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	SD! : Web boards : Discipline : "How to punish in public" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 How to punish in public (64) 24 Jun 08, 2:32 AM 595-898-539 US(WI), 9 mths Red_Spark wrote: There are remote controlled vibrating butt plugs that work up to quite a reasonable distance. I can't remember the company that makes them but you could try googling... If anyone is still interested, here is a link to a good vibrating buttplug: http://www.extremerestraints.com/remote-control-... While i've used the plug in the link, Mistress Melanie purchased a larger (2 inch diameter) plug. Mistress purchased the plug at a local shop and W/we have not been able to find it online unfortunately. (i'll be sure to post it if i do come across it though!) Whenever i am in public under the direct presence of my Mistress, i have to wear a vibrating plug. The remote has a decent range that works up to 20-30 feet and allows for varying speeds. my vibrating plug does an excellent job of keeping me obedient and in check at all times. Several times i have been subject to a swift buzz in public for any disobedience. Mel's Slave Obediently serving Mistress Melanie since 4/12/2007. 28 Jun 08, 9:55 AM 826-659-267 US, 14 mths My question is why does a slave act out on purpose? As a slave your purpose is to please your Master, and break rules is not pleasing to your owner. I know that if i were to act out on purpose in public, not only would i get " the look", but i could get a possible smack in public, and than a punishment when i got home, and than certain freedoms would be removed and i would be on restriction. So, knowing all of that, do i act out in public on purpose...NO, do i act out in private on purpose....NO, do i act out at all....NO, why because as a slave i know, that that is not my place and why upset Sir? Not only that, if one acts out, maybe that slave or submissive should rethink the lifestyle and go back to being vanilla, because a true slave would not do that,actout on purpose, nor would they do it over and over again....but thats just my thoughts slave jessi ~~~Sadomasochism is the purest form of love~~~ 28 Jun 08, 5:26 PM Blush4Him US, 8 mths 826-659-267 wrote: My question is why does a slave act out on purpose? As a slave your purpose is to please your Master, and break rules is not pleasing to your owner. I know that if i were to act out on purpose in public, not only would i get " the look", but i could get a possible smack in public, and than a punishment when i got home, and than certain freedoms would be removed and i would be on restriction. So, knowing all of that, do i act out in public on purpose...NO, do i act out in private on purpose....NO, do i act out at all....NO, why because as a slave i know, that that is not my place and why upset Sir? Not only that, if one acts out, maybe that slave or submissive should rethink the lifestyle and go back to being vanilla, because a true slave would not do that,actout on purpose, nor would they do it over and over again....but thats just my thoughts slave jessi Ummm. A 'true slave' is also a human (in most cases?) and as a human, occasionally makes mistakes resulting in punishment. No one is perfect, no matter who perfect they think themselves to be. 29 Jun 08, 12:54 AM 826-659-267 US, 14 mths Blush4Him wrote: 826-659-267 wrote: My question is why does a slave act out on purpose? As a slave your purpose is to please your Master, and break rules is not pleasing to your owner. I know that if i were to act out on purpose in public, not only would i get " the look", but i could get a possible smack in public, and than a punishment when i got home, and than certain freedoms would be removed and i would be on restriction. So, knowing all of that, do i act out in public on purpose...NO, do i act out in private on purpose....NO, do i act out at all....NO, why because as a slave i know, that that is not my place and why upset Sir? Not only that, if one acts out, maybe that slave or submissive should rethink the lifestyle and go back to being vanilla, because a true slave would not do that,actout on purpose, nor would they do it over and over again....but thats just my thoughts slave jessi Ummm. A 'true slave' is also a human (in most cases?) and as a human, occasionally makes mistakes resulting in punishment. No one is perfect, no matter who perfect they think themselves to be. I completey agree with your point of slaves being human and making mistakes, but my point was being rude or disrespectful on purpose. I understand people make mistakes,seeing as though, i myself make mistakes, but to do it on purpose is where i was comming from. I should have claified that in my previous post. SJ ~~ is it the pain or the pleasure 29 Jun 08, 10:55 AM Ms_Valentine 8 mths DomMaster wrote: I don't see why a spanking would be inappropiate in public. You would be spanked and humiliated at the same time. A very good punishment and hopefully a lesson learned. Maybe also though it could be unpleasant for those around at the same time who may not have consented to witnessing that kind of bdsm behaviour. If it were in vanilla public, it might be inappropriate to administer a spanking. It could get the police called to the scene which doesn't seem much fun. 29 Jun 08, 1:10 PM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs Ms_Valentine wrote: DomMaster wrote: I don't see why a spanking would be inappropiate in public. You would be spanked and humiliated at the same time. A very good punishment and hopefully a lesson learned. Maybe also though it could be unpleasant for those around at the same time who may not have consented to witnessing that kind of bdsm behaviour. If it were in vanilla public, it might be inappropriate to administer a spanking. It could get the police called to the scene which doesn't seem much fun. Maybe because in the 'nilla sense, spanking could be seen as assault? Of course, we know to the contrary..try tellin' them that though... Master's l'il oneŽ(her Rights are Mine in reserve) 29 Jun 08, 10:26 PM joyless US, 8 mths 826-659-267 wrote: Blush4Him wrote: 826-659-267 wrote: My question