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	SD! : Web boards : Service : "An Introduction and a Question" An Introduction and a Question (4) Moved from IE Theory Thu 3 Apr 08, 1:18 PM Da_Wolfs_bunnie US(TN), 10 mths Y! Greetings to all the Masters and Mistresses as well as to the brother and sister slaves on the boards. Master Da Wolf and His bunnie would like to say hello and thank Y/you for all the great posts on this board. bunnie has been kept busy reading past posts and thinking about which ones to respond to. If it pleases the Masters and Mistresses on the boards, Master's girl would like to give an introduction and a little background on Master and His girl before asking her question. bunnie was collared previously to a Master who didn't know what He was doing. It was a very bad situation that left bunnie penniless, homeless, and in a very bad spot. After returning home to try to get her life back on track, she met Master Da Wolf. Master did not know very much about the lifestyle and thought (as many vanillias do) that BDSM was something only done in the bedroom. Frome the first moment bunnie met Master she felt a deep connection with Him and wanted nothing more then to serve Him. After bunnie moved in with Him, she started introducing Him to the world of BDSM as a lifestyle. As He explored it more and more, He came to the realization that He was a born Master, something bunnie knew from the first moment of meeting Him. W/we have been togeather for 4 years now. Married for 2 and Master honored His girl with His collar on O/our 2nd anniversary last month. Even before W/we were married, bunnie served Him as her Master. It is who she is deep down in her core and she could do nothing else but serve Him. So, needless to say W/we are both fairly new to the lifestyle. Master has been reading a much as He can about how to train His girl. He would really like to get to know other Masters and Mistresses for friendship and to pick Their brains on how best to train His girl. Now to the pressing question Master and bunnie has: bunnie is disabled. she has limited mobility and would love nothing more then to be at Master's feet, but she is not able to. W/we have looked and looked for advice or websites that deals with training a slave with disibilities and can't find any. Do A/any have advice on this topic? W/we are also looking for others in the East Tennessee area to network with offline. Any help would be greatly appreciated by Master and His bunnie. Thank Y/you for listening Master Da Wolf and His bunnie Master Da Wolf reads and pre-approves all of His girl's posts. Only through slavery can a girl be free! 3 Apr 08, 2:44 PM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs Da_Wolfs_bunnie wrote: Now to the pressing question Master and bunnie has: bunnie is disabled. she has limited mobility and would love nothing more then to be at Master's feet, but she is not able to. W/we have looked and looked for advice or websites that deals with training a slave with disibilities and can't find any. Do A/any have advice on this topic? Any help would be greatly appreciated by Master and His bunnie. Hi, I'm a disabled Master, having switched sides of the fence, from serving My Girl (because she was My domme at the time) for 3 or so years. You might not wish to go into too much detail about your personal disposition and how it affects you on a daily basis, but you may find if you give sparse details about your ailments, that other slaves/subs are faced with maybe similar kinds of problems and may have some really fine suggestions for you on how to serve your master in really fulfilling ways that are suitable for both of you. Service isn't about hard slog and sleeping at a dom/me's feet - 'unless' that's what you make it; I have Rules and have My Girl do for Me things that others just wouldn't have their slave do for them at all, whether they were able or not. That's not to say that I can't do some of those things for Myself either; some of the things she does aren't even Me-orientated, apart from I get to see the results. 'Your' service to your master is exactly that, and you're faced with the dilemma of how to go about it all; how you can please him and you have questions like (maybe) 'how can I possibly serve him properly with limited movement?' Together, you can figure out what your service entails and what he realistically should expect of you on a good, bad and indifferent day; suffice to say, because of your issues, it's no good trying to get you to lift a sack of potatoes if you can only carry a pound of sugar! (example only) A whole lot of service protocols and requirements, I find, have to be geared individually to what you can cope with personally, and as I said, if you're willing to discuss what ails you a little more here, some of the members may well surprise you with ideas for service around the problem. The knowledge of these guys is astounding sometimes, and even if 'we' don't hit the nail on the head as it were, it'll maybe help you think about gearing your service for yourselves. To me, (sometimes), it's more a question of living life with a service flavour, rather than service with living life