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	SD! : Web boards : Poly D/s : "slave dominating a slave" slave dominating a slave (9) Wed 2 Jul 08, 7:28 PM monika_Pana_Piotra PL, 15 mths i wonder if any of you have experienced a similar situation. i am my Master's property and His slave, i wear His collar, but my Master Has always wanted to have a second submissive, a girl that would appear in our life just for some time. i have never been with a woman and at the beginning i was afraid of this situation i was jealous of everything that concerned her. Here i must underline that my Master is a wonderful Teacher and He slowly made me get used to this situation. i learned that i don't have to be jealous and everything went smoothly, with a lot of pleasure, just as my Master wanted to. During our meeting an interesting thing happened. my Master wanted me and that girl to play with each other and something amazing came into me. i started dominating her, playing with her, asking her a lot of embarrassing questions. i am often shy but during that moment i was fully self-confident. In any way i didn't want her to take initiative, touch me or do anything, but i wanted to do whatever i waned with her. It was a first time for me with a woman, all the feelings were amazing and i just couldn't recognise myself. It is amazing how unexpectedly can a person change, just for one special moment, still being Master's slave, having submissiveness deep in the heart. During that moment i also saw something special in my Master's eyes, He was in a way proud of me but also amazed by the whole action and He didn't want me to stop, He was only watching and when i was looking at Him from time to time i saw encouragement in His eyes. Writing this i am not asking for any advice i just wonder how do you as slaves of your Masters react on other slave? Do any signs of domination appear or maybe it is just the other way round? In the end i want to underline that when all this happened my Master gave us - me and the other girl, a kind of freedom and we could do whatever we wanted to, my Master was just watching. i know that everything could have ended differently if my Master had given us some kind of orders or instructions. It was all completely spontaneous. The only place where i feel secure, happy and fulfilled is on my knees in front of my Master. i am my Master's sole property, His will is my will and i desire to be His slave, His whore and His servant as long as He decides me to. Edited Wed 2 Jul 08, 7:32 PM by monika_Pana_Piotra 3 Jul 08, 6:56 AM JRCs_petk HK, 14 mths Y! If I were to look into this at a deeper level, would I be right in stating that your need to dominate was to ensure the other slave understood the pecking order within the three of you? Is it that you are an alpha type slave? I have been in a situation where my Owner and I were Poly for a while. During this time my Owner did indeed insist that we play with each other, and did forcibly put in place a hierarchical structure. This structure was not a permanent one, and both slaves were aware that alpha and beta could be swapped at a moments notice. Personally, I found dominating the other slave extremely difficult. Domination, causing pain, angst or humiliation is just not an inherent trait in me. My Owner got off on the humiliation that I felt as a result of having to top another slave. It was an added context that added to the depth of the structure, a bonus delight for the sadist that is my Owner. Whatever the underlying context, I hope you enjoyed the experience. Having a chance to unleash the inner sadist in you must have been fun. Perhaps your Owner may have an outsider's perspective on why you behaved the way you did? 3 Jul 08, 7:12 AM monika_Pana_Piotra PL, 15 mths JRCs_petk wrote: If I were to look into this at a deeper level, would I be right in stating that your need to dominate was to ensure the other slave understood the pecking order within the three of you? Yes, maybe inside me there was something that made me dominate the other girl in order to show her that i am more important than her for my Master and that in a way she is and will always be below me. But besides that i found pleasure and some kind of fun in this situation. JRCs_petk wrote: Whatever the underlying context, I hope you enjoyed the experience. Having a chance to unleash the inner sadist in you must have been fun. It was a great experience but hmm finding a sadist in myself? that is rather not possible. As you wrote i might be an alpha slave (that's interesting i have never heard of this king of description) and i found a lot of pleasure in that situation but i can't imagine that this might last for a longer time or become more intense. The only place where i feel secure, happy and fulfilled is on my knees in front of my Master. i am my Master's sole property, His will is my will and i desire to be His slave, His whore and His servant as long as He decides me to. 3 Jul 08, 7:36 AM masterfiremaam US(AZ), 2 yrs My girl can Top others as necessary or desired. I bottom as I please, for sex or for spirit. Physical sensation, and the enjoyment of such, isn't necessarily related to role. Master Fire ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Oh Hai! Blessinz of teh Ceiling Cat be apwn yu, srsly. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 3 Jul 08, 4:07 PM 679-891-210 US(OH), 10 mths As I am a "switch" in every situation except with Sir. I take great joy in being a Sadist whenever I am allowed. Sir has given me permission to seek a submissive for a playmate now and then. We are also poly so the possiblility exists of adding to our family if things work out. So W/we fully expect, and even enjoy when my "inner Domme" comes out to play! Sir has warned me that He fully expects to force me to submit to my sub at some point for His entertainment and as part of my training. (I have problems submitting myself at times....too bloody aggressive I think) Hummm, maybe this is why He took such pleasure giving me to a Female Dominant for my very first time a few weeks ago at a local club? Found myself loveing it by the way! *grins* So enjoy yourself, your Master seems well pleased by this new aspect of your personality so you can hopefully