our needs, our wants, our behaviour, etc. It might sound glourious, but there is a lot of work involved! Edited 9 Jun 08, 12:55 AM by 473-995-350 9 Jun 08, 5:47 AM monika_Pana_Piotra PL, 15 mths i believe it is possible, i've also always been afraid of a situation like this. But you will never know until you try... Recently my Master and i met a girl who is slowly becoming His submissive. my first reactions were very strong, jealousy appeared as i love my Master very much and i thought that i would never be able to overcome my fears. But slowly, slowly my Master is teaching me how to deal with this situation. i know that i am His only slave and she will be a submissive. After a couple of meetings i like the new girl a lot, this in a way opened a new amazing world full of surprises and possibilities. we are becoming really good friends and i am grateful to my Master for His support and patience. This all makes me thinking that everything is possible... The only place where i feel secure, happy and fulfilled is on my knees in front of my Master. i am my Master's sole property, His will is my will and i desire to be His slave, His whore and His servant as long as He decides me to. 9 Jun 08, 10:37 AM Firmandstrict UK, 2 yrs Tell him that you arent happy with another slave. After all, you are supposed to be getting something out of the situation too.......... 11 Jun 08, 11:25 PM 548-973-474 US, 21 mths Well, as a 23 year old gay male slave I see an unfavorable ratio between masters and slaves. On the profile sites and craigslist there are a lot of cute young slaves (who I find attractive) and a few older, often 40+ masters, few young masters. To find someone near my age who was a good master, financially capable of properly owning a slave, and in or near the same city with me would be wonderful. I wouldn't care if I were one of ten, just so long as I could be owned by such a god. 13 Jun 08, 5:43 AM 143-983-458 US, 3 yrs Y! many years ago, more then 25, when i was young and vanilla, my best friend and i were dating the same guy. she worked days, i worked nights, and he worked some of each, it was great, everyone had a friend to spend time with. when we reached the ripe old age of 18 for the girls and 22 for him we all moved it together, we split the bills 3 ways, we all cleaned up after ourselves, we slept in whatever bed and with whomever was handy. we did find that sleeping 3 in a double bed was tight, so we only did that when we all just fell asleep after sex. the 3 of us dated for 3 years, and lived together for one, until our friend went off to collage in another state and eventualy the man and i married. when he needed space i sent him to her house to relax and unwind, and if they slept together who cares. what made this work? total lack of sexual jeaousy, shared chores and friendship between any combination of players. when it works its great. on the flip side if anyone has doubts dont, everyone needs to be able to get along. self doubt, jelousy, or something as simple as who does the dishes better can ruin a relationship, much like many friendships dont survive roommate status. taking my pleasure in His picture=124612 Edited 13 Jun 08, 5:47 AM by 143-983-458 6 Jul 08, 6:34 AM 662-023-642 US, 15 mths Y! hello I am slave 662-023-642 I read your post and in answer to your ? i have to say yes it can work i know this because i am curently liveing with my master and his submissive/slave/ wife of 32 years i have been a part of my master house hold now for 3 years and we are now seeking another slave to join our house hold his wife and i work together to see that he is happy and he is taken cre of after all wht he desires comes above all else. it also helps that she and i get along very well. 23 Jul 08, 10:18 AM Kea_Dan CA, 3 yrs Y! UK, 2 yrs fellatrice wrote: my Master solved this problem superbly, i think ... since beta is submissive to me, and i am submissive to master, obviously his will is paramount ... i love Master more than ever for giving me this lovely gift that is a great idea lmao Edited 23 Jul 08, 10:21 AM by Kea_Dan 23 Jul 08, 2:02 PM ColdHarbour UK, 14 mths Y! 988-477-532 wrote: 2 slaves 1 master dose it work and how im married to my master and we have talked about adding a 2nd slave but im conflicted i love him so and dont know if i can share or how to share. i want him to be happy but im scared that i will lose myself in this change. so i guess my ? is can both slaves be truly happy and live to serve together. Yes, it works. you just have to stop thinking in terms of two slaves sharing one Master and think instead in terms of three people sharing one life. That works! You cannot run away from what is inside you — African proverb 23 Jul 08, 4:11 PM 662-935-655 US, 2 yrs Sgiandubhs_ceilidh wrote: Master has teased me with the idea of adding a second slave. i would give this advice before taking the plunge. Masters...make sure Your slave has an intact self esteem. If she/he is not secure in h/her role, and in the belief that s/he will still be the slave that s/he is with another, then that would not be a great idea. my self esteem is not where it should be and Master works hard on that everyday. i would love to please Master beyond His wildest dreams, but when He asks about poly, my heart drops due to my self esteem of worrying about my position with Master. i couldn't have described my situation with my late Master better- except that He also knew that physically and financially and emotionally He was not, at that point, able to handle two women. So it was okay with Him. j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin 11 Aug 08, 5:45 AM MjSunshine US(IA), 6 mths It can definatly work, I am one of 3 slaves that my Master owns. When I came into the family there where 6 of us. Since then some have moved on and things have happened but, I have never had problems with love. Infact believe that there is more love in our family because we are all lovers. I love my sister slaves very much and would never want to live without them. I believe it simply depends on the people involved. You all have to be on the same level and be equally commited to the relationship, eachother and most of all Master. Also the Master has the very important role of making sure that there is no conflict in the household. He must be able to show all the girls equal love and attention and insure that one girl is not more important to him than another. He also must know whats going on in his house and not ignore it when one of his slaves is having some sort of problem within the house. So everyone must be willing and prepared for the relationship to work and most importantly be open. The slaves cant have the mentality that they only care about the Master and that the others dont matter. They must also see the other slaves as family and care for them as well. They must remember it is not about them it is about Master and his happiness and quite often if the family is happy and harmonious then Master is also. Next page