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	SD! : Web boards : Poly D/s : "2 Masters, one slave" 1 2 2 Masters, one slave (12) Sun 18 May 08, 6:17 PM dorothy US, 12 mths Y! W/we recently began a poly relationship with a twist that i have not read in any other posts. O/our poly lover is also a domme. She recognizes my Master as the Head of the home and that she is my secondary Master. This slave's Masters are lovers and friends, and this slave is Her lover also. This slave looked forward for a long time to the day when Master would allow a poly relationship but always assumed it would be another slave. Master and i met our Love several months ago at a BDSM event and W/we were all drawn immediately to each other. O/our relationship has built over a period of several months before She became a member of Master's house. The idea of having a second Master scared this one at first, but it is actually working out quite nicely so far. This slave loves to serve, and both Masters enjoy this slave's service. This slave's Masters are so cute together and both treat me with a firm kindness. This slave is so lucky to have 2 wonderful Masters. At this time She shares a home (non-poly, just friends) with another couple. She is making arrangements to move into Master's home full time soon and this slave can't wait to be with both Masters every day instead of just a few days a week. She is my Master also, but she respects my First Master's ownership and shapes Her Mastery after His Mastery. This slave has a hard time explaining how it works, but the communication both Masters insist on is creating an unbelievably wonderful Home for U/us. His property, His body, His mind. 19 May 08, 6:09 AM masterfiremaam US(AZ), 2 yrs As long as there is a clear understanding of who has the final say, I have seen this kind of relationship work well. Master Fire "Be excellent to each other." - Bill and Ted *air guitar* 19 May 08, 8:54 PM ZebulonVirginia US, 16 mths Y! Well, congratulations, sounds like a good configuration. I could be very happy as a secondary master. Of course, I would need to be a slave too, because I have a god complex and want to be everything at once, lol. ZV PS, how can I make my picture show up beside my posts? Thou art God Edited 19 May 08, 9:11 PM by ZebulonVirginia 20 May 08, 7:25 AM 976-188-983 US(ID), 8 mths This is almost exactly like my situation. i am married to one of my Doms and the other has just recently entered my life. The only difference is that the Dom i'm married to is my secondary Dom. The one that has just recently arrived is the primary and the one who's collar i wear. This is strange i know but it is working so far. Things have been bumpy but as the kinks are worked out i am thinking it will be a fantastic situation. i love them both tremendously but with them both being such strong male personalities things can get bumpy but it can also be kinda fun as they try to out do each other and i get the benefits (smiles). Did you go through any special negotiations or contracts to smooth things out? If so what were they? i am thinking we will need to sit down and finalize things to finish the transition to a poly household so any help would be nice to have. In service and in love 20 May 08, 2:31 PM slave_tits US, 24 mths Y! i am co-owned by two Masters. They each co-own two slaves, me and another girl, and essentially trade us off on a regular schedule. It was surprising to me when this began and i had some initial problems with it. But it seems to make Them happy, and that's the important thing. tits just a trained slave who knows what she is good for. 23 May 08, 1:58 AM dorothy US, 12 mths Y! 976-188-983 wrote: Did you go through any special negotiations or contracts to smooth things out? If so what were they? i am thinking we will need to sit down and finalize things to finish the transition to a poly household so any help would be nice to have. In service and in love W/we have not had opportunity to sit down and discuss things like W/we need to. In fact, it is causing this slave some angst. W/we don't live together yet, so it's difficult. After 30 years together, it's easy to know what Master Wizard wants and expects. But, yes, it will take time to get to know the second Master's needs and wants. Thank you VERY MUCH for this comment, because this slave needs for Master S to clarify things to her. ("May i do your laundry, may i rub your feet.....) His property, His body, His mind. 31 May 08, 3:09 AM dorothy US, 12 mths Y! dorothy wrote: 976-188-983 wrote: Did you go through any special negotiations or contracts to smooth things out? If so what were they? i am thinking we will need to sit down and finalize things to finish the transition to a poly household so any help would be nice to have. In service and in love This slave's secondary Master has had some time to let her know some of her needs and expectations. This slave is much more anxious about that than anything. Master S is very busy with Her business this week, so slave must be patient. This slave never expected to have these strong feelings for another Master. The strange thing is, it is not diminishing her devotion and servitude to Master Wizard. How is this possible??? How can a slave give herself to two Masters so totally??? Any 'jealousy' is not for the first Master, but with the second Master. Yet this slave is still crazy in love with Master Wizard! This poly thing is blowing my mind!!! PLEASE forgive my ranting!!! This slave does want to learn and grow in how to serve. His property, His body, His mind. 4 Aug 08, 5:03 PM sweetjane US, 7 mths Oh, I was in one of these. We didn't call ourselves "poly," with all the terminology that that implies (primary, secondary, etc.), and the gentlemen involved had only an occasional sexual relationship, but I was explicitly the servant of both. The phrase "man cannot serve two masters" is not, in fact, always the case. Honestly, it was one of the more intense experiences I've had... but yes, there are often a lot of preferences to keep straight. -indie 5 Aug 08, 5:32 AM petdelysid US, 13 mths dorothy wrote: The strange thing is, it is not diminishing her devotion and servitude to Master Wizard. How is this possible??? How can a slave give herself to two Masters so totally??? Any 'jealousy' is not for the first Master, but with the second Master. Yet this slave is still crazy in love with Master Wizard! This poly thing is blowing my mind!!! Love can never diminish love. If you have one child whom you love totally and completely, and then you have another child, would you expect to love one more than the other? Or to stop loving your Master? Do you love your mother/father/brother/sister less because you love your Master(s)? Love is love. Love cannot harm love. Love cannot diminish love. Love only enhances love. These are things the girl I have loved for some 12 years reminded/reassured me of when I first told her of my love for Cassiel and my worry that it might hurt her in some way. She said that my loving someone else as well could not possibly hurt her, because that isn't how love works. I hope that makes some sense. ~del~ 6 Aug 08, 2:31 AM 942-784-782 US(CA), 6 mths Well stated, Petdelysid! Beautiful sentiments. 7 Aug 08, 3:28 AM petdelysid US, 13 mths 942-784-782 wrote: Well stated, Petdelysid! Beautiful sentiments. Thank you ~del~ Next page