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	SD! : Web boards : Practical IE : "Growing old disgracefully" 1 2 3 4 5 Growing old disgracefully (42) 29 Jul 08, 8:11 AM 315-076-759 UK, 7 mths ......there is more to slavery than sex...... .....It is what a person is that makes them a slave, not what they look like or what they do. I toally agree. I came into this M/s lifestyle quite late in life and certainly at an age where my sexual prowess is rather lacklustre. Lady Mistress is not interested in me as a sex object but together we are exploring what a M/s relationship really is. We both have had some interesting though not unpleasant surprises over these last few months. Slave/Sklavos Edited 29 Jul 08, 9:55 PM by 315-076-759 29 Jul 08, 8:18 AM 315-076-759 UK, 7 mths anjuli wrote: I think I've shared before some of the story of my master's intro to the lifestyle by a family friend who turned out to be a slave....... et seq ......I trust it finds joyful ears. Gentleness and quieter thoughts for me the rest of the day I think. Thanks for listening thro a long long post. anjuli ...in memory of my sister H. Such alovely and moving story. Thank you, Anjuli, for sharing it with us all. Slave/Sklavos 29 Jul 08, 8:47 PM Domme_deluxe UK, 8 mths Yes, there are plans coming into being now for his future security if I shuffle off first. We have joked about starting an old folks home. Quite who would run it, using trust funds I suppose, I haven't figured out. I imagine I will turn to my neighbour and commiserate that we remember the good old days when our slaves didn't take an hour to make a cup of coffee and come back twice to ask if we wanted sugar in it. 29 Jul 08, 9:55 PM 315-076-759 UK, 7 mths Domme_deluxe wrote: I imagine I will turn to my neighbour and commiserate that we remember the good old days when our slaves didn't take an hour to make a cup of coffee and come back twice to ask if we wanted sugar in it. Oh deary deary me!! You have just described Slave/Sklavos. Slave doesn't quite take an hour to make coffee but does have to write it all down if there is more than one cup of coffee involved. [wry smile] Now, where was I? Slave/Sklavos 30 Jul 08, 9:52 PM Domme_deluxe UK, 8 mths 315-076-759 wrote: Domme_deluxe wrote: I imagine I will turn to my neighbour and commiserate that we remember the good old days when our slaves didn't take an hour to make a cup of coffee and come back twice to ask if we wanted sugar in it. Oh deary deary me!! You have just described Slave/Sklavos. Slave doesn't quite take an hour to make coffee but does have to write it all down if there is more than one cup of coffee involved. [wry smile] Now, where was I? Looking for the bit of paper? [grins] It really doesn't matter to me that some time in the future there will be less of the leaping about like spring chickens so long as the dynamic is as dynamic as My and his abilities allow. 31 Jul 08, 1:31 AM 173-682-895 US(NY), 21 mths heh. Master has me make lists all the time, because i am so forgetful. i can walk into the kitchen HOLDING the coffee cup, and STILL wonder, what did i come in here for again?? Y/you are never more alive as when Y/you are at risk. Master's ~one~ 18 Oct 08, 8:54 PM Trainedobedients US(PA), 23 mths Nice topic. I actually married Master and therefor have the vanilla umbrella to lean on when I/we get older. But without that, I believe a Ds relationship is more than just physical even for young people. It is mental and that stays as young as you allow it to be. I work hard to keep myself in shape but know that I will loose this battle eventually. And hope that my growth in slavery will be an asset when I get older, grey and at the final stage of my life. I also hoped that this lifestyle was above the superficial vanilla world where younger is considered better, more beautiful and worth the efforts. To be frank an good experienced Dom/Domme is way more attractive to me than others. But than again I always loved a daddy...LOL. 19 Oct 08, 3:00 PM Property_of_Master_J US(WI), 9 mths This is a fear I think about frequently as I am 11 years older than my potential Master. I'm sure he will read this like he does all my posts and inform me. Then I will ask to be allowed to share the answer. I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks about these things. sassybutt~under consideration 19 Oct 08, 6:32 PM Andrin DE, 4 mths I am 54. The guy I am considering as my slave is 48. So what will have have to expect? A chance of maybe 10 years of kinky fun (with the help of viagra ). But in this age sex and BDSM certainly have no longer the relavance they used to. And maybe we will face some 20 to 30 years of life in which we will more and more have to rely on our abilities to help each other. The place I plan to retire is a 260 years old farmhouse in the Italian Alps, just 40 km (25 miles) north of Venice. Beautifully located, tranquille, isolated. Hard to find such a spot in Central Europe. With the consequence that the next shop, doc, pharmacy, hospital is at least 7 km (5 miles) away. Though the romantic idea is to live their till I die, I am well aware that this is unlikely to happen. The house (consisting of 4 old building or natural rock) sits on a rather steep mountain slope. I have 6 hectares (~15 acres) of land to lock after. Even with the help of my slave one day this probably will be too much work and I need to sell it and move to a more convenient place. Now this is my perspective. What about my slave? Measures are taken that he is financially secured if I die before him. In one of the buildings on the farm I built an apartment for him, so that even if one day I decide I don't want to have him stay in my bed room, he has a warm and dry place. Not having any children my will is to the benefit of a charity organisation. However, my slave will have a lifetime right to stay at my abode. He has my word that I will take care of him when sick or in need, as much as I expect that of him. Sounds all pretty vanilla, with the difference that this is the blueprint I made and told him that this is what he has to expect, rather then the outcome of discussion and negotiations. So that is where I see myself as a master: taking decisions that I belief are responsible. But otherwise I consider myself just as caring as I expect my slave to be. Regards Sir Andrin 19 Oct 08, 8:26 PM TheCaptain IE, 4 yrs ravenkaldera wrote: I'm 14 years older than Joshua, and my illness will eventually kill me, so unless I get hit by a bus he'll outlive me and still have many years left. He does not want to serve ayone else after me. However, the one thing that he has given up in order to do this job is his longing to be in a monastery. As he's not Catholic, Buddhist, or Hindu, and as our religion has no functioning monasteries right now, part of what we're doing over the next 20 years is to found one for him to retire to. It will be my gift to him for a lifetime of service. -Raven Kaldera I think many monasteries accept people of differing beliefs. As long as they are prepared to pull their weight, and respect the others in quiet contemplation, they should be ok. I will make provision for any slave that I own .. hopefully financial as well as appointing a guardian for them should I die or become incapacitiated to the point of not having use for them. Next page