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	SD! : Web boards : Discipline : "How to punish in public" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 How to punish in public (64) 1 Jun 08, 4:59 PM Blush4Him US, 8 mths masterfiremaam wrote: I don't actually have a punishment system. I don't work well with people who are motivated by negative things and who exhibit poor behavior...and have no desire to correct their behavior to what they know I prefer. I suggest you go to alt.com to find the answers you seek. Master Fire I love this response and agree with it completely. My Daddy hates punishing me just as much as I hate disappointing him. That being said, a sharp look or a whispered "bad girl" would break me down completely and obviously the misbehavior would end. 2 Jun 08, 5:44 PM Master_Latrans US(OK), 8 mths Y! It seems like you are intentionally misbehaving to be punished. I know that in most D/s or M/s situations the Master/Mistress/Dom/Domme need only give a glare and a sharp word to quell any misbehavior, but if this is not the case in your situation I'd suggest talking to your Mistress about alternate punishments. I find that if humiliation isn't working, and extended orgasm denial/sex denial may work as an effective punishment for long term. I also find that a dog choker chain wrapped around the male genitals, with the end that the leash normally goes on, resting outside the pants through a belt loop works well. The only thing your Mistress need do with that is give a sharp tug and She will have your attention, and depending on how hard She pulls it, may use it as an effective punishment on its own. (NOTES) (One could also incorporate an E-Stim to the chain for electro-torture along with the genital torture/bondage) (I would suggest using the cloth chokers with the metal rings for the least, not the all steel models, because the all steel models can cause genital harm due to pinching Edited 2 Jun 08, 5:49 PM by Master_Latrans 3 Jun 08, 10:57 AM 365-195-714 IT, 8 mths Master_Latrans wrote: It seems like you are intentionally misbehaving to be punished. I know that in most D/s or M/s situations the Master/Mistress/Dom/Domme need only give a glare and a sharp word to quell any misbehavior, but if this is not the case in your situation I'd suggest talking to your Mistress about alternate punishments. I find that if humiliation isn't working, and extended orgasm denial/sex denial may work as an effective punishment for long term. I also find that a dog choker chain wrapped around the male genitals, with the end that the leash normally goes on, resting outside the pants through a belt loop works well. The only thing your Mistress need do with that is give a sharp tug and She will have your attention, and depending on how hard She pulls it, may use it as an effective punishment on its own. (NOTES) (One could also incorporate an E-Stim to the chain for electro-torture along with the genital torture/bondage) (I would suggest using the cloth chokers with the metal rings for the least, not the all steel models, because the all steel models can cause genital harm due to pinching This is a good idea....I have proposed it to Her and She said that we are going to try it.....any other good idea??? 4 Jun 08, 12:04 AM iinarihoudai US, 20 mths Master does not punish me in public, not physically anyway. He gives me a "the look" of warning if I am beginning to get too snarky, and sometimes he'll simply take away a privilege or cut our time short or decide not to get me the item he was going to get me. He'll take away my free time in various ways. I acted so horribly once that he took away my weekend, no church, no going anywhere, no computer time except to put music on, and I had to clean the whole downstairs area which was such a chore since we had only been living here for two months. Egads. Punishment comes when I am displeasing Master, and receiving punishment is not a pleasant experience. I'm a masochist and to prevent me from getting to the point where I'd misbehave to get some pain going on he ended physical (or pain) punishment. iinarihoudai "Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." -Jesus Christ, Hebrews 11:1 www.livejournal.com/users/dannasamanoiiko 6 Jun 08, 8:27 AM ftm_slave_boy_brando US(NC), 14 mths Y! With my former Daddy i always got a look knowing i was gonna be punished..she just had this look wheere you knew you were gonna be punished later when we got home and i did get punished for what i did.....i always knew when i was i trouble by "the look" and that was it ...i knew i was in trouble. i rad my former Daddy by the back of my hand ...that was wat was so great about us...i am sorry i am no longer with Hym but i am with someone new now and She is very lenint with me but i wish She was more strict....oh well.... slave boy/boi brandon ::kneeling at Lady Glorias feet:: Rememer my name You'll be screaming it later 8 Jun 08, 6:07 AM All_American_Heretic US, 8 mths If you MUST punish then would it really be a bad idea to save the punishment for later when you are behind closed doors? And wouldn't it be a mental punishment knowing that a physical punishment is inevitable? Edited 8 Jun 08, 6:09 AM by All_American_Heretic 8 Jun 08, 12:31 PM anjuli UK, 18 mths It would if this WAS punishment and not a game. I just wonder why we're all feeding this thread when it's so clearly not an M/s relationship as we would understand it. Or am I just grumpy today? Whose M-type here would put up with ... she knows if she stopped the game my beaviour would be worse... just tell me where I can buy e-stim toys for her to use on me??? Give me a break! The only one in charge and running the show in this relationship is his cock! If it is D/s or M/s then this is brattiness and topping from the bottom of the worst order. If it's a kink game then fine but don't dress it up as M/s because it isn't. For that you have to forget your own desires and focus on your M's!!! You have to want to please for punishment to work. anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ 8 Jun 08, 2:56 PM AnathemaMaster US(IL), 8 mths Y! anjuli wrote: It would if this WAS punishment and not a game. ... Give me a break! The only one in charge and running the show in this relationship is his cock! If it is D/s or M/s then this is brattiness and topping from the bottom of the worst order. If it's a kink game then fine but don't dress it up as M/s because it isn't. ... anjuli Once again, Anjuli, right. (Or, spot on!) Enough. Solitudinem faciunt pacem appellant. Tacitus 8 Jun 08, 4:44 PM MMbrat US(IN), 7 mths Y! Not being a sammy, I never get punished out in public. As it is I have only been punished twice in the three years I have been collared. I see no need to get myself punished. I know that if I need scened, all I have to do is ask. It is not in me to screw up, whether in public, or private. I take my position very seriously, and would not embarrass Mistress in public like that. I am here to serve Her, not manipulate Her into giving me pain because I screw up on purpose. To my way of thinking, that would be Topping from the bottom. Besides, Mistress and I are so in tune that all She has to do is give me "The Look", and I settle down. The one time I was punished, it was six blowes with a one gallon wooden paint stirrer stick. It didn't produce any physical pain, but did leave me feeling like dirt for three days. It's not the amount of pain (I'm a masochist)applied, but rather the fact that She was actually disappointed in me enough to actually punish me in the first place. Best of luck with your journey with your One. MMbrat. Edited 8 Jun 08, 4:47 PM by MMbrat 9 Jun 08, 11:16 PM Rogers_Deb0rah UK, 7 yrs MMbrat wrote: Not being a sammy, MMbrat. Explain please? Deb "Woman in her greatest perfection was made to serve and obey man." John Knox Next page