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	SD! : Web boards : Sex & Fetishes : "the gag reflex" 1 2 3 4 5 the gag reflex (49) 14 Mar 08, 6:16 PM faolain US(NY), 10 mths Y! Take it slow.. that is the best advice.. that and practice breathing through your nose, maybe use the same pattern/ritual before oral play.. that way your body learns what is coming, that it is ok.. and that you aren't going to be sick or die/suffocate...and your body will relax on it it's own to some degree once it learns that. Other than that, hmmm.. maybe give yourself, ask your Sir for a small reward after each oral scene.. like have your favorite dessert waiting for you, or if you like something and you don't get it very often.. (anal play, a certain perfume, something) see if you can connect the reward with the action.. that will help too.. (specially if you have a problem with the taste/sensation of cum in your mouth/throat, having something you really enjoy eating can be a good thing and good way to get the taste out, and reward yourself for swallowing it). I will think more and see if I can come up with some other suggestions. I hope these have been of help. -faolain, property of Ebonunicorn. 18 Mar 08, 4:51 AM MasterMattsslave CA, 11 mths Y! kitten, Okay, is the problem that the gagging is uncomfortable or that you are afraid that you will puke? i am not sure what you gagging tolerance is, but with practice, i have found that i can gag quite a few times before actually throwing up. If the gagging is something that is simply uncomfortable, forgive me, but i think you can push past it and learn to be comfortable with it. If the problem is you puking, i do not know what to say. i am sorry if this sounds rude. i don't mean it to be. i also gag all the time, but it has been getting a lot better and easier to deep throat Master lately since W/we have been practicing. Lately, He has given me free reign of my head and i try to push myself further and further each time (which means Him going deeper and deeper each time). i also practice anytime i am eating os using something that is the size or shape of a cock. Those "Itzakadoozie" popsicles are great, as are lollipops, wine bottles, and His fingers. i also purposely gag myself on my toothrbush when brushing my tongue. Also, sometimes He will take control of my head and force me all the way down onto His cock and just keep my head there, which forces me to breathe through my nose and get my throat used to His size. i *think* i have a really small-sized throat and this has helped my throat become used to something being down it. i think this could help you if your Master would allow you use of your head. i hope this helps, nadia "I will love and protect you forever. you are worth any risk. you are not broken" (Master Matt) 18 Mar 08, 12:16 PM 958-888-368 US, 13 mths Y! Deep throating is something that i have been working on for about two months now! i must say it is getting alot easier, Sir allows me control of my head during this. Personaly i start out just worshiping my Masters cock and trying to give Him the best bj He has ever gotten, which in turn helps me really get into it....... i try not to think about the gag reflex and when i am ready i open my mouth wide and then go down on His cock quickly till my nose touches sometimes i will start to gag but if you hold it there for a short time you kind of relax, i then back off a little then go back down all the way a few times. ( my eyes water my nose runs and yes i still gag but it is getting easier) Sir really enjoys the practice..... as for the gagging on cum i used to do that but the more i have swallowed it the less i gagged...... i don't gag anymore when it comes to swallowing His cum, as a matter of fact i enjoy it now..... That one just takes getting used to the taste, Sir did not change His diet for the flavor to improve, i just got used to His taste and i love it now...... 28 Mar 08, 10:28 PM 731-421-706 US, 2 yrs Y! S_Kitten wrote: the gag reflex [Written with permission from S.Master] is there a way to overcome this? i really want to be able to deep throat Master to the extent that he wants but i always seem to gag. its the same with taking Masters cum, although i found a position i do that from where i dont gag. but it isnt a position i like to be over Master. can anyone give me any advice as to how to overcome the gag reflex - if its possible? kitten kitten, i actually asked a friend who has a fairly recognized talent with those really big lollipops how to stop my gag reflex. One of the things she told me was to make sure i kept breathing. i know it sounds silly, but a person has a tendency not to breath if something is down their throat. Also, i have found that pretending to yawn opens up the throat, so if i catch myself about to gag, i tend to yawn around Master's cock to make it easier, and i agree with the pretending you are swallowing it. Another thing Master and i have found is a position where He is standing and i am laying on my back with my head hanging off of the bed/table/whatever opens my throat better for Him. All this from a girl who until 5 years ago couldn't stand giving a blow job and couldn't brush her tongue when brushing her teeth without gagging. 29 Mar 08, 7:35 AM 405-960-999 US, 10 mths Y! S_Kitten wrote: the gag reflex [Written with permission from S.Master] is there a way to overcome this? i really want to be able to deep throat Master to the extent that he wants but i always seem to gag. its the same with taking Masters cum, although i found a position i do that from where i dont gag. but it isnt a position i like to be over Master. can anyone give me any advice as to how to overcome the gag reflex - if its possible? kitten I agree with much of the advice above. Especialy breathe thru your nose, think of "swallowing" His cock/ yawning. Most of all focus on how much He will enjoy your taking Him in all the way. And practice, practice, practice! Buddy 29 Mar 08, 1:28 PM 541-969-139 3 yrs £ a slave girl should be honor to have master cum in her m from a slave i became a dom master come slave girls join me in my slave harem 29 Mar 08, 2:13 PM Nemesis_x UK, 10 mths I too get this. I find it more irritating than anything and try to carry on even though I have come so close to vomiting on occasions, my eyes water, I find it very hard to breathe through my nose when I'm performing it... yet there's something so arousing about how much it pleases my Dom. It does get easier with practice. Try setting yourself a goal of going a little further or holding it a little longer each time you perform it and just try to relax. Lucy 30 Mar 08, 7:42 AM kristolcerone US, 9 mths ombros wrote: practice practice practice i found using a large dildo and deep throating it helped me. practicing using the dildo (it was gel, not rigid) allows me to "control" the situation for practice so that i can push myself at my own pace, pushing harder each time so that i can be prepared with a less sensitive gag reflex. Isn't that interesting. "Practice, practice, practice" was just the very advice I was going to give, and I do exactly the same thing (practice with a soft and flexable artificial penis). I can't honestly say that I've reached any lofty level of skill at it yet, but I sure am a whole lot better at it now after a wee bit over a year of self training. This approach DOES work and you CAN teach yourself to suppress that gag reflex and all of its side effects. krissie --------------- slave krissie // kristolcerone at yahoo dot com --------------- 30 Mar 08, 6:56 PM 541-969-139 3 yrs £ it a honor to have your master cock in your m his cum is a gift to you enjoy it from a slave i became a dom master come slave girls join me in my slave harem Edited 30 Mar 08, 6:57 PM by 541-969-139 3 Apr 08, 5:14 PM Master_Ivan FR, 2 yrs Might not suit everyone but there is a potential mechanical solution to this. Deep-throating can often produce involuntary reflexes like gagging and biting. I've found something that works with my slave. It's a Cressi full face dive mask. She wears it whilst I protrude through the mouth hole. We started with just a couple of inches and then increased the depth as she got used to it. Of course with the mouth hole blocked, breathing through the nose is required, so we use a Demask latex hood with nose tubes. Also, this way, she's forced to concentrate on breathing through her nose and it takes the focus away from the gag reflex. Then we added an open mouth gag that stops any involuntary biting and keeps her mouth open nice and wide. It all works really well and is (relatively!) comfy she assures me. I also think being side by side, standing/kneeling or slave on top is best as slave underneath tends to accentuate the gag reflex. Happy deep-throating! Next page