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SD! : Web boards : Sex & Fetishes : "Oral Questions"
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Oral Questions (15)

2 Aug 08, 3:56 PM
173-682-895
US(NY), 22 mths

the night Master collared me, i gave Him oral on & off (mostly on) for 9 hours. yes, i do mean hours. i have always enjoyed giving oral, but Master adjusted my techniques to suit His desires. i used to use my teeth more. Master is the first uncircumcised man i had ever seen, so that was a change for me. Master loves deepthroating, and i don't usually have a problem until that last inch is in. He LOVES to hear me gag on it, too. He usually grabs my head when He is ready to cum, and controls where He wants it. i service Master orally 2 or 3 times a day (or more!) and i love it. sometimes He cums in under 15 mins., but sometimes it can take Him an hour or more. it took about 30 mins. this morning. a morning without my "breakfast" from Master is not a good morning. Master cracks me up when He's out somewhere and calls me, asking me if i'm ready for my "snack" or my "lunch" or whatever time of day it happens to be. oh how i love Him.

for additional stimulation whilst giving oral, there is a spot, right behind the scrotum, that is very sensitive for many men. rubbing and manipulating that area with your hand while your mouth is busy above can be very delightful for your recipient. hope that helps!

Y/you are never more alive as when Y/you are at risk.
Master's ~one~

29 Aug 08, 1:58 AM
SlaveNeko
US, 5 mths
Y!*
I am also having this same problem with my Master. In the past i have always been able to make men cum quickly and efficiently, but in the year i've been with Master i've only been able to make him cum just from oral once. He is also uncircumsized... He does finish off after sex with oral sometimes though, because He likes the look. I would say that probably you need to be gentle gentle because uncircumsized dudes are more sensitive so if you do scrape them it might shock a guy out of cumming.
31 Aug 08, 2:34 AM
kashta
US, 9 mths
Y!*
Just some general thoughts to share on the subject. Maybe something will help.

The best "technique" I have found is to simply stop thinking so much. Once we become expectant, analytical, or too focused on the what and how of this... it gets real UN-sexy for our partner. So forget all about what you're doing and where and in what manner. Don't imagine what you'll try next after you decide to change whatever you're presently doing. Instead...

First -- Close your eyes for a moment and LISTEN to him. Pay attention to all the subtle clues his body is giving you. Listen for how his breathing changes.. remember whatever it was you were doing each time you can hear him gasp or sigh or groan softly. (And do that again very soon.)

Second -- Let yourself FEEL how his arousal intensifies as you go on. You will feel how all the muscles in his body tighten up as this is building inside him. When he's truly enjoying what you're doing to him, you will feel him squirm.. how he shifts his body position.. how he begins to move his hips slightly.. how his cock thickens, hardens, pulses, or throbs in your mouth.

... At this point, you have now shifted your thoughts from what/how you are doing and you are focused on him instead. This is where your mind needs to be -- on him.. completely on the sensations he is feeling... and on the way he responds to the pleasure you've giving him.

... As you start to notice these signs, let your mind and your body respond naturally to his enjoyment. Let his arousal feed right into your own and notice how your need and your arousal gets stronger. If this makes you even more hungry for him, then let yourself show this. Increase the pressure.. or suction.. savor every delicious moment of what you're sharing together. Transmit your physical responses back to him in ways he will pick up on. Whatever feels right will send him that signal, be it to slow down or lengthen the stride.. or speed up if this begins to feel more urgent. He'll be aware of it when you moan in pleasure and desire yourself. When you tighten your grip.. take him deeper.. pull him harder with your hands on his hips.. or dig your nails into his thighs.

You've managed to show him now how much you are enjoying yourself. This will excite him even more. And that sends his mind reeling. His thoughts will change now, too. He can now begin to let himself go completely.. he's no longer thinking about how he might cum sooner for you... or forgets to wonder if you're losing interest in this... and his thoughts and the sensations will slowly begin to overwhelm him.

Other things you might do that are more specific... tilt your head back to give him fuller access to your mouth and throat. Wet your lips and extend your tongue fully.. sliding it down his shaft until the tip of your tongue reaches and caresses his sack. This does two things -- it allows him to push further inside, filling your whole mouth and throat more completely -- and -- extending your tongue interferes with your natural gag reflex, allowing you to open up more for him. Once you feel him reaching farther at the back of your mouth or fully into your throat... let the muscles in your throat contract around the head of his cock. He will feel this swallowing sensation around the tip.

Also... instead of "trying" to make him cum soon by doing this... try to get him close to that edge and then just leave him there. Don't actually let him cum yet.. just enjoy how teasing him and enticing him this way actually prolongs and intensifies his pleasure. His need for release now will get stronger, the pressure he feels inside builds even more. By the time he reaches that moment, it will all explode at once for him.

8 Sep 08, 7:03 PM
MasterAlan79
AU, 4 mths
Y!*
id start by asking him rather than here, for me i hate it when a slave trys to go all porno, for me oral sex is mouth sex, not oral masturbation sex.

i can understand wanting advice, but not all girls like the same thing, and not all guys like the same thing.

just bite the bullet and ask him, he is the only one who can really help you, i doubt he would be mad or offended if you asked him how to make him cum better.

5 Nov 08, 6:25 PM
slavegail
UK, 3 yrs
Y!*
written with permission of NG1. my Master seems to have no problems when he used my mouth even when he puts a ring/rachet gag in Master cums very quick 5mins regadless of which way he uses me but after he does not loose his hardon he can then take fron 40/60 mins to cum again with very little cum the second time. they are all diffrent you just need to find a way thats perfect for you to use.

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