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SD! : Web boards : Sex & Fetishes : "the gag reflex"
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the gag reflex (49)

29 Jul 08, 2:51 PM
MrRolod
US(OH), 5 mths
Its all about training and practice. If your master is a good trainer, he or she can work with it and change it, sometimes dramatically. For instance, I have been successful in training my slave/wife to cum when she feels my cock stab the back of her throat. This has made her oral talents much more satisfying for us both.

Mr. Rolod

29 Jul 08, 10:07 PM
Kahuna
UK, 5 mths
MrRolod wrote:
I have been successful in training my slave/wife to cum when she feels my cock stab the back of her throat. This has made her oral talents much more satisfying for us both.

Mr. Rolod

May i ask how that actually works? Like how have you trained her to do that exactly?

Im curious

29 Jul 08, 10:37 PM
MistressJet
UK, 2 yrs
£
Well the gag reflex is a mystery and as a Mistress to me understanding is paramount.

In my vanilla life with my partner i too wondered what the gag reflex meant and how to fix it. years ago i found i could turn it off for about 3-5 seconds, then just under 2years ago i met MR perfect, well that was a roller coaster but we found out that, this is by me trying different things.

1. take a moderately deep breath and as you take the penis into your mouth your brain doesn't think GAG FOR AIR.

2. set you self increasingly deeper targets wrap thumb and fore finger round penis at point where you start to gag, come up take in air and go back down to same point for a few thrusts, then move the fingers about a fingers width down and try again.

3 focus on your throat muscles imagining them relaxing allowing the penis to slide down.

4 once the tip of the head is lodged in the throat try and swallow. then come up for air.

before long you will be sucking and licking and deep throating before you know it.

trust and a very supportive and caring environment and lots of praise and cuddles, as is a scrupulously clean penis. And ask your masters to eat more Fruit it helps the cum taste better, also dont hang about swallow immediately theres nothing worse than the taste of oxadised cum.

MJ

30 Jul 08, 2:20 PM
MrRolod
US(OH), 5 mths
There is a lot of psychological control involved in that training. The first step was training her to cum on command. Once you get there you create new triggers for the response. Its a lengthy process and too extensive to explain here. Memo me directly and I can give you some pointers to get you started.

Mr. Rolod

8 Aug 08, 4:10 PM
bottompig04676
US(ME), 16 mths
Y!*
I have just ordered a new produce from AdamMale.com called: DEEP THROAT GEL - Here is the description they give on the produce:

Give him deep throat treat he won't forget. Finally a "deep throat" gel that mildly numbs the throat to help add inches and excitement during fellatio! Fresh menthol flavoring gently relaxes throat muscles to enhance the entire oral love experience!

It should be coming soon and I'll be trying it out soon and see how it works. If it works like they said it would I will let you know my experience with.

Somethings else that someone told me about they say it works for them (but I haven't tried it at this time) is:

Vicks Ultra Chloaseptic Throat Spray. They said to take 2 0r 3 sprays right before - treatment should last 1 hour.

another:

