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SD! : Web boards : Off Topic : "Age difference in BDSM"
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Age difference in BDSM (12)

Mon 21 Jul 08, 12:05 PM
Master_Fusion
AU, 2 yrs
Y!*
i didnt know where to post this:

i am interested in knowing if anyone is in an age different relationship and what is the biggest gap relationship you have been in etc...?

21 Jul 08, 2:33 PM
jakesemma
US(WA), 15 mths
Y!*
Master and I are 13 almost 14 years apart.. its the biggest age difference relationship i've actively participated in after the age of 18. (grins)

I have had 12 8 and 6 year age differnces pervious to turning 18.

21 Jul 08, 3:22 PM
000-874-172
UK, 5 yrs
I had a few very minor and short relationships (with mainly a strong 'nilla bias) in between My first and second marriages; they were with women aged 17 (I was 33), 27 (I was 33); Before My first marriage, I had 'same age' (+/- 1 year maximum) relationships, mainly with girls from school, or at the pub, that kind of thing.

Now, My first marriage (although I suppose 'nilla with kink), My ex-wife was 13 months younger.

My second marriage, to My current wife - My Girl, there is an age gap, where she's 16 years My junior.

It didn't affect My previous ability to serve her, but in fact improved My ability to master her and her ability to serve Me in her new role as My slave (and is one of the reasons she's called My 'Girl')

Master's l'il oneŽ(her Rights are Mine in reserve)

22 Jul 08, 4:14 PM
Remoses
US(PA), 3 yrs
I'm married to a woman 12 years My junior.

I have a relatinships with people 15 and 18 My junior.

I even once carried on with a woman 25 hears My junior. I was 50 and she was 25. I was nearly as old as her father...

Apart from the occasional pop culture differences, I have never found it to be a problem.

I do remain engaged in much of current culture, except that I NEVER watch network TV.

God! What drivel!

But age differences are not so difficult, really. Many people who are well known carry on successful Autumn/spring relationships.

I find many men are quite naturally attracted to younger women, and many younger women seem to find older men appealing, too. How nice for us, huh?

Evidently, love IS blind, after all!

I would not get too wrapped around the axle on this one.

I am Remoses.

Just because it's inconvenient, doesn't mean it's not required.
Quod principi placet legis habet vigorem
(The pleasure of the prince has the force of law.)
**Pronounce it: Ray-mosay.**

Edited 22 Jul 08, 7:45 PM by Remoses

24 Jul 08, 3:56 AM
slave_emma
US(OK), 2 yrs
The largest age gap I have had in a relationship is with my Master. He is 29 ˝ years my senior. This is the most fulfilling relationship I have ever had and for that I am grateful.

Aside from my current relationship, my former Master was 27 years older than me and previous vanilla boyfriends were all older than me. I have never dated anyone younger than myself, which I suppose is a little weird. (No, I don't think there is anything wrong with being with someone who is younger. It just isn't the path I chose. Age is just a number.)

Best wishes,

slave emma

Master Howard's little girl

1 Aug 08, 6:51 AM
godless
US(TX), 21 mths
Y!*
Let's see, let's see . . .

I have an ex who was 35 years older, though that was vanilla. My current (and only, for that matter:)) M is 32 years older. My favorite puppy is 35 years older as well. I've had playmates ranging from minus 3 years to plus 5 years, but for committed relationships, I tend to go older ;)

"You don't love a girl because she's beautiful. You love a girl because she sings a song that only you can understand" - L.J Smith "Dark World"

Edited 24 Aug 08, 6:15 PM by godless

15 Aug 08, 12:37 PM
779-061-353
US(NY), 9 mths
Y!*
my Master is 18 years older than i, and i personally belive that age (except in legal issues) should ever be an issue. The right person for you my pop up at any time and be any age/race/sex you can never truely know till you meet them. So why let it bother anyone?

written kneeling at His feet, leash frimly in place Come check out this girl's writings http://www.freewebs.com/bardic/ Master Silver Wolf approves all this grl's posts they MUST pass his approval before posting

21 Aug 08, 9:06 PM
MissPhay
UK, 19 mths
As my Master said, He is 16 years older than me.

i have always gone for older men, i find they often have similar interests to me and can offer far more fulfilling conversation and i feel loved and protected by my Master.

i have had crushes on guys my age before, mainly when i was in school and often found them to be immature and only after one thing. i think that is one of the reasons i have always gone for older men. However i have never actually "been with" a man my age.

*~ phay ~*
~ Always Daddy's Girl ~

Edited 26 Aug 08, 3:28 PM by MissPhay

21 Oct 08, 2:37 AM
jjsslave
US(OH), 14 mths
i'm 30 and Master is 51, and while it is a big age difference we done seem to notice it, we are just on the same page as far as what we want with life and our relationship.

completely devoted to Master

21 Oct 08, 5:12 AM
GalenZ
US, 3 yrs
I'm 47 and my new slave-in-training is 22, making a 25 year age difference. It's still early in our relationship, but so far, we seem more compatible than I've experienced with any other partner, whether kinky or vanilla. Previously, I'd always considered anyone more than 18 years my junior to be too young to even consider. But when she contacted me, I decided I could at least meet her - and I'm delighted that I did!

Galen

-- It's only kinky if I haven't done it yet.

21 Oct 08, 10:54 AM
Andrin
DE, 4 mths

I had three long term relationships of 8, 7 and 6 years, all dom/sub, but none M/s. The first guy was 18 years older than I am, the second 12 years older and the third 15 years younger. I don't care much about a partners age, it certainly are other virtues I am looking for.

Andrin

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