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	SD! : Web boards : IE Theory : "Hypnosis/mind control" Hypnosis/mind control (6) Thu 28 Feb 08, 3:22 PM 903-251-391 US, 12 mths I'm not sure this is in the correct category, but has anyone had experience with M/s hynosis or mind control via the internet? And has anyone heard of it being involuntary, meaning that they were not aware that, this would be used in place of a real time relationship, and trusted this person, so much that they became internally enslaved to a degree? If so, does anyone have advice on how to break it? Thank you 28 Feb 08, 4:44 PM Semega US, 17 mths checkout http://bdsmhypnosis.blogspot.com it's a decent blog on hypno and BDSM, the contributors to the blog are very open to conversation as well. 28 Feb 08, 5:30 PM phantasm 17 mths I know this much, you can't be hypnotised to do anything you don't want to do. If you are not happy with Internet hypnosis, I would suggest turn off your computer for a week, then re-evaluate your feelings and what it is you want. I would say in regard to your feelings of Internal Enslavement, the hypnosis is providing an habitual stimulus for you, but you must remember a true Master would not need to use hypnosis to enslave you. You should evaluate what it is you want, decide, and act upon it. You want to break it? Turn off your computer, and send it to the Bahamas for a week, long enough to lose the need for the stimulating effect this person is having on you. Personally, I'd call the police, god knows how many people this person may be effecting who may be in a vulnerable state of mind. sasha 28 Feb 08, 5:52 PM 903-251-391 US, 12 mths sasha, Thank you for the advice. I must say it's a little more complex than the internet. This is ongoing for a year and began on the internet. I would assume that being I trusted this person with my life, that he was able to do this. It is not only internet based now, as it seems to be with me at all times, even away from the internet, which is why I added the internal enslavement. I have met this person 3 times and he was able to by looking at me send me into a short period of subspace. I am very confused by this whole thing. I agree with the fact if he were a true Master he would not need to use hypnosis, but I guess what I am asking here is can anyone help me figure all this out? I do not want an internet based relationship, but it seems I cannot escape what has been done. Is this clearer? 28 Feb 08, 6:55 PM phantasm 17 mths It is much clearer, and thank you for that. May I make one suggestion, to search for another Dom/Master, one who you will be able to meet regularly. The other person will soon lose the hold he has on you, especially as true IE may develop with someone who may meet the needs your originally set out to fulfil. It's one way to approach the situation. You should continue to search for the relationship you originally intended. As for gaining greater understanding, I wouldn't wish to make the same mistake without a greater in depth understanding of the situation, but building up a physical relationship with someone else will certainly help, more ways than one. sasha 4 Mar 08, 6:36 PM Devils_concubine UK, 17 mths 903-251-391 wrote: sasha, Thank you for the advice. I must say it's a little more complex than the internet. This is ongoing for a year and began on the internet. I would assume that being I trusted this person with my life, that he was able to do this. It is not only internet based now, as it seems to be with me at all times, even away from the internet, which is why I added the internal enslavement. I have met this person 3 times and he was able to by looking at me send me into a short period of subspace. I am very confused by this whole thing. I agree with the fact if he were a true Master he would not need to use hypnosis, but I guess what I am asking here is can anyone help me figure all this out? I do not want an internet based relationship, but it seems I cannot escape what has been done. Is this clearer? In honesty (and this may sound a little harsh) it just sounds as though this guy has got into your head. I'm not sure the term "hypnosis" is necessarily a particularly safe one to bandy around, though. If the relationship is not what you want, that's one thing, but to (to all intents and purposes) label this guy an abuser is quite another. Just because of what he's been able to do to you ~with~ your consent of continued exposure to him makes it a potentially quite an illfitting label to stick him with. You have allowed him into your head through your trust of him and your desire to experience this. So, you don't like what he touched? It's not what you expected? It's not what you wanted when you started into this? Well, a lot of us get more than we bargain for when we start out (or even when we're well into it). Personally, I'd question this guys motivations in not keeping you informed of what he's doing, not training you in the art of his Dominance over you, but I wouldn't question his character at this stage. Does he know that his affects on you are troubling you so? Communication is a good place to start. If this guy has the ability to make you feel these things, perhaps you need to just talk honestly and openly about how his "hold" on you is detrimental to certain aspects of your life. If at that stage, he doesn't take heed of how his infiltration of you isn't to your liking, if he doesn't take a more active role in "training" your understanding of what he's doing, then maybe you need to look at getting out. But until he knows, until you talk to him about it, to label him as anything but uninformed (by you) is a misnomer and very unfair. "Property of The Devil Himself" 9 Mar 08, 5:31 AM 975-173-980 US, 2 yrs Y! 903-251-391 wrote: Hypnosis/mind control I'm not sure this is in the correct category, but has anyone had experience with M/s hynosis or mind control via the internet? And has anyone heard of it being involuntary, meaning that they were not aware that, this would be used in place of a real time relationship, and trusted this person, so much that they became internally enslaved to a degree? If so, does anyone have advice on how to break it? Thank you i just wanted to add to my opinion to this. my Master does use hypnosis on me. it is an added kink for both of us. Sometimes it just for the “kink”, sometimes it is to make things more real, and sometimes just for relaxation on my part. He has also used it as a training tool. This has been helpful given we are so far apart. BUT before i am given a file to listen to (www.warpmymind.com has quite a selection of BDSM related stuff) i am told what it will do and all that. and if i am not comfortable with it, Master and i discuss it and work through it. Master always keeps my safety in mind (physical and mental) in this. While i may not know all of His motivations (and what Master tells all their secrets?) i know that He does keep me informed enough so i know i'm safe and not going to just be someone to lord His domination over me that way. HOWEVER, i do agree with what sasha_811 and Devils_concubine say completely. If it isn't for you, and you have indeed been hypnotized and given triggers, they can fade with time. Does my Master rely on it solely for my training? No. Is it another tool out of the “toybox”? Yes, and He uses it as effectively for it's purpose as anything else any of us like. Crops, blindfolds, or whatever. And again, it is something we both enjoy. If hypnosis is something you are interested in, and to be a willing participant in, there are those out there who like to add that too. But if this is something you don't like and aren't comfortable with, and aren't growing in your submission….then by all means, send the pc to the Caribbean for a much needed vacation. i wish you luck slave kamea