explore it more in the future. Best wishes Obie's pet blossom 4 Jul 08, 9:39 AM monika_Pana_Piotra PL, 15 mths 679-891-210 wrote: Hummm, maybe this is why He took such pleasure giving me to a Female Dominant for my very first time a few weeks ago at a local club? Found myself loveing it by the way! *grins* So enjoy yourself, your Master seems well pleased by this new aspect of your personality so you can hopefully explore it more in the future. After that first experience with a woman it appears quite difficult for me to even think about a Female Dominant, i am still thinking about dominating women, not the other way round. my Master might in future want me to be submissive to a woman i wonder how will it be, your reactions on that experience made me think more positive about it Besides that i am always curious about new experiences and i love pleasing my Master, so who knows what will happen The only place where i feel secure, happy and fulfilled is on my knees in front of my Master. i am my Master's sole property, His will is my will and i desire to be His slave, His whore and His servant as long as He decides me to. 8 Jul 08, 7:11 AM ColdHarbour UK, 14 mths Y! Just an observation really. There is another and perhaps more helpful way of looking at and thinking about this. Is one slave taking charge of another — perhaps to maintain a heirachy and/or teach them — really a case of the one 'dominating' another? Is it not rather a case of the 'in-charge' slave merely serving their Owner in a different way? Not Dominating for themself but rather serving as an instrument of their Owner's Rule, acting in His/Her name? Not 'switching' for personal pleasure but simply helping one's Owner to maintain order and harmony in His/Her Household for the good of all concerned? Is not the fact that finding it hard but doing it anyway is a sign that what is going on here is not 'domination' at all but an act of submission? Not one slave dominating another, but both submitting to their Owner's will, just in different ways? You cannot run away from what is inside you — African proverb 8 Jul 08, 5:58 PM hobbes1966 UK, 6 mths Mistress often runs parties where things have to be done. There are often many “maids” and other subs that people bring. They all need organising to into a team to get the party moving so that Mistress can relax and socialize. That's my job. Butler for want of a better word. I am her sub but I am in charge of the subs that come into the house. They seek my direction and I give orders. So am I Dom? No I am a sub who needs to get a job done for Mistress and is happy to do it. That means keeping the other subs working and in line. However, there is a certain kick from being in charge but it comes from the pride I see in Mistress' face as her friends thank her for a wonderful event. Call me an Alpha Sub if you want but not a dom. I like my collar to much. And apron. 9 Jul 08, 1:34 AM sclavus_princess US, 7 mths Coming from a long time swing lifestyle before entering into BDSM at the depth that i am now (living 24/7 as M/s). i find it very exciting yet, very unnerving at the thought of actually topping another women, as in the past there was always a equality to play..Evan in situations w/ my M recently w/ others involved, the slaves were just carrying out orders of our Masters..i have expressed interest to my M in dominating but He responded that the only way would be if He were to be there instructing me on how to do the topping and there for, i wouldn't really be topping but just serving His will. i don't think He said this to not let me have what i desired but He believes i do not possess the domme gene lol and would find it very difficult to be at all sadistic to another, as you can read i have no point ,just sharing......... 6 Sep 08, 1:05 PM 625-760-331 UK, 22 mths Y! Due to several circumstances in my life i have so far never been able to actively enter the D/s lifestyle although i still have great desire to do so. Most of my needs that my living situation can not provide for i get more or less sated in a virtual reality online world where i am virtually 'owned' by a very wonderful Mistress. I had two Masters before i met Her but lost their collar due to external situations much to the grief of all involved, one i lost due to the intollerance and narrowmindedness of those around us (much poisoned talk and such that put an unbarable strain on our relationship) and the other due to his commitments in the physical world that didn't allow him to give me in the virtual world the care i needed. I have learned a lot about myself during my time in that online world and discovered that although i always been instinctively deeply submissive towards men i seem to be instinctively dominant towards other women (exceptions aply....i still am greatly devoted to my Mistress and wish nothing more than serving and pleasing Her). Often have i been told by other Dom/mes there that i am a very dominant person and i should consider being a Domme instead of a slave, others tell me how proud my Mistress can be of having such a devoted and obedient slave like me, so i really don't know if i really am a slave or ment to be a Domme. However i did notice that i have a dominant nature and personality which shows a lot when dealing with other women and i sometimes have the feeling that i might be such a good slave to my Mistress only due to the sincere wish to serve and please and not because it is in my nature...kinda like being more a matter of willpower than of submissiveness (would not be the first time that my wishes and desires oppose my nature).... I would advise you to cherrish that experience and use it to learn more about you. One of the great things about D/s relationships is that it allows us to learn about ourselfs and grow instead of being limited to and pressed into preconceived roles as many vanilla relationships do. Even if you discover that your respond to playing with another sub really turns out to be an inner dominant nature and not just establishing the picking order, it does not in any way lessen your devotion or submissiveness to your Master but teaches you more about yourself which ultimately can only help you to serve your Master better. huggzz'n'kittykisses ems