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SD! : Web boards : Sex & Fetishes : "the gag reflex"
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the gag reflex (49)

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Fri 29 Feb 08, 5:12 PM
S_Kitten
UK, 14 mths 
[Written with permission from S.Master]

is there a way to overcome this? i really want to be able to deep throat Master to the extent that he wants but i always seem to gag. its the same with taking Masters cum, although i found a position i do that from where i dont gag. but it isnt a position i like to be over Master. can anyone give me any advice as to how to overcome the gag reflex - if its possible?

kitten

Masters little Kitten. I serve to please

29 Feb 08, 5:20 PM
Life_of_Vassalage
US(MI), 10 mths 
S_Kitten wrote:
the gag reflex

[Written with permission from S.Master]

is there a way to overcome this? i really want to be able to deep throat Master to the extent that he wants but i always seem to gag. its the same with taking Masters cum, although i found a position i do that from where i dont gag. but it isnt a position i like to be over Master. can anyone give me any advice as to how to overcome the gag reflex - if its possible?

kitten

I too have a very sensitive gag reflex. I am getting better, but still struggle with it. I don't know if it will work for you, but I usually start out very slow and REALLY concentrate on NOT gagging. After a while, if I act like I am going to swallow his penis, that helps immensely. I know it sounds weird, but it works for me!!

I hope this helps you! Good luck!!

To see the world in a grain of sand, and heaven in a wildflower, hold infinity in the palm of your hands, and eternity in an hour. -William Blake

29 Feb 08, 8:07 PM
koala_slave
US, 9 mths 
I've also heard the swallowing idea. I usually just try to muscle my way past it or Master understands that I can't quite do it that time around. Also, just plain practice and 'training' yourself might work.

.:koala:.
i follow Elua's blessed precept

29 Feb 08, 9:59 PM
238-864-563
US(CA), 11 mths 
i also often have trouble with this. Sometimes it seems to be about breathing. Also, for me, if i am in control of it...which i know is not supposed to be the case...it helps...at least at first....but i hope others here have some good techniques because i want to improve. 238-864-563
29 Feb 08, 10:09 PM
bluesky
13 mths 
S_Kitten wrote:
the gag reflex

[Written with permission from S.Master]

is there a way to overcome this? i really want to be able to deep throat Master to the extent that he wants but i always seem to gag. its the same with taking Masters cum, although i found a position i do that from where i dont gag. but it isnt a position i like to be over Master. can anyone give me any advice as to how to overcome the gag reflex - if its possible?

kitten

I used to have a problem with it too. I found that lying on my back was the easiest way. It allows your Master to stay in control. He can thrust Himself deep into your mouth and your throat will find it easier to accommodate. It also makes swallowing easier because it just slides down quickly.

If you try imagining that He is just using another part of your body it might help. No other part of your body would push Him out or try to stop Him entering.

This is what helped me. I hope it helps you too.

My Master allows me to post on the forums but He reads all messages before they are sent and will revoke this privilege if He so desires at any time.

1 Mar 08, 12:17 AM
ombros
US, 12 mths 
practice practice practice i found using a large dildo and deep throating it helped me. practicing using the dildo (it was gel, not rigid) allows me to "control" the situation for practice so that i can push myself at my own pace, pushing harder each time so that i can be prepared with a less sensitive gag reflex.
2 Mar 08, 3:07 AM
627-380-773
11 mths 
i have the same problem...my thing that i do is to just have him fuck your throat continously sooner or later you'll get used to it...that's all the advice i can give you
2 Mar 08, 3:33 AM
silverrose
US, 16 mths 
S_Kitten wrote:
the gag reflex

[Written with permission from S.Master]

is there a way to overcome this? i really want to be able to deep throat Master to the extent that he wants but i always seem to gag. its the same with taking Masters cum, although i found a position i do that from where i dont gag. but it isnt a position i like to be over Master. can anyone give me any advice as to how to overcome the gag reflex - if its possible?

kitten

I use to have alot of trouble with that and still do sometimes. What I have learned to do is one relax the throat, try not to think about it and just let him guide you. Lose yourself in just pleasing him and taking him into you sometimes mind is really over matter. Another thing is orange juice, wierd I know but drinking orange juice before giving a BJ relaxes the throat too, something to do with the natural acids in it. As for swallowing, well what I do is I swallow it with the saliva in my mouth. I make sure that I have enough saliva to swallow it with it makes it go down easier. The taste also has alot to do with a gag reflex, not with my experience with my Master but former relationships. The taste of the cum has alot to do with what the man eats and drinks, especially salty products. Sounds odd but true!! Hope this helps!!

Master Vega's silverrose!

14 Mar 08, 4:55 AM
730-589-155
US(WA), 14 mths 
S_Kitten wrote:
the gag reflex

[Written with permission from S.Master]

is there a way to overcome this? i really want to be able to deep throat Master to the extent that he wants but i always seem to gag. its the same with taking Masters cum, although i found a position i do that from where i dont gag. but it isnt a position i like to be over Master. can anyone give me any advice as to how to overcome the gag reflex - if its possible?

kitten

Hi kitten, i am also a gagger - in addition to the gag response tears flow when i am gagging and even worse, the combination of tears and gag frequently result in a runny nose.... (aughhhhhh) initially i was embarrassed and ashamed of this physical response of which i had no control over, yet never once have i been told tears, gagging or snot are unacceptable, in fact just the opposite, i have been told, it is a powerful experience to see me, on bended knee, eyes begging, tears flowing, and yes the convulsing muscles as mouth and throat are filled beyond capacity...

by the way, in all of my experiences i have never been denied air when i needed it - for me it is all part of the experience - yet as in every other aspect of submission, i bend with complete trust, trusting that i will be granted even the air i breath...

it is my honor and privilege to wear the collar of One.

Edited 14 Mar 08, 5:04 AM by 730-589-155

14 Mar 08, 6:25 AM
MasterMatt84
CA, 10 mths 
My slave also often gags when she deepthroats me...and her gag reflex has improved a lot. When she begins to gag I hold her head firmly in place(she does not realize it buy pulling back aggrivates the reflex more), but begin to speak soothingly to her. I tell her she is doing a good job, that I love her, and that she's getting better everytime. Then...once she has regained her composure again, I allow her to back her head off a bit. Then we start over again. I've noticed a definate improvement since we started doing this. I feel that allowing the slave to just stop at the first sign of gagging will not help the slave. The repeated behaviour will help the slave become more used to the feelings(both mental and physical) and will help them go one step farther next time.
14 Mar 08, 4:30 PM
890-876-591
UK, 15 mths 
Hey, i've found i get the same problem, so i'm gonna be trying out the advice too. If i find anything that works i'll let you know. Only thing i can say is that we usually just take it slowly, and He lets me do the movement when deepthroating. Usually works quite well, as far as embarrassing responses go, i sympathise; i sometimes end up making a funny noise :-$ reeeeeeeeeeally embarrassing...

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