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	SD! : Web boards : Sex & Fetishes : "Oral Questions" 1 2 Oral Questions (15) Tue 20 May 08, 3:46 AM nephilim1983 US(GA), 9 mths I have a question(s) that I could use some help with...my Dominant really wants me to be able to make him climax from oral sex without any extra...'help' from him. Usually this is something I pride myself on, but I seem to be failing in this particular area. No matter what tricks I try, it seems I always end up needing his help to get him off. He's uncircumsized (which is a new thing for me) and I absolutely love it, but I wonder if that's part of why I'm not doing as well? Also I'd like some tips on incorporating my hands into the act. Any and all tips would be appreciated. 20 May 08, 10:59 PM 976-188-983 US(ID), 8 mths This is a hard one. my Master is also uncircumcised and it was also something new to me. i spent days just looking at Him and taking in the whole sight of a whole penis i am proud to state that i was the first to bring my Master to climax with oral sex that He'd ever had. i thought that this would be an easily repeatable feat but it is also turning out to be extremely difficult. my Master has an extremely long ability to withhold climax and after 20 minutes or more of oral i begin to tire a great deal. i have found a few tricks that have helped me get Him there or at least to the point where He can not help but grab my hair and take me. First i think because He is intact that the head of His penis is not as sensitive if you do not pull the foreskin back. To do this you can place your hands at the base of His penis and gently pull down. you will feel the difference immediately in the way His tip feels and the way that He responds. Also at the same time you can slightly constrict the base to restrict blood flow and this will cause extra sensitivity as well. The other thing that drives my Master nuts is to "do the alphabet" on His tip. This entails spelling out the alphabet with your tongue on the head of the cock. i usually only make it to about "m" before things get interesting. Also don't forget about His balls or His "G" spot. His "G" spot is the space between His balls and His anus. you can rub this spot either soft or hard, He will let you know what feels good. If anal play does not bother you or Him, you can use the direct method from inside the anus which is much more effective. I hope this helps. In service and in love 21 May 08, 1:56 AM MasterLT US(IN), 11 mths Y! This is a tough one. I love oral sex, but typically take forever to cum. This tires my slave and frustrates me as well. I am uncircumcised, but have no idea if that has anything to do with it at all. My penis is not extremely sensitive to the touch. There are things that are done during oral sex that I can't even feel. The more full mouth contact with rhythmic, deep penetration, the better it feels to me. My slave can only do this for so long. The best luck I have in cumming during oral sex is if I do most the work. I have my slave on her back with her head over the edge of the bed. I then fuck her mouth at the pace and depth that feels best to me. I have to be careful because she chokes easily when I go deep. It still takes a while for me to cum, but at least I can get there eventually. When we aren't using this method, I do sometimes have my slave use her teeth alot and even bite (although be careful). I can really feel her teeth and they feel great, but it doesn't go a long way to helping me to cum. The best luck I've had with oral sex was when someone deepthroated me the entire time and it felt like she was actually swallowing my penis. I wish I knew exactly how she did it so that I could train my slave and help everyone else out as well. Lets all hope that more people respond to this thread and we all get some help in this area. 21 May 08, 3:19 AM nephilim1983 US(GA), 9 mths Thank you both for the advice, it's greatly appreciated. I've tried stimulating the head as it's usually more sensitive in an umcircumsized man than in one who is, but that's not the case with my Dom. This throws it all off for me! I'm used to stimulating the head the most, although I will try holding the base with more pressure to see if this works. We've tried deep throating and it's possible, but I don't know if I could keep it long enough for him to climax as he's rather thick and one of my problems is that when I'm deep throating by that point my mouth is open so wide it's hard to cover my teeth. Also I usually can deep throat for a while without gagging, but as I said he's rather thick so it's harder with him than most for me. Does anyone have any ideas or techniques for stimulating the shaft? So far what seems to work best is me paying most of my attention to his balls and the perianal area, but that still means he ends up using his hand some. I really want to be able to make him climax all on my own! 22 May 08, 3:42 AM Andrews_cumbucket US(ND), 13 mths Y! One thing i've noticed that a lot of men like is when you grip the base of their penis with your hand, firmly, and twist your hand back and forth while moving it up and down. This leaves the head free for you to lavish attention on it with your mouth. Now I've never tried with with an uncircumsized penis so im' not sure how well it'll work, but it's worth a try. luck! and have fun practicing! LOL http://kittypetskyler.wordpress.com/ http://bdsmhaven.proboards80.com/index.cgi ~~~~ Master allows me my posting privileges. He will deny and/or completely remove them as He sees fit. ~~~~ 24 May 08, 8:46 PM nephilim1983 US(GA), 9 mths MasterLT wrote: This is a tough one. I love oral sex, but typically take forever to cum. This tires my slave and frustrates me as well. I am uncircumcised, but have no idea if that has anything to do with it at all. My penis is not extremely sensitive to the touch. There are things that are done during oral sex that I can't even feel. The more full mouth contact with rhythmic, deep penetration, the better it feels to me. My slave can only do this for so long. The best luck I have in cumming during oral sex is if I do most the work. I have my slave on her back with her head over the edge of the bed. I then fuck her mouth at the pace and depth that feels best to me. I have to be careful because she chokes easily when I go deep. It still takes a while for me to cum, but at least I can get there eventually. When we aren't using this method, I do sometimes have my slave use her teeth alot and even bite (although be careful). I can really feel her teeth and they feel great, but it doesn't go a long way to helping me to cum. The best luck I've had with oral sex was when someone deepthroated me the entire time and it felt like she was actually swallowing my penis. I wish I knew exactly how she did it so that I could train my slave and help everyone else out as well. Lets all hope that more people respond to this thread and we all get some help in this area. It's so nice to know I'm not the only one with this problem! My Dominant and I have done some deepthroating, but his size makes it hard for me. He's frustrated that I can't make him climax and I'm frustrated because I feel like I'm failing. I think I'm going to take your experience into consideration and rather than try all the tongue tricks, to focus on being able to deep throat him and be able to let him just fuck my mouth. One thing I know that works well is using my tongue on the underside rather than focusing on the head, does this work for you? Anyone have any neat tricks for stimulating the shaft rather than the head? 25 May 08, 3:48 PM Property US, 10 mths Property has found it isnt always the physical but sometimes the mental. Master likes to hear property gag as she is forced to deep throat him. Maybe if you possibly make more noises and he gets to show dominance duringt he act, it will enable a quicker climax. ~property www.ownedbymyhusband.blogspot.com 28 May 08, 12:51 AM Slave_Rose_Chao TW, 15 mths Y! I don't have an experience of real oral practice, but when I am with my owner together, I wish I will have chance to practice that. Right now, I am only playing with a dildo which my owner ordered me to have. I am happy to keep it and play with it. I am a beginner for the oral. When I swallow the dildo deeply, it also makes me feel to gag. I enjoy the feelings to lick it and a little bit to swallow it. I wish some day I will also make my owner climax by oral. 1 Aug 08, 4:09 PM MrRolod US(OH), 5 mths First of all, most men don't know a good blowjob when they see it cuz they've never seen it. Contrary to popular belief, just putting it in your mouth and moving around usually won't do the trick. You have to think of your mouth more as another pussy. Try to mimic the sensations your pussy gives him with your mouth. The more of the shaft covered the better. Engulf it. Worship it. Grip with your hand and hold it against your lips, make hand and mouth one tool, one pussy. Long strokes that way work well. Keep the shaft wet with your saliva. How tight or loose is personal preference. Ask what feels good while you do it. If he can't speak to answer, you're probably doing it right. Practice! Offer your mouth every chance you get. I've only met one slave in the last 20 years who really knew how to suck cock well. I altered her technique to my tastes, then I married her. Edited 1 Aug 08, 4:22 PM by MrRolod 1 Aug 08, 4:52 PM MrRolod US(OH), 5 mths Additionally, if you are going to practice without a real cock in your mouth, I recommend not using a dildo. Use a peeled banana. If you scrape the flesh of the banana with your teeth you'll know. Scrapes or tooth marks on the banana translates to a very bad blowjob for your Master. Or use a dildo of the real-skin variety so its more like a real cock. Nothing ruins a good oral experience like getting your cock stabbed with a sharp tooth. 2 Aug 08, 3:31 PM Kahuna UK, 5 mths ive never been with a circumcised man, i think its fairly uncommon up here. ive also never had a problem with getting a man to cum during oral :S So i must be doing something right, but im not sure what. i generally alternate between sucking and using my hands, and try not to just to the same thing constantly because thats incredibly boring for the guy. if you flick your tongue just under the head of the penis (ive forgotten what its called, but the really sensitive part) that can have a good effect. Also using your hands at the same time as your mouth, or use your hands to caress his balls. ALOT of spit is always good. And if you can do it, deep throating and gagging (if your master likes the sounds). Im not sure if this will help, as ive never had a problem myself so its hard to explain what im doing right. but bear in mind that every man is different and what works for one might not work for another. Next page