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	SD! : Web boards : Submission : "freedom to display collar" 1 2 3 freedom to display collar (24) Sun 13 Jul 08, 4:14 AM 621-375-058 6 mths Having only been collared for the first time recently, (July 11th) today was my first time wearing my collar in public. I never thought walking around Wal-Mart grocery shopping could be such a wonderful experience (and boy do I hate going to Wal-Mart!). Seeing people stare, the knowing looks on others, second (and sometimes third or more) glances. I almost wanted to strut and say 'Yes, I am owned, I am collared and I am happy' !!! Has anyone else experienced this? Where and what happened, how did you feel? ~*it is better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not*~ Edited Sun 13 Jul 08, 4:17 AM by 621-375-058 13 Jul 08, 4:26 AM Kookers 7 mths I always felt the same way walking around school collared. "Submission is a gift earned through trust. Dominance is a responsibility that may hurt, but never harms that gift." 13 Jul 08, 7:28 AM 366-066-082 US(CA), 6 mths -smilez- itz an honor to wear your Mistress/Masters collar...you should be proud to wear it and show it off for all to see..i know i am 13 Jul 08, 8:13 PM bratitude US(AZ), 16 mths i have always found it something to be proud of to wear your Master/Mistress' collar. It completes a sub/slave, in my opinion and the exchanged gift of ownership and being owned can't be denied. i am blessed to have found one that loves me and i can give myself to so completely and proud to show it to any and all. Cryptic1's bratitude 15 Jul 08, 5:39 AM 662-935-655 US, 2 yrs Thanks for the happy memories - i remember being exactly like that when i was newly collared in a quite obvious first collar that my late Master GOT at a walmart's pet dept. while waiting for something more permanent to be custom made that is less obvious, but occasionally noticed. i still wear that one usually and the one He crocheted for me out of fish-line, teal and beige, i wear mostly to lifestyle events - and to His funeral then to the military burial, several days apart as the VA cemetary wasn't open on the weekend, but i had the funeral then so His kids and siblings and mom could come. He had a different approach to collaring - i have several collars for different occasions, some obvious, some no more than a choker-like necklace, only to remind me and no more. But my favorite is that one He made and i wear it least as i don't want anything to happen to it, but sadly, i also break out under it if i wear it for more than oh, 24 hours. The custom-made one or one of them, He had made for me first - a dragon on it 'cause i can be a bit of a dragon lady to others who assume i'm submissive or who gave Him as a disabled person any kind of guff - that's the one i wear most. And i polished it up today and somehow found great comfort in that. i always laugh at those who assume that being a submissive and His slave meant i was submissive as in door-mat, they always found otherwise - at HIS insistence that i correct that line of thought. (GRIN) Congratulations on your Collar and may it never lose it's freshness for you or your amazement over it. (((HUGS))) if your Master/Mistress allows you to accept such from this one j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin 15 Jul 08, 11:59 AM 541-969-139 3 yrs £ happy for you from a slave i became a dom master come slave girls join me in my slave harem 15 Jul 08, 12:23 PM monika_Pana_Piotra PL, 15 mths It was such an amazing experience that i remember hardly anything from my first walk in my collar it was an evening walk with my Master in centre of a town, there were a lot of people and i thought that the only thing everybody sees is my collar. i must admit that i was completely shy and disoriented during the very first minutes. Then slowly, holding my Master tight i started finding excitement in this situation, but all in all i needed some time to get used to it and find pleasure in people's amazed looks. Now every time when i wear my collar i can look into their eyes bravely, being proud of my little secret embracing my neck. The only place where i feel secure, happy and fulfilled is on my knees in front of my Master. i am my Master's sole property, His will is my will and i desire to be His slave, His whore and His servant as long as He decides me to. Edited 15 Jul 08, 12:25 PM by monika_Pana_Piotra 15 Jul 08, 3:14 PM primal_weyland UK, 9 mths I'm actually rather used to a collar already. As a 'furry' I got the desire for wearing a collar long before I even became aware of the world of slavery and ownership - I wore a small red cat collar with an engraved tag of my first boyfriend's name on it, as a sign of my pride for being a fur. I very soon learned to ignore the scornful comments of other people and embraced my nature as a fur - and so it shall be very easy for me to wear my Master's collar when I am presented with one. I even wear collars to sleep. The best way to get over any fears of wearing a collar publicly is to merely ignore the comments. If confronted due to it, explain calmly that it is merely a fashion statement - unless, of course, your Master wishes of you to be honest about the reasons for your collaring. 15 Jul 08, 9:23 PM 621-375-058 6 mths primal_weyland wrote: The best way to get over any fears of wearing a collar publicly is to merely ignore the comments. If confronted due to it, explain calmly that it is merely a fashion statement - unless, of course, your Master wishes of you to be honest about the reasons for your collaring. Oh, I have absolutely NO fears wearing my collar at any time nor would I ever lie to anyone if asked why I wear it. The exception to that being children, my daughter just thinks its something my friend bought for me and I dont feel the need or desire to tell her otherwise. Not a single person was rude to me while I wore it that day, at least not that I noticed however I was somewhat on 'cloud nine' and enjoying the feeling of it around my neck.. I may not have even noticed (nor would I have cared) if anyone was anything but smiling or simply glancing and then moving on with their business. ~*it is better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not*~ 15 Jul 08, 10:13 PM 315-076-759 UK, 7 mths I wear an anklet in lieu of a collar just now but it being summertime, Lady Mistress has me in shorts so it [the anklet] is in full view. It is as you say, curious looks from some and knowing looks from others. I'm proud too to wear my symbol. Slave/Sklavos 17 Jul 08, 2:07 PM 173-682-895 US(NY), 21 mths The collar Master first placed on my neck, broke in the middle of it during a play session, when He yanked on the leash attached to the ring through the leather. i have several collars now: one is a thin black elastic one that i wear for everyday (work), one is a heavy duty black leather dog collar for leash times, and one is a thin leather one with the word "slut" studded on it, that Master likes to have me wear sometimes. i was heartbroken when that first collar broke, though, so i bought some leather lacing and a leather punch, and i turned it into a bracelet that i wear everyday. Yesterday Master came home with a gift for me, a shiny silver necklace with a matching one for Himself. :D i was touched and tickled by His boyish charm when He informed me that "Now W/we match!" Master tells people that He is cold hearted and such, but i know better... at least when that whip isn't in His hand! Y/you are never more alive as when Y/you are at risk. Master's ~one~ Next page