is why does a slave act out on purpose? As a slave your purpose is to please your Master, and break rules is not pleasing to your owner. I know that if i were to act out on purpose in public, not only would i get " the look", but i could get a possible smack in public, and than a punishment when i got home, and than certain freedoms would be removed and i would be on restriction. So, knowing all of that, do i act out in public on purpose...NO, do i act out in private on purpose....NO, do i act out at all....NO, why because as a slave i know, that that is not my place and why upset Sir? Not only that, if one acts out, maybe that slave or submissive should rethink the lifestyle and go back to being vanilla, because a true slave would not do that,actout on purpose, nor would they do it over and over again....but thats just my thoughts slave jessi Ummm. A 'true slave' is also a human (in most cases?) and as a human, occasionally makes mistakes resulting in punishment. No one is perfect, no matter who perfect they think themselves to be. I completey agree with your point of slaves being human and making mistakes, but my point was being rude or disrespectful on purpose. I understand people make mistakes,seeing as though, i myself make mistakes, but to do it on purpose is where i was comming from. I should have claified that in my previous post. SJ Some people act out on purpose because they CRAVE the discipline...although i think that there are a fair amount of people who confuse discipline and punishment...they want to be punished because they have some romanticized concept of what it means to be punished. One should not enjoy the punishments that are given, otherwise it will not deter them from the action and instead compel them to it and encourages repeat offenses. It seems that this one has some kind of desire to BE punished in public, so my first suggestion would be make it as private as possible...and as the public displays of rebellion continue, make the punishments more severe in a compounded fashion. Punishments dont have to come in the physical form either...if She was displease with what you said or how you said what you did to the waiter, then possibly She could take away your privilege to speak, or order for yourself... Mr. Oliver has never been at a loss for any kind of punishment, whether it be private or out in public. Once, during lunch at a local brewery, i unthinkingly burped (something He has expressed displeasure at many times). He took my beer away, and would not let me finish it...i was pissed (though i understood; i probably would have done the same thing if i were Him) He could have paddled me, or come up with some other kind of elaborate punishment, but honestly, it was the most effective one He could have come up with. Lets just say that i am acutely more aware of my actions when we go out to eat together. :: Quod me nutrit, me destruit :: 30 Jun 08, 8:27 PM Chartreuse 11 mths DomMaster wrote: I don't see why a spanking would be inappropiate in public. You would be spanked and humiliated at the same time. A very good punishment and hopefully a lesson learned. There would be non-consenting people around to witness your actions... one of them might be an officer of the law, how good an idea would you think public punishment was then, if you were arrested for assault? People who witness any action, that they do not consent to, are innocent onlookers. No-one (children or non-consenting by-standers of any age) should be an unwilling witness to a BDSM, D/s punishment or have one forced upon them. 3 Jul 08, 2:44 AM Blush4Him US, 8 mths DomMaster wrote: MasterS70 wrote: Ms_Valentine wrote: DomMaster wrote: I don't see why a spanking would be inappropiate in public. You would be spanked and humiliated at the same time. A very good punishment and hopefully a lesson learned. Maybe also though it could be unpleasant for those around at the same time who may not have consented to witnessing that kind of bdsm behaviour. If it were in vanilla public, it might be inappropriate to administer a spanking. It could get the police called to the scene which doesn't seem much fun. Maybe because in the 'nilla sense, spanking could be seen as assault? Of course, we know to the contrary..try tellin' them that though... Perhaps a semi-private area in public out of view would suffice for the spanking. Honestly, with all the other punishments that a creative Dom could come up with, I don't understand spanking in public (or even semi-public). I think it's the lazy way out for the Dom. 3 Jul 08, 2:50 AM Blush4Him US, 8 mths 826-659-267 wrote: Blush4Him wrote: 826-659-267 wrote: My question is why does a slave act out on purpose? As a slave your purpose is to please your Master, and break rules is not pleasing to your owner. I know that if i were to act out on purpose in public, not only would i get " the look", but i could get a possible smack in public, and than a punishment when i got home, and than certain freedoms would be removed and i would be on restriction. So, knowing all of that, do i act out in public on purpose...NO, do i act out in private on purpose....NO, do i act out at all....NO, why because as a slave i know, that that is not my place and why upset Sir? Not only that, if one acts out, maybe that slave or submissive should rethink the lifestyle and go back to being vanilla, because a true slave would not do that,actout on purpose, nor would they do it over and over again....but thats just my thoughts slave jessi Ummm. A 'true slave' is also a human (in most cases?) and as a human, occasionally makes mistakes resulting in punishment. No one is perfect, no matter who perfect they think themselves to be. I completey agree with your point of slaves being human and making mistakes, but my point was being rude or disrespectful on purpose. I understand people make mistakes,seeing as though, i myself make mistakes, but to do it on purpose is where i was comming from. I should have claified that in my previous post. SJ Thank you for clarifying! I read your comment to mean that anyone who makes mistakes isn't 'truly' submissive. Glad you explained and I'll unruffle my feathers now! Next page