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	SD! : Web boards : Discipline : "How to punish in public" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 How to punish in public (64) 18 Jul 08, 4:08 AM 327-354-876 US(TX), 9 mths Y! 365-195-714 wrote: fortunately she knows that taking off my diaper on one side will end tue game....on tue other my behavior will be worse. So she prefers to living it on and may be forcing me to soil in it. She also knows that public humiliation os terrible for me. When we are near to tue car she will take me to the car and spank me there. Pls tell me how you punish your slave le viceversa when you are in public. Do you get punished immediately? Is there anything that would take you back yo a submissive mood? Will laxitives (for those of you that use them) be administred immediately to male you soil your diaper? What kind of punishment are used towards you when in public? A "submissive mood"? Ok, am I the only one questioning this? I don't know about the rest of the people here, but submission is never a mood for me. It is simply who and what I am. I do everything I can to AVOID punishment. Sounds to me like you enjoy it. If I were Her, I would simply ignore you. You obviously thrive off the attention, negative or positive. Not a good thing in the least. 18 Jul 08, 7:43 AM 826-659-267 US, 14 mths Blush4Him wrote: 826-659-267 wrote: Blush4Him wrote: 826-659-267 wrote: My question is why does a slave act out on purpose? As a slave your purpose is to please your Master, and break rules is not pleasing to your owner. I know that if i were to act out on purpose in public, not only would i get " the look", but i could get a possible smack in public, and than a punishment when i got home, and than certain freedoms would be removed and i would be on restriction. So, knowing all of that, do i act out in public on purpose...NO, do i act out in private on purpose....NO, do i act out at all....NO, why because as a slave i know, that that is not my place and why upset Sir? Not only that, if one acts out, maybe that slave or submissive should rethink the lifestyle and go back to being vanilla, because a true slave would not do that,actout on purpose, nor would they do it over and over again....but thats just my thoughts slave jessi Ummm. A 'true slave' is also a human (in most cases?) and as a human, occasionally makes mistakes resulting in punishment. No one is perfect, no matter who perfect they think themselves to be. I completey agree with your point of slaves being human and making mistakes, but my point was being rude or disrespectful on purpose. I understand people make mistakes,seeing as though, i myself make mistakes, but to do it on purpose is where i was comming from. I should have claified that in my previous post. SJ Thank you for clarifying! I read your comment to mean that anyone who makes mistakes isn't 'truly' submissive. Glad you explained and I'll unruffle my feathers now! Not a Problem...i dont like to ruffle anyones feathers...unless they like them ruffled....lol ~~There are subs and than there are slaves and from slaves come natural-borns, which are you? 20 Jul 08, 12:06 PM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs Blush4Him wrote: DomMaster wrote: MasterS70 wrote: Ms_Valentine wrote: DomMaster wrote: I don't see why a spanking would be inappropiate in public. You would be spanked and humiliated at the same time. A very good punishment and hopefully a lesson learned. Maybe also though it could be unpleasant for those around at the same time who may not have consented to witnessing that kind of bdsm behaviour. If it were in vanilla public, it might be inappropriate to administer a spanking. It could get the police called to the scene which doesn't seem much fun. Maybe because in the 'nilla sense, spanking could be seen as assault? Of course, we know to the contrary..try tellin' them that though... Perhaps a semi-private area in public out of view would suffice for the spanking. Honestly, with all the other punishments that a creative Dom could come up with, I don't understand spanking in public (or even semi-public). I think it's the lazy way out for the Dom. The 'nilla-rites around here and the way we choose to live dictate I choose a very private route to punishment, hence it would be done privately anyway. My Girl is aware however, that there is a very grave difference between acting up in private for which she would obviously be punished (one kind of way), and acting up in public, whereby she is abundantly aware that 'all manner of shit will rain down upon her' when we get home. To that end, she really is very well behaved in public, not least because she wouldn't embarrass herself, and that's far easier to do than Me. Master's l'il oneŽ(her Rights are Mine in reserve) 21 Jul 08, 6:33 AM BqueenW US(NH), 16 mths Y! Brava well said. I seriously can not imagine even indulging in discussing anything other than. "this is over" Home ward bound. 