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SD! : Web boards : Sex & Fetishes : "Too much pre-cum for my Mistress"
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Too much pre-cum for my Mistress (13)

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Thu 10 Jul 08, 12:12 AM
414-579-465
US(NC), 5 mths 
My mistress dislikes pre-cum but loves to give me head. What can I say other than I am one lucky slave. The problem is she has ordered me not to cum, including pre-cum before she asks me to. I can ususally hold back the orgasim but does anyone have a suggestion on how to hold back the pre-cum?
10 Jul 08, 12:31 AM
000-874-172
UK, 5 yrs 
Pre-cum is the body's way of lubricating the penis for entry into the vagina for copulation, with a view to reproduction.

There really isn't an easy answer to stopping it being produced, but you could always wipe it away from time to time. There will still be some, but not nearly as much as there might've been had you not.

It's just not something you can make disappear according to someone else's instructions, I suspect.

Looking at it conversely (or perversely..), I rather like the taste when giving oral in any case, so to Me, it's not a big deal.

Master's l'il oneŽ(her Rights are Mine in reserve)

10 Jul 08, 7:49 AM
Mistress_Tiara
UK, 23 mths 
414-579-465 wrote:
My mistress...loves to give me head.

Is this done as some form of sexual torment? I find this (recently more prevelantly mentioned) idea that male slave's are getting orally pleasured by their female Owner's quite hard to comprehend. Bugger that.

Maybe Im out of touch - Im sure My boy would quite passionately lobby for that to be the case.

(Note to the OP: you have been registered only a couple of weeks, your certificate say you are unowned, and yet you reference your Mistress and already have a barcode photo. Confusing...)

*~*Mistress Tiara*~*

Edited 10 Jul 08, 7:52 AM by Mistress_Tiara

10 Jul 08, 11:03 AM
Ms_Valentine
UK, 7 mths 
Mistress_Tiara wrote:
414-579-465 wrote:
My mistress...loves to give me head.

Is this done as some form of sexual torment? I find this (recently more prevelantly mentioned) idea that male slave's are getting orally pleasured by their female Owner's quite hard to comprehend. Bugger that.

Maybe Im out of touch - Im sure My boy would quite passionately lobby for that to be the case.

(Note to the OP: you have been registered only a couple of weeks, your certificate say you are unowned, and yet you reference your Mistress and already have a barcode photo. Confusing...)

I do enjoy giving my sub oral sex. It is sometimes for sexual torment, sometimes for pain and sometimes for pleasure or a mix of all three.

I don't see it as undommely in any way. I use my hands to tease him and my mouth works very well too. It is all just part of sexual control. I love teasing him by putting my mouth close to his cock and just letting his mind kick in, wondering whether I will or won't lick it. That anticipation in itself can drive him heady with excitement.If he knew I was never going to lick it, he would just switch off, but if he thinks I might, then, I have his attention.

I happen to enjoy giving oral sex although not so keen on the swallowing bit, so we make sure it doesn't get to that point.

I am probably much more keen on giving my sub pleasure than most. He is an extremely good boy and deserves lots of rewards. Living together as a 24/7 D's couple, we do engage in all the usual sexual pleasures but I just alway remain in control of them.

10 Jul 08, 11:09 AM
Ms_Valentine
UK, 7 mths 
414-579-465 wrote:
Too much pre-cum for my Mistress

My mistress dislikes pre-cum but loves to give me head. What can I say other than I am one lucky slave. The problem is she has ordered me not to cum, including pre-cum before she asks me to. I can ususally hold back the orgasim but does anyone have a suggestion on how to hold back the pre-cum?

Your Mistress, I fear will have to accept that men cannot help the amount of pre-cum they produce or when it happens. It is no different to a woman getting wet when aroused. When she is horny, she gets wet, she can't help it. Some men don't produce much pre-cum but some do. If they do, well nothing will be able to stop it.

Pre-cum is a good thing and I always take it as a tribute to my skills that my sub drips with excitement when I play with him or tease him.

I am surprised your Mistress dislikes pre-cum as it is a little like female g-spot ejaculate, slippery like lube and with no discernible taste or smell.

I can only assume that your Mistress is setting you up with a task she knows you will fail. I have enjoyed teasing subs with impossible task of retaining their pre-cum but I ( and I think they) knew it would make no difference whatever.

Edited 10 Jul 08, 11:10 AM by Ms_Valentine

10 Jul 08, 5:21 PM
740-245-140
CA, 5 mths 
i dont think you can hold pre cum back , once you are aroused it just happens like it or not , my Mistress loves to tease me and arouse me to the point were i,m dripping and soaking wet from it , i believe it to be a good sign as my Mistress can see what kind of state she has me in ,,,xoxo
10 Jul 08, 6:22 PM
Mistress_Tiara
UK, 23 mths 
Ms_Valentine wrote:

I happen to enjoy giving oral sex although not so keen on the swallowing bit, so we make sure it doesn't get to that point.

Fair enough if you are enjoying it. I logically maintain that if its what the Owner wants the act doesnt matter. It wouldnt be for Me though.

*~*Mistress Tiara*~*

11 Jul 08, 10:04 AM
chuckhov
US(FL), 2 yrs 
With my slave we both do Everything!

We are both still people after all, and if I don't care that much for her, then we have no need to be together!

I'm in charge, of course, but damn...! - You gotta love them, or what's the point!

This has nothing at all to do with the Dom being sub...

I am Never sub!

It has to do with love.

Thank you,

-Chuck

16 Jul 08, 8:16 AM
651-071-142
CA, 5 mths 
My Mistress enjoys my precum which flows rather freely, even during punishment and torment. Some ends up in Her mouth but I am required to lick most of it up.

slave lippy

22 Jul 08, 9:01 PM
LovingSadistAlyssa
US, 10 mths 
I'm with you, Mistress Tiara, but I've long noticed that We're in the minority on this one.

I try not to let My boy catch on too much to that fact, though, he already likes to have pity parties about not getting head but deals because he knows it's part of the package of enslavement. I can just imagine him armed with forum posts and survey data, going "awww but all the *other* Mistresses let their slaves have blow jobs, why not me??"

Nope, don't need that.

;-)

22 Jul 08, 9:55 PM
Crimsonking
US, 5 mths 
414-579-465 wrote:
Too much pre-cum for my Mistress

My mistress dislikes pre-cum but loves to give me head. What can I say other than I am one lucky slave. The problem is she has ordered me not to cum, including pre-cum before she asks me to. I can ususally hold back the orgasim but does anyone have a suggestion on how to hold back the pre-cum?

You wont be able to prevent your body from producing pre-cum, but you can prevent it coming out. Ask your Mistress for permission to purchase a penis plug. There are numerous sites you can purchase them from. Some have through holes for ejaculation and urination, but there are some that have no hole. If the plug is to be used for oral tormenting, I would recommend that you find one that wont chip a tooth :).

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