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	SD! : Web boards : Discipline : "Purpose" 1 2 Purpose (10) 26 Jun 08, 12:07 PM 879-717-990 UK, 2 yrs In regards to having a purpose as i slave, i recall quite recently, the question being put to me, "What do you think we are trying to achieve here?" i stumbled with an answer because to be honest, i could not be sure. Because our lives are so tangled up in the vanilla world with our duties as parents (of young adults outside the home), our business, our elders, etc, i struggle from a state of confusion alot of the time. i am one person in vanilla, strong, verbal, and very independent, needing no one. The transition from the person that i am, the person that i have grown to be vanilla to the person i am aspiring to be as a slave can be quite bumpy for me on the day to day. i think day to day stated structure, even what may seem pedantic rule reinforcement and training is a way to give a slave boundaries. To give them the opportunity to succeed in service everyday. So during this recent discussion, it was explained to me quite plainly what our objective is(to build a happy successful household together)and what my responsibilities were (to serve Him and to please Him). That makes my purpose very clear. my purpose here is to serve and to please Him in every way. Very important and i chose that to be my way of life. That gives me the reason i am here. i know what end result is expected. What i don't always know is HOW i am supposed to serve and please as we are low protocol. i suppose that is an entirely different topic altogether though! i found reading the Household Register very helpful even though we are not poly. slave tsina 20 Jul 08, 6:52 PM MalyKot US, 6 mths I'm not sure if this is exactly what you are looking for, but this is how purpose and D/s relate for Sir and I. I have always believed and felt my purpose was to serve, but not in the sense of D/s- but rather, public service, working to protect ones family and country and fulfill one's civic duties to the greatest extent. Sir is a dedicated humanist with a fondness for Kant so he too views his purpose as an obligation to serve the greater good. Our D/s relationship then provides for us both the anchor and stability we need to work toward that greater purpose. It provides us the outlet we need for urges, cravings, and elements of ourselves that might otherwise hinder our pursuit of a larger purpose. D/s is how we best express our love also, love that, for myself at least, helps me get through each day. I hope that sounded as coherent outside my head as it did in