21 Jul 08, 12:36 PM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs BqueenW wrote: Brava well said. I seriously can not imagine even indulging in discussing anything other than. "this is over" Home ward bound. It's not quite like that here; in our case we'd be out for a reason, and so going home would be impossible at the time; as such, I have this system.. I make a small note. Offence, and time; with 'that' frown. And then we carry on, as if nothing was wrong, because chances 'are', it was something that went to My displeasure when were out to dinner with her family members, who are very 'nilla (most of them anyway - quite surprising who isn't as 'nilla as you'd think!) When we get home, the problem may well get an airing; rational discussion; then after that, the 'wind from those smart little sails' will be taken out. Punishment is never related to discipline (My Girl gets whipped regularly, a) because it keeps her focussed and b) because I like it; did I mention I was a sadist? ), or play; but 'always' related to the problem that happened. My Girl has learnt very quickly indeed, that whilst, in no way is she a masochist (and really doesn't like whipping very much), the punishments are far worse for breaking a rule than discipline sessions could ever be. Thus, in public, My Girl is very well behaved. Master's l'il oneŽ(her Rights are Mine in reserve) 21 Jul 08, 6:06 PM Crueldarknights_dawn US(OR), 5 yrs Y! my Master uses a certain tone of voice that immediately gets my attention if i've done something in public. i hate it when he talks to me with that tone. It immediately takes me right back into the right, submissive attitude. Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. 14 Aug 08, 5:33 AM dVader US(WA), 5 mths Wow... we've been vaguely discussing this problem as well(not that I'm consistently disobedient! Just, eh, a little proud sometimes), and that thought had never occurred to me. He'll really like to hear this, I think. 14 Aug 08, 10:34 PM 002-969-319 US, 2 yrs Ms_Valentine wrote: 365-195-714 wrote: fortunately she knows that taking off my diaper on one side will end tue game....on tue other my behavior will be worse. So she prefers to living it on and may be forcing me to soil in it. She also knows that public humiliation os terrible for me. When we are near to tue car she will take me to the car and spank me there. Pls tell me how you punish your slave le viceversa when you are in public. Do you get punished immediately? Is there anything that would take you back yo a submissive mood? Will laxitives (for those of you that use them) be administred immediately to male you soil your diaper? What kind of punishment are used towards you when in public? My sub paul ( I don't do slaves) is never punished in public. This is partly because he is so very rarely disobedient that there is little need for punishment as such. I personally would not enjoy punishing him in public and given the ways I do punish, that would not be feasible. If paul had misbehaved in any way, a certain look from me or short sharp comment would be enough to know that he is in trouble. Punishment would occur at home at the earliest convenient moment if necessary. Normally that look from me or a hissed admonishment puts him back in a very meek mood immediately. I think a sub should not need more than sharp word to bring them back into line in public or private. If you have to punish too much or all the time then something is wrong with the training, how it has been received and understood or something else fundamental in the relationship. I like to keep things as simple as possible as it helps the sub and it helps me. He cannot misconstrue the meaning of my look or sharp words. Generally, the look or verbal correction is punishment enough as paul is mortified when he has displeased me. i am rarely ever punished in public, most of the time it is a simple swat on the butt on the spot. If it is not possible to correct the issue on the spot Master only has to say a word or two for me to understand i am doing something wrong and that i need to correct my ways. And if what i have done is deserving of punishment by Master, then Master will first inform me that once we are in a place where punishment would be allowed, what it would be. Once at the place for punishment Master will have me tell Master why i am to be punished and fully describe the incident and punishment. One time, the worst time, i got jealous of a waitress paying Master way to much attention, Master addressed me and warned me to correct myself, i chose to not head Masters warning. Just to shorten the story i acted up, Master stated a punishment value, i acted up again, Master upped the value, i chose to be bull headed and pushed back, Master then doubled the punishment value, and then i realized what i had done. i will just say that both Master and i ended up crying back at our hotel after the punishment had been handed out, me from the punishment and having Master lose trust in me, and from Master for having to go so far and giving me the punishment. It was then that i knew i had a Master that i could truly trust; Master did not hold back anything in the punishment. respectfully yours, slave silky whispers, collared and owned property of Master White Knight 20 Aug 08, 12:49 AM 996-150-083 AU, 13 mths I have been punished in public by my Mistress when humiliation was deemed necessary. On one occassion Mistress filled my butt with an enema and then immediately inserted a large butt plug and had me wear white linen trousers with only a loose fitting red satin thong keeping my plug in. Mistress drove me to a busy mall and made me walk around till my enema gushed out forcing my plug out. On another occassion I was made to walk the length of a crowded beach wearing thong swimming trunks with a large butt plug inserted. Spanked Slave 996-150-083 Edited 20 Aug 08, 12:50 AM by 996-150-083 23 Nov 08, 11:27 PM 541-969-139 3 yrs £ kick in the nuts should do it from a slave i became a dom master come slave girls join me in my slave harem Next page