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	SD! : Web boards : Website help : "What the fuck, people?" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 What the fuck, people? (73) 24 May 08, 3:59 PM MasterJRC HK, 11 mths Y! Sean Let me start off my saying that being a Dom is not to shoot ones mouth off, especially when they are aiming at their own foot. Your singular attack on Mistress Tiara and her point of view was best likened to a pre-pubescent teenager having a tantrum. Not the considered and well chosen words of some one that holds themselves out as having the fluff in their navel well sorted and organized. Singular attacks and then the follow on tantrum when some one has the gumption to stand up to you, highlights the one singular fact, you do not have your act together. I hasten to add, that in the 60 months of being a member of TSR/SD, you appear to have learnt very little in the area of respect, very little in the area of empathy, very little in the area of acceptance of other's considered points of view. You have displayed for all to see the true lack of understanding you possess as well as the ability to not accept with reason the view of others in what is a fractured (factional) differences. Now, let me address the obvious lack of vocabulary. The use of swear words is NOT required to get one's point across. This alone demonstrates beyond doubt the lack of etiquette and the coarseness of an individual. Grow up Edited 24 May 08, 4:03 PM by MasterJRC 24 May 08, 4:43 PM 688-764-833 US, 2 yrs luna_lux wrote: 688-764-833 wrote: ...What I've seen is that all people are welcome as long as they do not misrepresent themselves or try to negate the reality that IE does exist, that some people do live with no limits and cannot walk away, and that they are happy; it works for them..... i didn't realize that some folks meant the board to be only for folks who were *already there*....that's pretty sad. hi, luna_lux, Actually, I felt welcome here, from the start, and still do. (In the interest of clarity: currently I basically live next door to my master: same street, four buildings apart.) 902-660-194 wrote: ya know..you can always choose to leave krista. it seems you feel there are only a couple people worth being here & the rest are just pains to you. of course i always got that vibe from you but..oh well..life goes on right? It's good to know we can always count on you to be ever vigilant for a slight against yourself while simultaneously going out of your way to attack others. It would not surprise me to see you retaliate (because in your world, it seems, one must always lash out when feeling persecuted and you're always feeling persecuted) with a repeat (from another thread) of; 902-660-194 wrote: ... my collar locks, does yours? Krista was the person who made me feel welcome when I first got here. She simply speaks her mind and doesn't “suffer fools”. Leesie. edited for proper attribution Edited 26 May 08, 7:50 PM by 688-764-833 24 May 08, 6:17 PM Mistress_Tiaras_boy UK, 2 yrs Exceptionally well put Master JRC. i used to value being a member of this site so much when i first joined. i have been in and out of the scene for about 30 years and i am saddened by what has happened to this site. Sean, you obviously have problems, you should try to get them professionally resolved. The ability to read what has been written and actually understand what has been said is a skill you need to gain. i am tired of threads being railroaded by people who should be posting on sites which can help them with their ISSUES and PROBLEMS. i also hate it when a thread gets locked because it doesnt sit well with admin, the Limits thread was NOT the same as this one. i rarely post and very fortunately i do not have to visit the site. i feel very sad that something i once treasured has become like it has. Some excellent people have been driven out by Sean and others, it is sad that it wasnt sean and co-thinkers that had been made to leave. What a great inheritance of knowledge, experience, intellect, protocol, manners and etiquette Sean and co-thinkers will be able to give to inexperienced/new people who are already here or join in the future. Unlike Mistress i am not politically correct or very tactful, 'when the lunatics have taken over the asylum i believe it should be left to them '. ~ Mistress Tiara's beloved boy 24 May 08, 6:56 PM Mistress_Tiara UK, 2 yrs I have just read My boys post and have this to add. My boy is a dedicated slave who liked this site so much that as part of his tattoo (visible in his profile) he has his slave number permanently marked on his body. This is a refelection of the amount of investment he, I, and many others have or had in this site. Think how many