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	SD! : Web boards : Ritual : "On being naked" 1 2 On being naked (17) Moved from Poly D/s Sun 10 Aug 08, 1:31 AM moncherie US(CA), 5 mths i wanted to reply to being naked but i got a message saying it was full so i am starting a new post. When i first came to Master i had three suite cases and a big box of clothes. During our first weekend together Master made me lay everything out on the living room floor in piles. Also, every item in my purse was dumped out and arranged neatly. Master then sorted through everything and placed all items he didn't like in a big heap. All my bras were tossed, all jeans, pants, slacks and shorts. A bunch of old clothes and several dresses he didn't like plus six pairs of shoes. What i was allowed to keep were two pairs of five inch ankle strap high heel sandals, five pairs of panties for when i have my period, three short skirts, two pull over sweaters and two dresses. From my purse i was allowed to keep my wallet with my family photos, my state ID card, my social securtiy card, my hair brush, a few makeup items and my glasses and glasses case. Master donated everything else to charity. At home now i am always naked and it took about two weeks to get comfortable with it. When i go out to the back yard i am allowed to slip on a pair sandals by the door. If i go out for the mail i usually just wrap a large towel around myself although on occassion i have gone out naked. When out and around, Master carries my wallet in his pocket along with my cell phone... i say my phone but it's really Master's second phone. i am always dressed in a skirt and simple tee-shirt, pull over sweater or button down blouse. The only time i am allowed to wear clothes at home is when we have someone over who wouldn't understand. i have even run around naked in front of my sister who i recently learned is a domme. 10 Aug 08, 3:51 AM Remoses US(PA), 3 yrs Mon cher, What you describe seems like a perfectly lovely way for your Owner to keep you. I wrote over a year ago, that I would prefer My slave to arrive naked and penniless. There are some problems with that approach, of course, but the idea is so terribly romantic that it holds a place in My heart, still. Surely you know that the sole purpose of a slave is to please her Owner. Doing what He requires of you is a sure sign of your devotion to Him. I applaud both of you for your accomplishment. your nudity is many things...erotic, and humbling. Where it is erotic, that is a wonderful effect. Where it is humbling, that is perfection. By depriving you of your clothes, He brings you ever more clearly into His view. That is, where you should be. All of us are different, and we each have our own views on what comprises good and acceptable "slavey" behaviour. I would suggest that you are surely on the right track. I am Remoses. Just because it's inconvenient, doesn't mean it's not required. Quod principi placet legis habet vigorem (The pleasure of the prince has the force of law.) **Pronounce it: Ray-mosay.** 11 Aug 08, 5:34 AM MjSunshine US(IA), 5 mths I am most certainly more comfortable naked, which I believe is why my Master likes to make me wear skirts and thongs and dressy girly clothes because I really dislike them and thinks I look so sexy. So I suppose its all according to prefrence. I would love to be naked all the time. Master likes me to dress in heels and skirts and cute little tops that show off my cleavage. Which before meeting my Master youd never have caught me dead in. I was always a tom boy and had never worn heels and rarely would I wear a skirt or dress. Learning to wear heels was definatly fun lol. But I have learned to like it to because my Master likes it and it pleases him so it makes me happy. I have even found my tastes in clothing changing to fit him. But I still prefure my birthday suit. Dont get me wrong he loves me naked too but he also loves to see me outa my element, but if he didnt make it alittle difficult for me what fun would that be? 12 Aug 08, 11:29 AM pirate528x US, 3 yrs Y! A simple answer to your question is that the Master makes the rules and the slave obeys.I believe that you're getting treated more than fairly,a slave at my house is kept naked such as you are but also shackled. Master Tony 12 Aug 08, 3:15 PM slavesooze 5 yrs i too love being naked and have most of my life. This has gotten me in semi-trouble from time to time though. When Master and i go out, i obviously have to wear something, but on the way home i have stripped naked in the car as we drive along! Just one of those things i, as an "exhibitionist" am addicted to. Master always just laughs about it, but one time pulled into a Sonic Drive In! Even more laughter from Him as i was scrambling to get something back on before the car hop showed up! Life is fun being a slave, a wife, and naked! 