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	SD! : Web boards : Submission : "need help" need help (4) Sun 10 Aug 08, 8:00 PM 428-085-907 UK, 6 mths Y! hi my femme name is susan i am collard to my master david and need advice as how i can really show him how much i so want to become his property and become his real life save. oh i would love everyones advice susan xx 11 Aug 08, 2:09 PM anjuli UK, 18 mths Hi susan and welcome. You're already doing the bit you can do for yourself! Just stay, keep reading and join in when you want, and use the site to learn more. There are good people here and good links to help you understand the process of your own growth and development, and reading you will probably want to share with him. A lot of what you are desiring and impatient for though can only come slowly and through him. One of the first things we have to learn is to let go of 'wanting' all the time and to set aside our impatience. He will lead you, where he wants and at the speed he thinks is right for you... your job is to follow and submit to his will. Focus on him and you'll be amazed at the difference it makes. anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ 16 Aug 08, 4:04 PM allalone47 US(OH), 3 yrs Don't push, but do ask. 16 Aug 08, 5:56 PM Tragopan US(CA), 17 mths anjuli wrote: Focus on him and you'll be amazed at the difference it makes. anjuli I'll second this. Also, don't be afraid to take the initiative - being a slave is not mere passive, mindless obedience. If you see a way to serve your Master that will be useful or helpful to Him, do it! If this displeases Him, he will correct you. Attentiveness to the Master is a virtue in a slave. Show Master how much you want to serve Him and the rest will follow. And remember, much of the satisfaction in these relationships is the _process_ so don't be in a hurry to rush things. Spending 5 years in exacting and detailed slave-training will be much more satisfying than taking two weeks, in my opinion. Perhaps some of the short-lived relationships we hear about are caused by rushing through things. --Tragopan "From darkness, light." 25 Aug 08, 12:07 PM 428-085-907 UK, 6 mths Y! thanks anjuli, such a loverly piece of advice and thanks to everyone for there time and advice xxxxx