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	SD! : Web boards : SM & Bondage : "Face Slapping" 1 2 3 4 5 Face Slapping (50) 24 Aug 08, 12:31 AM 898-443-818 US, 21 mths Y! This act is generally reserved for when i have not said something appropriate. i am to have very good manners especially during sex. i think it's exciting, yet it still works to refocus me and get me back on track with what i am supposed to say or do. i would say it is very important to us, i certainly would be upset if He stopped. 24 Aug 08, 5:12 AM godless US(TX), 21 mths Y! Mistress_Tiara wrote: I slap My boys face sometimes for both discipline & kink. I wonder though how many male Owners slap their female slaves face - does this feel inapproriate or cross a boundary for you? Do you do it as a purely erotic act or use face slapping as discipline? How do female slaves who do have their faces slapped by male Owners feel about it? Hi Mistress Tiara, I'm going to answer from a fairly different POV. I'm collared, etc, as many of you know. This summer I've also begun a great relationship with another male. I would say that he is a "vanilla who likes kinky sex." He realizes that I'm the one in control of the relationship (from a number of angles). . . . but he slaps me *oh, the horror!* Now this brought up a number of interesting things in our dynamics. First off - my M has never slapped me, and probably never would. It's not in his nature for kink or discipline. My M was also *very* concerned after the first instance, and for a while after. I suppose it's because I'm not allowed to play with other Doms, it was a Domly act, and we (my M and I) hadn't yet found that my *other* is really a sub. It also messed with my head. Face slapping had come up in conversation with my M when we were going over limits and other "what ifs" as they tend to come up. I, having never been slapped in my life, couldn't for the life of me understand why someone would want to be slapped - for kink or discipline. Then between the two of us (my other and I), it also stirred some waves. We were "role-playing" (a term I dislike, but it's close enought to what was happening), and it just *happened.* He was in his role, I was in mine - it totally made sense in context. He was a little worried about it afterwards, but I wasn't - I thought it was totally hot. It took about 3 or 4 conversations to talk out everything (poor thing, he thought I was ready to call everything off - that I found it hot didn't even cross his mind). Now when we're playing exceptionally rough, I might get slapped a little. I'm not quite sure I had any major point - perhaps just that there's another voice in the "erotic" use camp who never sees it used in the discipline sense. "You don't love a girl because she's beautiful. You love a girl because she sings a song that only you can understand" - L.J Smith "Dark World" 24 Aug 08, 6:45 PM 952-621-855 US(CA), 5 mths my Master slaps His pets face but is cautious. This pet is thankful that her Master removes her glasses before any contact when T/they meet. my Master has never caused any permanent marks upon His pet's face. This pet finds it stimulating but it also keeps this pet 'in touch' with what is going on at the moment. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* 24 Aug 08, 11:45 PM painsluttania UK, 6 mths £ my master slap my face several times for reminding me i am his property when i not pay attention as a painslut i like it very mutch painsluttania 25 Aug 08, 12:43 AM iinarihoudai US, 20 mths MalyKot wrote: 662-935-655 wrote: Problem with face slapping - in adults as well as children, it can cause Brain Damage, including permanent, and even death, without a lot of force. i hate to rain on A/anyone's parade, Apparently it doesn't take alot of force to do real, severe, permanent damage from what i've read, seen and experienced myself. I'm afraid I have to echo 662-935-655, I lost a good bit of hearing in one ear for over a year because of a vanilla ex's tendency to slap me when angry. I never told my ex not to slap me though, because aside from thinking I deserved it, some part of me was turned on. Now, slapping, however arousing, is still linked in my mind to anger and self-hate...and while Master and I could work to break that link if he wanted, he has no desire to take up that extra work for something that doesn't appeal to him. I'm still learning to distinguish what's abuse and what's a healthy BDSM relationship, so as much as slapping turns me on, because of the confused feelings it brings me, I'm more comfortable avoiding it as well. I think the biggest thing though may just be it isn't Master's style. He wouldn't slap me as punishment because I'd be turned on, and he isn't turned on by the thought of slapping for fun...so eh, no place for it in our relationship. Thank you! Slapping is very serious. With that said Master will slap me sometimes, but he only does it enough to sting and in a way where if I were keeping my head still my head would not move. Slapping is definitely a turn on for me, I was surprised by that oh so many moons ago. iinarihoudai "Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." -Jesus Christ, Hebrews 11:1 www.livejournal.com/users/dannasamanoiiko 25 Aug 08, 1:27 PM selena GR, 9 mths well that's an interesting thread for me!! face slapping.... My Master loves to slap my face when i keep Him in my mouth (i just love it too by the way). But He slapped my face twice as a punishment and it was two of the worst moments for me. First time was two months after He had enslaved me cause i forgot to bring something He asked with me. It was mistaken i know cause He told me so many times "don't forget to bring it with you" and i did and He slapped me. I was so ashamed... and almost a year later came the second time. That was even harder for me...W/we were at a friend's house (a M/s couple) and i refused to make a phone call that He asked me to do (writing it down now makes it me wonder what was in my mind at that time!!!!) and He slapped me. The truth is that i came to my senses almost immediately and made the phone call but still.... I was so embarrassed, i lowered my head and i cried silently. Although not a painful punishment slapping my face is one of the most effective punishments for me. 2 Sep 08, 9:00 AM Trainedobedients US(PA), 23 mths Mistress_Tiara wrote: Face Slapping I have question about face slapping. Its one asked purely out of interest. I slap My boys face sometimes for both discipline & kink. I wonder though how many male Owners slap their female slaves face - does this feel inapproriate or cross a boundary for you? Do you do it as a purely erotic act or use face slapping as discipline? How do female slaves who do have their faces slapped by male Owners feel about it? I ask because it occured to Me this is an area that could be a blurred one for some people & I am ever inquisitive. I look forward to peoples responses. Master sometimes slaps my face according to him for three reasons. Because he feels like it, Because it puts me immediately in a very submissive mood, Because it gets him attention immediately without distraction. I hope this answers your question. We both have not a feeling that it is inappropriate within this relationship although he would never do it in public. 4 Sep 08, 5:02 PM 122-760-889 UK, 22 mths I agree - controlled face slapping is good for me - I have my face slapped frequently both by master and his occasionally his wife. It is done by having me stand close to them and being told I am going to have me face slapped for their enjoyment - I always comply willing Other parts of my body are also slapped - like inside of thighs ,breasts and cunt slave 122-760889 5 Sep 08, 3:16 PM 122-760-889 UK, 22 mths I agree with you completely - I am in precisely the same position as you - I expect to get my face slapped (quite hard some times) if I am slow in obeying As you can gather I am a a total slave and am expected to comply absolutely with Masters and Mistress's requirements which vary from sexual to them enjoying themselves in all other ways that my body can offer them slave lisa 8 Sep 08, 1:15 AM KarlyKitty US(WI), 4 mths David-Sama really hates face slapping, which is okay with me because face slapping is more of something that a mother would do to her child or something, in my opinion. David-Sama's Tamed Lioness David-Sama acknowledges that I am still a person, and still have opinions, so though I am his Slave, I still have a "me/I". Next page