people have their barcodes or slave numbers tattooed on them! They do this because their slave number has a serious resonance to them, it means something. They would still be slaves just as well to their Owners whether the number was there or not, but their connection to this site was so strong that they consider a number/ barcode generated by it to be worthy to be marked on their bodies for the rest of their lives. That is belief and commitment. My boy has always been proud to be a member of this site, and very proud of his ownership tattoo. The other day he said something along the lines of 'I used to be proud to be registered there, but Im not anymore', which made Me very sad. he pointed to the many fine members who have left since he joined - the example he gave was Phillipy I believe who was one of the first to leave. That someone who is so deeply committed to their slavery, so experienced in this area, and once had so much faith and pride in this site now feels as he does in his post above is very very sad. If My boy had made a post like this normally I would have told him to tone it down, but I believe people can only tolerate so much before they burst. he has held his tongue throughout the most recent fracas out of hope for the future of this site and respect for it. As I said elsewhere however, people have limits. This board means a lot to some people, and it is painful for us to see it degenerate into a place for anyone who has a problem to outpour their every issue even when their problems are nothing to do with M/s. What this board needs is people to remember the purpose it used to have, and respect that purpose. Mistress Tiara. *~*Mistress Tiara*~* 24 May 08, 7:30 PM 902-660-194 US(PA), 3 yrs 688-764-833 wrote: 902-660-194 wrote: ya know..you can always choose to leave krista. it seems you feel there are only a couple people worth being here & the rest are just pains to you. of course i always got that vibe from you but..oh well..life goes on right? It's good to know we can always count on you to be ever vigilant for a slight against yourself while simultaneously going out of your way to attack others. Leesie. ok Leesie.. can you tell me exactly WHERE in my quote did i "attack" her? i said she was free to leave, i said what it seems to be (others agree) and i said how she has treated ME. do you seriously think im supposed to back down & agree with her because she's who?? i'd like to hear from someone who she's made feel small or called ignorant, defend her actions. seems the ones who tell me im attacking her are the ones in "kristas cronies" like i told her,, dont read my posts if you dont like them, k? this drama is so flippin childish & PLEASE dont even try blaming me, im barely ever here anymore. the sting of His whip~ the welts from His crop~ the warmth of His kiss~ the click of the lock~ assures me i am His most cherished possession. 24 May 08, 7:37 PM Mistress_Tiara UK, 2 yrs Im proud to be one of "Krista's Cronies", Krista is an asset to this board. you may not like what she says but she is informed, helpful and valuable. *~*Mistress Tiara*~* 24 May 08, 7:56 PM Chastiser UK, 8 yrs Y! nobody should be asking anybody else to leave. viewing these threads is like standing in the middle of the playground at a kindergarten school. no matter leanings toward dominant or submissive, we are supposed to be adults, perhaps some behaviour that reflects that would be in order. i dislike seeing people attacked and villified, particularly as many simply do this from the safety of their keyboard, often such comments as seen here would never be heard if everyone was in the same room. i am certainly not surprised that some people have left this site, it is very easy to become bored and tired with the behaviour of children. Mike Let Me unchain your mind and your sexuality will follow. Taking part in the Macmillan 4x4 charity event in 2008. please donate to this http://www.justgiving.com/teameuropcar 24 May 08, 8:18 PM Stoney 10 mths COMMUNITY Thats why I came to these boards. I came here as a 'fluffy Bunny' (1), never played as a 'WAS' (2), learnt new meanings for 'mental disorders' (3) and read a lot of anger (justified and unjustified) (4). Is it not time tor a cuppa, a smoke (for those that do) a VERY deep breath and get back to being a community, To enjoying the simple (or complex) pleasure of being an owner, owned, underconsideration, or just learning and sharing as a community.? *Waiting for someone to grab a mug of tea and join me* Peace to All Stoney 24 May 08, 8:26 PM Stoney 10 mths Do you take sugar in your tea. Mistress Tiara? 24 May 08, 8:30 PM JRCs_petk HK, 14 mths Y! May I have mine black with ice please Stoney? Tis a little hot in our part of the world. Next page