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	SD! : Web boards : Practical IE : "Punishments" 1 2 3 Punishments (21) 30 May 08, 6:55 PM dorine_van_Frank NL, 15 mths the_Jedi_of_Gor wrote: She wants to please me and feels bad when she displeases me. She can be a bit of a brat at times but I think it just reinforces that behavior if I stop everything and pay attention to her with a formal punishment. i agree, it would be a kind of reward, all that attention. Although i know many people who do it that way. But it doesn't work for us. Thank you everyone for taking the time to answer my question. i really do appreciate it. greetings, dorine 4 Jun 08, 5:12 AM 826-659-267 US, 14 mths For me, i tend to get stuff taken away, such as being able to go out with friends without him, or even being able to go out period and i get corpal punishment. I have found, that even though i like pain, punishment pain is completely different, its more severe, and more upsetting, because i know hes not happy doing it, so not only does it affect me physically, but mentally also. So for a punishment for me, myself, its a combo of both slave jessi ~~There are subs and than there are slaves and from slaves come natural-borns, which are you? 5 Jun 08, 1:05 AM Master_LT US, 11 mths I found that a simple spanking wasn't quite getting the job done. After a spanking, my slave would say how she would be better. But it wasn't long before she repeated the same behavior. So I had to step the punishment up a bit. One night I made her strip and took her to the garage. I bend her over the deep freeze and whipped her with a board. I then made her kneel on the cold garage floor. I pissed on her telling her that when she misbehaved I felt like she was pissing on me. I then rinsed off the urine with a cold jug of water. I can tell you that this got her attention. She quickly apologized for her behavior. I then took her back into the house to get a hot shower to keep her from catching cold. I have only had to administer this punishment twice - much less than the frequent spankings. If she starts to act out, I simply ask her if she wants me to take her to the garage and she corrects her behavior quickly. The key is to find a punishment that works. 5 Jun 08, 3:43 AM 826-659-267 US, 14 mths Master_LT wrote: I found that a simple spanking wasn't quite getting the job done. After a spanking, my slave would say how she would be better. But it wasn't long before she repeated the same behavior. So I had to step the punishment up a bit. One night I made her strip and took her to the garage. I bend her over the deep freeze and whipped her with a board. I then made her kneel on the cold garage floor. I pissed on her telling her that when she misbehaved I felt like she was pissing on me. I then rinsed off the urine with a cold jug of water. I can tell you that this got her attention. She quickly apologized for her behavior. I then took her back into the house to get a hot shower to keep her from catching cold. I have only had to administer this punishment twice - much less than the frequent spankings. If she starts to act out, I simply ask her if she wants me to take her to the garage and she corrects her behavior quickly. The key is to find a punishment that works. O wow, that is a good punsihment. I agree with you, you have to find out what works for you in your relationship! ~~There are subs and than there are slaves and from slaves come natural-borns, which are you? 5 Jun 08, 3:43 AM 826-659-267 US, 14 mths Master_LT wrote: I found that a simple spanking wasn't quite getting the job done. After a spanking, my slave would say how she would be better. But it wasn't long before she repeated the same behavior. So I had to step the punishment up a bit. One night I made her strip and took her to the garage. I bend her over the deep freeze and whipped her with a board. I then made her kneel on the cold garage floor. I pissed on her telling her that when she misbehaved I felt like she was pissing on me. I then rinsed off the urine with a cold jug of water. I can tell you that this got her attention. She quickly apologized for her behavior. I then took her back into the house to get a hot shower to keep her from catching cold. I have only had to administer this punishment twice - much less than the frequent spankings. If she starts to act out, I simply ask her if she wants me to take her to the garage and she corrects her behavior quickly. The key is to find a punishment that works. O wow, that is a good punsihment. I agree with you, you have to find out what works for you in your relationship! ~~There are subs and than there are slaves and from slaves come natural-borns, which are you? 5 Jun 08, 12:05 PM pirate528x US, 3 yrs Y! Master_LT wrote: I found that a simple spanking wasn't quite getting the job done. After a spanking, my slave would say how she would be better. But it wasn't long before she repeated the same behavior. So I had to step the punishment up a bit. One night I made her strip and took her to the garage. I bend her over the deep freeze and whipped her with a board. I then made her kneel on the cold garage floor. I pissed on her telling her that when she misbehaved I felt like she was pissing on me. I then rinsed off the urine with a cold jug of water. I can tell you that this got her attention. She quickly apologized for her behavior. I then took her back into the house to get a hot shower to keep her from catching cold. I have only had to administer this punishment twice - much less than the frequent spankings. If she starts to act out, I simply ask her if she wants me to take her to the garage and she corrects her behavior quickly. The key is to find a punishment that works. In 18 years,I only had to use heavy punishment on my slave 1 time.She was beautiful and men couldn't leave her alone,she had a hard time ignoring their flirting.The first 2 transgressions were only minor punishments.The third time she received a real wake up call.She was stripped naked,tied spread-eagle(standing)and felt the kiss of my single-tail.I never had that problem again. MT 5 Jun 08, 11:22 PM Quiet_Master 7 mths I have always preferred non-physical punishments over physical because I think that they are more effective. I have found that telling a slave that you are disappointed with them has far more impact than say using a cane on them. Having said that, using a physical punishment particularly on a slave who doesn't like pain can be effective in the right circumstances. 6 Jun 08, 10:28 AM dorine_van_Frank NL, 15 mths Thank you for replying! i've been reading a bit more on this board about discipline and correction and punishment. Interesting! It's a very personall thing how this devellops. Somehow it strikes me as a bit strange that in some relationships the punishment system or the system of discipline stays the same for years. In other relationships it changes quite a bit (Like in ours). just a thought about this topic. It will probably come back somewhere again. greetings, dorine 3 Sep 08, 5:24 PM slavegail UK, 3 yrs Y! written with permission of NG1. this slave does not look for punishment but accepts it as part of her lifestyle. slave Owners do not punish slave because they can but because she breaks their rules and limits but also with them them is no "you do that again." does it hurt Yes do I cry Yes does it mark me Yes do they make me bleed NO slavegail Property of NG1 15 Sep 08, 4:03 PM 122-760-889 UK, 22 mths I feel there are at least two ways of being punished. I am frequently punished physicallyeither just from owner or by owner in front of hisfriends Face slapping seems to his favourite at the moment and he gladly lets his selcted friends (especially women) do it too other forms of corporal punish ment are frequently carried out by the use of a latex tawse (inside of thighs,bottom,breasts. slave lisa Next page