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	SD! : Web boards : Poly D/s : "Poly?" Poly? (6) Fri 14 Mar 08, 5:34 PM 890-876-591 UK, 16 mths Y! Hey, Sir and i have been talking about poly for a while now as a possibility for the future. i was just wondering if anyone had any experiences they wouldn't mind sharing or advice to give? Thanks His girl His girl and proud of it 19 Mar 08, 8:42 PM slave2master US, 2 yrs 890-876-591 wrote: Poly? Hey, Sir and i have been talking about poly for a while now as a possibility for the future. i was just wondering if anyone had any experiences they wouldn't mind sharing or advice to give? Thanks His girl The biggest advice I can give to you is that you must get over acting out on any jealousy you may have. Feeling jealous is normal. Acting out in ways that are unbecoming of a slave will only cause harm to the Master/slave relationship. 19 Mar 08, 11:43 PM Cav_MN US(MN), 14 mths Read _The Ethical Slut_. It is an excellent resource for dealing with a wide variety of situations and has many useful suggestions. Be clear on what you are looking for and demand excellent communication. Also, post with specific issues as they come up. I could give a day long seminar on your question Master's sweet c 20 Mar 08, 2:48 AM JRCs_petk HK, 14 mths Y! The most helpful advice I can suggest is to read the many previous posts on Poly. There have been a number of fantastic informative posts in the past, they should help to get you started. Some links from the board history - http://www.slaveregister.com/boards/poly/152764/... http://www.slaveregister.com/boards/poly/176986/... http://www.slaveregister.com/boards/poly/164660/... http://www.slaveregister.com/boards/poly/176850/... These are probably not the best posts on Poly that have appeared on the boards, however they are the most recent. The search function is now working again on the discussion boards, the simplest way is to search for all subjects Poly. I do hope there is some relevant advice for you in them. Please, feel free to come back and ask specific questions that may not be answered in the board history. Kind regards, kim 20 Mar 08, 5:06 AM Master_E_Robert US(WA), 21 mths Cav_MN wrote: Read _The Ethical Slut_. It is an excellent resource for dealing with a wide variety of situations and has many useful suggestions. Be clear on what you are looking for and demand excellent communication. This is pretty much the exact advice I would give for a general question like this. Find a reference point (Ethical Slut is a great one) that everyone can use, communicate well and frequently, and face jealousy head on. 13 Sep 08, 8:25 PM ellyssian US(WA), 4 mths 890-876-591 wrote: Poly? Hey, Sir and i have been talking about poly for a while now as a possibility for the future. i was just wondering if anyone had any experiences they wouldn't mind sharing or advice to give? Thanks His girl My situation was kind of different. The relationship my Master and I have left room for either of us to fall in love, and while I fell for Master, Master fell for another. So the poly was kind of thrust upon us. Its really really hard for me not to get jealous, but like others have said, don't act on it... because I really hurt Master and Master's girlfriend when I started saying things because I was hurting... If you can find a way to work it out with the other woman, or man, with or without your Master present it makes it so much easier. I hope this makes sense ~Elly 20 Sep 08, 11:35 AM morgan US(WA), 17 mths Y! communication.be it it is the masters choice to bring in another without the slave questioning it. but if it is something you have talked about together make sure everyone involved has open communiacation without communication there cannot be trust