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	SD! : Web boards : Submission : "is it wrong?" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 is it wrong? (96) This topic is now full - if you want to reply, please make a new post on the board itself. 2 Jul 08, 11:30 PM DarkSado 12 mths Bella_Ragazza wrote: is it wrong? there are times when Master gets very angry with me and will become physical. He will cover my mouth if i am speaking and He feels that i need to "shut up" and proceed to back my into a corner literally and get in my face. He also tends to punch me in my arm with full force when i cause Him to get angry. i find this scary. Master tells me that if i cant handle a 24/7 relationship i shouldn't have asked for it. but that makes me think, would You punch in You car window if it ran out of gas, no , so why would a Master act like this towards His slave? Master says that if i dont respect Him first He will not respect me...isnt it suppose to be the other way around. How can i respect Him if He says " I'm too lazy to train you" making me beg Him to write a list of rules for me , making Him annoyed and writing it out. i think here is a what the fuck that factor that goes into all of this. i dont want to Master myself gerrr. so what Y/your opinions on all of this this ? thank you for Y/your responses. vixen ( the slave name that is never said) vixen Get out NOW. This is an unsafe relationship. It sounds to Me from your description that this so called "master" has a big anger management problem. No, he shouldn't be punching you full force in the arm, and no, he shouldn't be punching in the window of your car because you ran out of gas. These are not normal reactions for any man. And this crap about him too lazy to train you?? A Master Must train His slave. A Master Must Not damage His slave. A Master Must have patience in the training of His slave. This man obviously has practiced none of these. DarkSado 3 Jul 08, 2:40 AM Blush4Him US, 8 mths DarkSado wrote: Bella_Ragazza wrote: is it wrong? there are times when Master gets very angry with me and will become physical. He will cover my mouth if i am speaking and He feels that i need to "shut up" and proceed to back my into a corner literally and get in my face. He also tends to punch me in my arm with full force when i cause Him to get angry. i find this scary. Master tells me that if i cant handle a 24/7 relationship i shouldn't have asked for it. but that makes me think, would You punch in You car window if it ran out of gas, no , so why would a Master act like this towards His slave? Master says that if i dont respect Him first He will not respect me...isnt it suppose to be the other way around. How can i respect Him if He says " I'm too lazy to train you" making me beg Him to write a list of rules for me , making Him annoyed and writing it out. i think here is a what the fuck that factor that goes into all of this. i dont want to Master myself gerrr. so what Y/your opinions on all of this this ? thank you for Y/your responses. vixen ( the slave name that is never said) vixen Get out NOW. This is an unsafe relationship. It sounds to Me from your description that this so called "master" has a big anger management problem. No, he shouldn't be punching you full force in the arm, and no, he shouldn't be punching in the window of your car because you ran out of gas. These are not normal reactions for any man. And this crap about him too lazy to train you?? A Master Must train His slave. A Master Must Not damage His slave. A Master Must have patience in the training of His slave. This man obviously has practiced none of these. It appears that she did as the profile indicates a recent collaring. 3 Jul 08, 1:12 PM TheCaptain IE, 4 yrs It appears that she did as the profile indicates a recent collaring. [/quote] Seems like a very short probation. Just hope it's not "out-of-the-frying-pan..." 3 Jul 08, 11:58 PM 616-763-198 CA, 8 mths Y! I have to agree with most of the posts here. Your Master is a perverted sadistic twit. To be honoured as a Master one is given the trust of TPE from a slave. Punching a slave while under the influence of alcohol or drugs demonstrates a brutal lack of decency and warrants being thrown in jail. He should treasure owning someone who gives up their natural borne freedom to serve a Master. Giving up one's freedom does not condone brutal unwarranted treatment - a slave is to be cherished. I wish to serve a Master/Mistress, but if i was abused like you i would rebel and that Master would be ballless. slave andrea 4 Jul 08, 3:09 AM Bella_Ragazza US(RI), 2 yrs I am pleased to say that I am under a new Master who is a wonderful Man and Im pleased to say I am now truely happy. Thanks to all who have responded I am greatful for your support. a now happy slave girl Bella 8 Jul 08, 12:55 PM MasterG2 2 yrs MasterLT wrote: A good Master never acts out of anger. A good Master controls his anger and only uses controlled discpline out of love for his slave. As a slave, don't ever confuse the brutality of an out of control barbarian for the loving discipline of a kind Master. There is a great difference between a spanking for a disrespectful tone and punching another human being because you are angry. If your Master is abusing you, he isn't your Master. He is just a bully taking advantage of your submissive nature. Get out and find yourself a loving Master who knows how to care for you properly. DITO 9 Jul 08, 10:43 PM 616-763-198 CA, 8 mths Y! Bella: i am so happy to hear you have a new Master who is treating you right. i wish you many years of happiness. slave andrea Edited 9 Jul 08, 10:44 PM by 616-763-198 24 Sep 08, 8:52 PM indarkpleasure US, 3 yrs £ Y! I know this is an old post but here are my 2 cents. I have whipped and tortured and done this or that with gusto and glee but I have never abused any slave nor have I struck out in anger. That my dear gets dangerous. You need a better Master ... one who understands there is a need to Master ones self. As for me ... it is real frustrating to see slaves wasted on jerks. 24 Sep 08, 10:46 PM little_linnet US, 3 yrs Sopranos wrote: I worked in a law enforcement related profession for a quarter century. You are being abused. This is not the life but plain abuse. You are in real danger. Get out and seek help from professionals in domestic violence. The question from Vixen is, thank goodness, moot by now, but I wanted to respond to this. If you think that simply having worked in law enforcement gives you definitive insight into whether a relationship is abusive or not, you're deeply incorrect. By the rubrics given to us by most domestic violence and BDSM organizations, literal M/s as it's discussed on these boards falls on the side of abuse almost every time. It does this not because it's actually abusive, but because it fails someone else's standards for how dominance and submission should look in a relationship. It would be just as easy for you to view some of the details of my blissfully happy relationship, or the relationship of many other people here, and inform us that "this is not the life but plain abuse" based on the tools used for judgment by law enforcement. Krista The thing you have to remember about girls is that the hyperfluid bearings under the camshafts can be miscalibrated along either axis, so regular maintanence is required to keep resonance in the titanium casing from causing abrasions against the primary sprocket joists. 25 Sep 08, 4:29 AM slaveheatherleigh US(DE), 14 mths Krista Ok I am going to try to be nice. But till you have lived thru abuse keep your mouth shut. yes one have experience in law enforcement and the lifestyle knows the difference and there is a BIG difference. I am one of the lucky ones and not a ststistic. Go to a site called APeX albanypowerexchange. They have a wonderful section on crossing the line to abuse. Being slammed into walls, punched, etc. because a master can't control his own temper constitutes abuse. Too many of us think it is all our fault but once you live it, get help and counseling, it is only then you realize it is not ones fault. Too many use this life to justify abuse it saddens me. So please, till you fear for your life, live thru that abuse, don't comment you have no idea what you are talking about. Next page