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SD! : Web boards : Online & LDR BDSM : "Distance punishment"

Distance punishment (9)

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Wed 28 May 08, 4:22 PM
365-195-714
IT, 8 mths
Does anybody knows any kind of remote eletronic punishment?? I'm lookinf for somethig that could eighter give an electrick shock to your ass or something simar..... it would also be nice to know if there exist any system that by pressing a button on a remote would releas little bit of enema solution.
29 May 08, 6:00 AM
masterfiremaam
US(AZ), 2 yrs

I used to be in the profession of physics demos. Several of my colleagues tried the following. I imagine it might work with remote control toys, too. You'd have to experiment.

One person had the remote unlocking keychain for a car and were across town. The other person stood by the car, simulating locking someone who had locked their keys in the car. They talked on their cell phones to each other. The guy with the keychain pointed it so the signal went into the receiver of the cell phone while the other guy held his cell phone toward the lock on the car. The lock popped open.

Sometimes, it didn't work. That was attributed to several possible things: low signal, poor quality of transmission and operator error on the part of both people.

Master Fire

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Oh Hai! Blessinz of teh Ceiling Cat be apwn yu, srsly.
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29 May 08, 10:54 PM
842-117-802
CA, 9 mths
Depends how much distance you're looking for and what your tech levels are, but conceivably you could build such an item using the software and hardware for the internet-enabled vibrators. I think I could build it, anyways.

Property and pet of Master_Latrans

30 May 08, 9:29 AM
365-195-714
IT, 8 mths
842-117-802 wrote:
Depends how much distance you're looking for and what your tech levels are, but conceivably you could build such an item using the software and hardware for the internet-enabled vibrators. I think I could build it, anyways.
Where Can I find it?
6 Jun 08, 3:43 PM
914-412-620
FI, 2 yrs

365-195-714 wrote:
Distance punishment

Does anybody knows any kind of remote eletronic punishment??

My LDR Mistress has tortured me in a msn chat. I arranged so that when She sent me a "nudge" a torture-signal played (Tools/Options/Alerts and Sounds). I amplified that signal with a stereo amplifier and I had the loudspeaker cables attached to my pathetic penis. She was able to see me wriggling of pain thanks to webcam.

Born to worship women.

6 Jun 08, 5:08 PM
842-117-802
CA, 9 mths
365-195-714 wrote:
842-117-802 wrote:
Depends how much distance you're looking for and what your tech levels are, but conceivably you could build such an item using the software and hardware for the internet-enabled vibrators. I think I could build it, anyways.
Where Can I find it?

http://www.therabbitvibrator.com/index.asp?PageA...

Property and pet of Master_Latrans

1 Oct 08, 7:10 AM
265-997-500
US(AK), 6 mths
365-195-714 wrote:
Distance punishment

Does anybody knows any kind of remote eletronic punishment?? I'm lookinf for somethig that could eighter give an electrick shock to your ass or something simar..... it would also be nice to know if there exist any system that by pressing a button on a remote would releas little bit of enema solution.

i know there are vibrators and such that can be triggered by a cell phone. perhaps your M could devise some method of using this for punishment

http://www.extremerestraints.com/remote-sex-toys...

laffs, okay, just saw original post date. am guessing you probably have this well in hand by now

1 Oct 08, 8:51 AM
613-411-535
4 mths
submissy wrote:
so here i am again... i cant sleep again tonight and i thought maybe..if i wrote something it might help. it has been a LONG 2 days..yesterday i mad SIR mad again.. in return HE has chosen to break contact with me. i am struggling with my own feelings right now, the feelings of abandonment and loneliness from this break in communication. Each day we share multiple phone conversations and text messages chatting on instant messenger, these things i have been denied.. Aware of the fact my focus is to be on HIM, these feelings have began to empty me. i sit here feeling like the shell the hermit crab has ditched for a new shell. Not that HE is looking for another, but i feel left behind and empty. Every night without fail we say "Good night" this is the second night i have gone without this privilege. Yes, i see the words i have typed..it is a Privilege.. i have asked multiple time what HE wants of me..how can i make things better.. HE gives me no advise.. my example of what went wrong is this.. Trying to teach a blind person what the colors of a rainbow are and to have to explain them with never seeing... Of course it is a bit dramatic my example i know, but, HE tried to teach me a task and i was not getting it at all. i tried got frustrated and before i got more frustrated i said it was to hard. HE lost HIS faith in me, HE was done trying, i understand HIS frustration too, in the end i did complete the task alone, and here i am, alone..i miss HIM so and feel so alone.How can i let go of my own feelings of sadness although i know part of it is because i disappointed HIM, Being so far apart is the worst part. Maybe i am just not worthy enough........