12 Aug 08, 6:29 PM Mistress_Tiara UK, 2 yrs We both like My boy being naked too. Its not pracical for us most of the time though. My latest solution is that Ive made him a little pair of cut-off levis. They look great, he has a very nice body & theyre very flattering. he thinks they look camp on him which Im quite pleased about also as Im sure you can imagine (hes very masculine so camp is new for him). They are just right for what I want though - discrete enough for regular use, but skimpy & tarty enough for pleasure. Splendid. *~*Mistress Tiara*~* Edited 12 Aug 08, 7:53 PM by Mistress_Tiara 12 Aug 08, 7:18 PM ravenkaldera US(MA), 3 yrs (grin) That's Joshua's hot-weather in-house uniform too - tight, low-rise denim cutoffs hacked off just below the butt cheek. About an 8" width of fabric total. And nothing else. Wouldn't send him to the store like that, but it's awfully cute around the house, and it shows off his compact little ass. -Raven Kaldera -If you're in charge, it's all on your head. If it's not all on your head, then you're not really in charge. 12 Aug 08, 7:53 PM Mistress_Tiara UK, 2 yrs Yes, cute isnt it? They show his bootie off so nicely & he looks like he's naked-but-for- cut offs, if you see what I mean. Its destined to be a permanent fixture. (And yet more proof that I have similar tastes to many gay men) *~*Mistress Tiara*~* 12 Aug 08, 9:10 PM ravenkaldera US(MA), 3 yrs I think that women have a harder time than men at allowing themselves to be the sexual Observer. By that I mean that women get bombarded with a constant social message that they're the ones who are sexually Looked At, so they'd better look good for all the people watching, but they are not told that it's OK to be the gawkers themselves, drooling over the eye candy. It takes some time and cojones for them to be able to embrace that, and part of "that" is being able to say, "I like (object of my desire) looking like X and wearing Y, solely because it makes my mouth water, and I deserve to be able to see that when I like." Gay men, not having that programming, have an easier time forcing the issue of What Hot Men Should Wear/ Look Like. On the minus side, this means a lot of gay men with eating disorders, getting their stomachs stapled, obsessively working out, knowing that they are as much the Looked At as the Lookers, and freaking out about it as much as women do. On the other hand, part of a submissive's service (should their owner want it) is to be Eye Candy. It's definitely up there in the job description. Straight men especially aren't always used to wearing skimpy clothing that telegraphs, "I'm here to be watched and enjoyed for your entertainment, and I'm advertising my availability to you" while going about their daily business. Gay boys are more used to that. Upshot is that I know a lot of women who plunder gay male ideas of male beauty, because they're there, they don't have the sexist social programming around them, and gay men have spent an insane amount of time and effort creating and catalogueing images and styles of male beauty. (In the eastern US we refer to the short-short cutoffs as "Daisy Dukes" after the old comic strip character. *grin*) -Raven Kaldera -If you're in charge, it's all on your head. If it's not all on your head, then you're not really in charge. 12 Aug 08, 9:32 PM Mistress_Tiara UK, 2 yrs ravenkaldera wrote: I think that women have a harder time than men at allowing themselves to be the sexual Observer. By that I mean that women get bombarded with a constant social message that they're the ones who are sexually Looked At Absolutely. I am wired differently regarding this, but I am in many ways. I guess I have more of a 'predator' make up than the expected female passive role. I like looking nice, and even sexy sometimes, but that does not mean I want men to see Me as sexually alluring particularly. Im somewhat oblivious to most men really. ravenkaldera wrote: On the other hand, part of a submissive's service (should their owner want it) is to be Eye Candy. It's definitely up there in the job description. Straight men especially aren't always used to wearing skimpy clothing that telegraphs, "I'm here to be watched and enjoyed for your entertainment, and I'm advertising my availability to you" Eye Candy is a definite requirement for Me, and My boys getting used to it a stage at a time. Traditionally he has been the one to sexually objectify others, rather than be objectified but he's learned to accept it now A nice arse should not be hidden. *~*Mistress Tiara*~* 13 Aug 08, 5:49 PM Red_Spark UK, 2 yrs Oh gosh, I love to be a gawker where naked men are concerned! It isn't always practical though, especially when cooking is involved. Next page