Snore relief spray from Breathe Right

Edited 8 Aug 08, 4:11 PM by bottompig04676

19 Aug 08, 5:27 PM
000-825-440
DE, 5 yrs
Y!*
every master love it to push it deep in. it helps me when i exhalation at the moment when push in. (sorry for bad english).
9 Nov 08, 8:27 PM
MadamnX
US, 10 mths
Step 1First, understand that your gag relex is a relex action. find out where your gag relexes start. Starting from the tip of the tongue, to where you first begin to gag, is how far it stretches. Once you can put a finger on that, (no pun intended) you can begin learning how to control it. Step2The gag reflex is a contraction at the back of your throat which stops objects entering the throat except as part of normal swallowing. But, you can re train your reflexes, so that your mate will obtain the utmost pleasure. sometimes you may have the feeling of loss of control and panic. Don't panic.. Remember it's training your reflex and tongue to do something different then normally. Step3Here's how to make it so you never upset your partner by gagging again; You will slightly enhance something you already do everyday! Brush your tongue right where your gag begins. People you will gag. It will be nasty,not for long, but just think of the many compliments you will get! Spend about 10 seconds brushing that area (and gagging), and call it a night. Repeat the process over the next few nights in the exact same spot. You'll notice you gag less each time you do it. Increase the brushing area. Once you can touch your toothbrush on that spot without gagging, it's time to move the toothbrush further back. Try brushing increasing the brushing behind where your gag used to begin. This is your new starting point. Repeat the process as you did in the first spot. Continue moving the brush further. Each time you move the toothbrush back, your gag has been desensitized in the previous spot. Keep moving it further and further back until you've reached the furthest visual point of your tongue. Be persistent. This whole process should take approximately a month to complete. When it's all said and done, you should be able to take in more than 6 inches, and an object may reach the back of your throat without you gagging. Once you have practiced, keep the lips, and throat moist. Now that you won't gag, your partner will immediately notice the change! Remember, practice makes perfect. Don't do something you feel uncomfortable in doing. This is for those wanting to spice up their love life, and make sure they are pleasing to the fullest capacity. Step4Finally, After controlling your relfex, you can then move to technique. Usually a person can't become good at performance because he hasn't control the gag. The ability to evenly saturate your mouth without any saliva spilling over is what will glorify your partner. Moisture, plus, gag control=Happy partner! But most of all, communication is the key to a good relationship.

http://www.ehow.com/how_2098053_control-gag-refl... = Step1Locate the area where your gag reflex is first triggered. The easiest way to do this is to use your toothbrush to brush your tongue. Start at the front of the tongue and keep moving back until your gag reflex starts. The point closest to the front of your tongue that causes you to the gag is the area you need to start desensitizing. Step2Brush your tongue at that spot where the gag reflex is triggered. Ignore the gagging and continue brushing for around 10 to 15 seconds. Stop brushing after the stated time period. Step3Repeat the same procedure every night for the first week. Brush your tongue in the same spot that the gag reflex is triggered. You should notice less gagging each time that you do this. until eventually there is no gagging at all. If it takes more than a week, continue doing it nightly until the gagging stops. Step4Move your gag reflex trigger back further by extending the area that you brush. Brush 1/4 to 1/2 inch further back on your tongue. This new area is now your gag reflex trigger and where you should do your nightly brushing. Step5Work on that area nightly until you can brush that part of your tongue without gagging. Each time that you are able to move your toothbrush back further, you have disengaged your gag reflex on another part of your tongue. Step6Continue moving your toothbrush back, and brushing a new part of your tongue, until you can brush the entire visual portion of your tongue without gagging.

http://www.ehow.com/how_2252966_disengage-ones-g... ==== Acupuncture may ease gag reflex. = Topical Anesthetic http://www.progressivemed.com/estylez_item.aspx?... = =

Besides suppressing the gag reflexes- swallowers must also learn how to perfectly align the phallus with their upper esophageal sphincter, a muscular ring at the upper end of the esophagus while relaxing muscles in the esophagus and pharynx:} Often associated with various Sidhi's; i.e. Tantric Techniques/Sutra's.

"the slaves shall serve" AL. ll. 58

Edited 9 Nov 08, 8:56 PM by MadamnX

10 Nov 08, 4:42 PM
396-990-852
US(IA), 20 mths
Y!*
Mistress has been training this slave bisexual and used deep throat gel. it works really well and now this slave can take seven inches without gagging.

as for the cum thing, it helps to acquire a taste for cum quickly. Mistress started by saucing all my food with cum, and then feeding it to me in larger quantities via spoon. this slave has gotten to crave cum and in so doing gives a much better blow job.

10 Nov 08, 7:31 PM
subamber1
UK, 2 yrs
£
Interesting discussion. Take a look at the video link below,

http://pcdnv4.xtube.com/watch_video.php?

v_user_id=jrminvegas1&cv=0&idx=7&v=lLb38-S515-&cl=3 JoiK-

S515-&from=&ver=3&ccaa=1

Edited 10 Nov 08, 7:36 PM by subamber1

 

 
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