I feel for you, because I know exactly what you mean. None of the traditional physical punishments have ever been real punishments for me. I have a couple of times suffered withdrawal of contact, as you are now suffering, and I know that is the only real punishment. Have faith. It's hard, but it will end.

I too know about being given tasks without guidance. Maybe this is how your Master gets to know you better. You have to be yourself in dealing with the problem, not simply reflecting your Master's likes. He also sees how you deal with frustration.

In my present relationship, I get only the most general guidance because she wants to know me. We have been together only a few months and I am learning to empty my mind before her, tell her about my life, my fantasies, everything. This knowledge gives her power. She will not tell me anything about what she has planned, so I cannot prepare or anticipate.

Dealing with your sadness and frustration will make you stronger.

7 Oct 08, 7:08 AM
bratitude
US(AZ), 16 mths

submissy wrote:
i miss HIM so and feel so alone.How can i let go of my own feelings of sadness although i know part of it is because i disappointed HIM, Being so far apart is the worst part. Maybe i am just not worthy enough........

i won't say you can let go of your own feelings but if nothing else you are learning from them. Disappointment coupled with silence is the hardest to cope with in my opinion. my Sir and i share much the same things you and your Sir do.

Time tempered lessons are sometimes the most difficult and every once in awhile i do something or say something (or don't do something or say something) that i instantly regret and understand pay i must. i guess the biggest part of that weight to bear is that i know he wants the special moments and conversations as much as i and it is also in that moment when i hear the disappointment in His voice i realize not only have i ruined that for the moment but i have taken Him for granted... and yes, in that moment i don't feel worthy.

But... when its all said and done and i am back in my Sir's graces i am reminded that to Him i am worthy to be His... until or unless He sees fit to change that.

Cryptic1's devoted bratitude "...The sweetest infection of body and mind; Sweetest injection of any kind..." Depeche Mode

7 Oct 08, 5:51 PM
Binder
US, 4 mths
submissy wrote:
so here i am again... i cant sleep again tonight and i thought maybe..if i wrote something it might help. it has been a LONG 2 days..yesterday i mad SIR mad again.. in return HE has chosen to break contact with me. i am struggling with my own feelings right now, the feelings of abandonment and loneliness from this break in communication. Each day we share multiple phone conversations and text messages chatting on instant messenger, these things i have been denied.. Aware of the fact my focus is to be on HIM, these feelings have began to empty me. i sit here feeling like the shell the hermit crab has ditched for a new shell. Not that HE is looking for another, but i feel left behind and empty. Every night without fail we say "Good night" this is the second night i have gone without this privilege. Yes, i see the words i have typed..it is a Privilege.. i have asked multiple time what HE wants of me..how can i make things better.. HE gives me no advise.. my example of what went wrong is this.. Trying to teach a blind person what the colors of a rainbow are and to have to explain them with never seeing... Of course it is a bit dramatic my example i know, but, HE tried to teach me a task and i was not getting it at all. i tried got frustrated and before i got more frustrated i said it was to hard. HE lost HIS faith in me, HE was done trying, i understand HIS frustration too, in the end i did complete the task alone, and here i am, alone..i miss HIM so and feel so alone.How can i let go of my own feelings of sadness although i know part of it is because i disappointed HIM, Being so far apart is the worst part. Maybe i am just not worthy enough........

it is MY hope that by now (10/7/08), that things are better for the T/two of you.

 

 
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