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	SD! : Web boards : SM & Bondage : "safewords and pushing beyond" 1 2 3 safewords and pushing beyond (22) 1 Dec 08, 6:09 AM LadyKit US(CO), 3 mths My boy still has a safeword because although we completely trust each other with each others lives, its still a dangerous world and unspeculated things can happen quite suddenly. I feel safer, as his Mistress and owner, with him having this safeword because to me, if I were in his shoes, and something suddenly happened... IE, Asthma attack, panic attack... something unforeseeable... I would hope to hell I had a safeword to use. And so I provide one for him. Miss Kit, Mistress and Owner of Angel. 3 Dec 08, 12:04 AM 814-582-836 UK, 11 mths My Master knows me very well & always knows when i can't take much more & always reminds me i have a safeword if i need to use it. During a really intense session where i had specifically stated i wished him to push me, he did just that, i was right up to my limit, knew i could not take more but just would not say the word, Master asked me to tell him what it was, which i did, after a minute he said "use your safe word bitch!" as he knew i was on the edge. my reply was, no! now im not stupid, didnt want permanent damage or anything but just could not bring myself to say it! Master gave me one more lash with the flogger & stopped. i cried for ages whilst he held me.