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	SD! : Web boards : Discipline : "How to punish in public" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 How to punish in public (64) 10 Jun 08, 12:42 AM MMbrat US(IN), 7 mths Y! I would say modify the dog shock collar using e-stim type toys as the electrodes. I have seen collars where the studs that carry the current were modified, and rounded to make it suitable to bdsm use. I see no reason the contacts on such a unit could not be made remote by the addition of wires where the studs would normally go. Any competent electrician, or hobbyist could do this with a soldering iron and a few minutes time. Have fun! MMbrat. MMbrat. 10 Jun 08, 6:01 PM 671-128-291 US(TN), 9 mths Y! A rubber band worn on the wrist as a bracelet can be effective. When sub is bad, pull the rubber band really far and let go. It's quick, painful, and not so noticeable. I too wear diapers and my Daddy often will just give 1 spank loud enough to indicate I am wearing a diaper. Vanilla couples smack each other's butts, so it looks harmless and diapers make a hollow, crinkly sound when being hit. Sometimes, he will just talk very loudly about the fact that I am wearing a diaper or that I need them. Things like this. While messing in public is very humiliating, if you do not have quick access to a place where you can be changed, it can be interfering with people who are not involved in your situation. I've been shopping before where there are biobabies who need to be changed and I have gotten very upset with their parents for continuing to shop while I have to smell their child's dirty diaper. The smell is stronger with an adult and will cause much bigger reactions. I would suggest that if you plan on doing this, do it at the mall or a place that has the solitary "family" restrooms. These are great for changing and will increase the humiliation as you have to walk to the changing room in a messy diaper. Also the changing tables are pretty big. I'm 5'3" and I fit on one perfectly. Good luck! 10 Jun 08, 7:34 PM MMbrat US(IN), 7 mths Y! Anjuli, I agree 100 %. Pleasing Her is my only desire. To know I have somehow angered Her tears me apart. I can't stand the thought of doing something deliberately to get punished. To me, pain is reward, not punishment. The silent treatment, now, is a different story. So is caging AWAY from your Dominant. These things hurt, but not in a way I like, so the simple threat of knowing I could be treated in such a manner is more than enough. Actually, Mistress is proud of the fact that even though I'm a brat to the max, I'm not a sammy. If I need pain, I ask. I don't act up. I wouldn't embarrass Her that way. I take pride in my training, and in my Collar. :D MMbrat. 11 Jun 08, 5:02 PM 365-195-714 IT, 8 mths I Belive you are not right.....if it was me rooling then I would not wear diapers nighter get spanked so hard or be forced to soil my diaper. 11 Jun 08, 5:32 PM Blush4Him US, 8 mths deb0rah wrote: MMbrat wrote: Not being a sammy, MMbrat. Explain please? Deb Yes, I'm interested in the explanation as well. 17 Jun 08, 9:46 AM MMbrat US(IN), 7 mths Y! I have a nasty little idea that might work, but is not high tech, nor electrical. If your Mistress wears rings, especially the kind that protrude, She can reverse it so it sticks down towards Her palm, then "gently" pat you on the back of the hand. This might not sound luke much, but there is a small nerve at the top of the hand that really hurts if bumped too hard. With a little effort, I'm sure your Mistress can learn exactly where to "pat" the top of your hand just right, and hit that nerve with the ring. Realise, this is not play, but actual punishment. It apears to others that your Mistress is just patting your hand, but the truth is, this punishment hurts, and not in a good way. Best of luck in Y/your Journey together. MMbrat. 17 Jun 08, 10:32 AM anjuli UK, 18 mths Blush4Him wrote: deb0rah wrote: MMbrat wrote: Not being a sammy, MMbrat. Explain please? Deb Yes, I'm interested in the explanation as well. A smart ass masochist. A SAM. Not a good thing to be please note! A masochist who does not know how to ask for what they need but instead makes a habit of acting up so making people around them annoyed. Sounds right to me. anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ Edited 17 Jun 08, 10:33 AM by anjuli 17 Jun 08, 12:55 PM Blush4Him US, 8 mths anjuli wrote: Blush4Him wrote: deb0rah wrote: MMbrat wrote: Not being a sammy, MMbrat. Explain please? Deb Yes, I'm interested in the explanation as well. A smart ass masochist. A SAM. Not a good thing to be please note! A masochist who does not know how to ask for what they need but instead makes a habit of acting up so making people around them annoyed. Sounds right to me. anjuli Yes, I know what it is - perhaps I should have requoted the rest of it. Her statement was: Not being a sammy, I never get punished out in public. So only a sammy gets punished in public? LOL. I'm not even a masochist. That was what I was questioning, but thank you Anjuli. 23 Jun 08, 7:11 PM Chartreuse 11 mths Ms_Valentine wrote: My sub paul ( I don't do slaves) is never punished in public. This is partly because he is so very rarely disobedient that there is little need for punishment as such. I personally would not enjoy punishing him in public and given the ways I do punish, that would not be feasible. If paul had misbehaved in any way, a certain look from me or short sharp comment would be enough to know that he is in trouble. Punishment would occur at home at the earliest convenient moment if necessary. Normally that look from me or a hissed admonishment puts him back in a very meek mood immediately. I think a sub should not need more than sharp word to bring them back into line in public or private. If you have to punish too much or all the time then something is wrong with the training, how it has been received and understood or something else fundamental in the relationship. I like to keep things as simple as possible as it helps the sub and it helps me. He cannot misconstrue the meaning of my look or sharp words. Generally, the look or verbal correction is punishment enough as paul is mortified when he has displeased me. I agree with this method - a look or whispered words can often be enough. If my sub/slave behaved so badly in public that he required a punishment it would be done when I got him home. If what he did was bad enough to really annoy me he would be sent home immediately, alone. Fortunately, my slave knows how to behave in public, if I had one that didn't he wouldn't be allowed to accompany me in public. 23 Jun 08, 11:01 PM pirate528x US, 3 yrs Y! Chartreuse wrote: Ms_Valentine wrote: My sub paul ( I don't do slaves) is never punished in public. This is partly because he is so very rarely disobedient that there is little need for punishment as such. I personally would not enjoy punishing him in public and given the ways I do punish, that would not be feasible. If paul had misbehaved in any way, a certain look from me or short sharp comment would be enough to know that he is in trouble. Punishment would occur at home at the earliest convenient moment if necessary. Normally that look from me or a hissed admonishment puts him back in a very meek mood immediately. I think a sub should not need more than sharp word to bring them back into line in public or private. If you have to punish too much or all the time then something is wrong with the training, how it has been received and understood or something else fundamental in the relationship. I like to keep things as simple as possible as it helps the sub and it helps me. He cannot misconstrue the meaning of my look or sharp words. Generally, the look or verbal correction is punishment enough as paul is mortified when he has displeased me. I agree with this method - a look or whispered words can often be enough. If my sub/slave behaved so badly in public that he required a punishment it would be done when I got him home. If what he did was bad enough to really annoy me he would be sent home immediately, alone. Fortunately, my slave knows how to behave in public, if I had one that didn't he wouldn't be allowed to accompany me in public. Chartreuse,I was going post a similar comment.The slave appears to be acting out just to get punishment.If any slave that belonged to me acted in such a disrespectful manner,I wouldn't punish her in public.The punishment would be given at home.I agree that a slave who acts out in public,shouldn't be rewarded by going out in public.Being homebound might just get the point across to obey. MT Next page