in mind... Feel free to memo Me if you'd like.. Sean Master's l'il oneŽ(her Rights are Mine in reserve) 4 Apr 08, 1:12 AM One_ofa_kind_wolf US(TN), 10 mths Y! Very good information and insight. My pet (bunnie) has recent knee replacents, she also has back trouble she has fractured her L5 vertbrit and tail bone in the past. Also she has bone spuring in her shoulder, and carpaol tunnel to boot. There are many of the positions that have to be elminated or altered considering all of these issues. Also she has to do adverage things like cooking or cleaning in stages with breaks more frequent then what most may need. she, in My belief, is a good slave and her disabilites can be trying at times but for the most part the adaptation comes natrual. I am hoping though she could get some more info or ideas W/we could both use them. Thank Y/you The One and Only Master of the bunnie 4 Apr 08, 2:24 AM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs One_ofa_kind_wolf wrote: ...My pet (bunnie) has recent knee replacents, she also has back trouble she has fractured her L5 vertbrit and tail bone in the past. Also she has bone spuring in her shoulder, and carpaol tunnel to boot. There are many of the positions that have to be elminated or altered considering all of these issues. Also she has to do adverage things like cooking or cleaning in stages with breaks more frequent then what most may need. she, in My belief, is a good slave and her disabilites can be trying at times but for the most part the adaptation comes natrual... Ah, the wonders of painful L5! I know it very well so I really can relate to this properly. I have arthritis in My knees so I'm well versed in that too, and even at My age, I'm supposedly looking at a hip replacement relatively soon because the joint has just about had it. Bone spurs are a favourite too because my shoulders dislocate when I have seizures. It seems from what you've said that in fairness you have bunnie's training well in hand, you expect enough of her whilst bearing in mind her physical limitations. You seem to have embraced her natural adaptation into whatever level of submission you want to go to. You can base any kind of rule structure around how you want her to serve you with her abilities in mind, and even levy any punishments for bad behaviour using the same kind of thing. My Girl used to be My domme, and knew all to well - and did a fine job of using my own body against me if I fell short of what she expected of Me at the time. The point 'is', she didn't have to do it for long, the punishments were shortlived, service was resumed and fruitful. An example of this 'could' be that I had to do the ironing - half of it On a good day, of course it's no problem. On a bad day, doing all of the ironing was a nightmare, so if I'd done something I shouldn't, she could use that as a punishment if need be, given that standing for long periods, with a sore back and bad knees hurt more. Simple really. If you as her master make rules, you need to be firm with them and not step outside of them, so long as they're not so unreasonable that those goals are un-attainable for your pet. Failing to maintain your own rules can set a belief in an s-type's head that an M-type isn't really in control of the situation, nor do they really care as much as they may about it. That just makes for a bratty and unruly out of phase slave or sub in My book. One of the most important things here though, is not to back off if it hurts just a little bit more than it might if she had it easy one time. Initially, if you stay with the things you know she can do and do well, every time, and maybe levy a small punishment system for a drop in standards, and then expand onto other things when you have more confidence in that as a basic regime, you'll see your 'own' M/s relationship grow, for yourselves, done your way. Examples of ideas you can start with, as basics; you'd like her hair, nails and style of clothes worn your way at all times. dinner on the table on time every time, so prepare it early; household finances keep upto date so you don't have to do them, but make sure she's accounted for every dime; slavery or submission doesn't have to be all at the end of a whip, and hard slog on pain of 20 lashes; it can be so many different things, and all it takes is a little imagination from you guys, given that you know each other best. Sean Master's l'il oneŽ(her Rights are Mine in reserve) 4 Apr 08, 5:32 AM drknsshadow 3 yrs Master has me and faolain use a timer when doing chores. We are only permitted to work for 15 min at a time on good days. On my bad days I'm only allowed to be decrotive, and medium days I am only allowed 5 min of work at a time with 30 min breaks. Both faolain and I have disabilities, and Sir is very good about keeping track of who is able to do what. Flexibility and attention to detail are good tools. Communication is the most important tool though. I know there have been a few threads on these boards that covered slaves with disabilities. I haven't quite figured out how to make the search functions spit out the threads I want to read yet though. I am Master's valuable property. I belong to Ebonunicorn.