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	SD! : Web boards : SM & Bondage : "Face Slapping" 1 2 3 4 5 Face Slapping (50) 8 Sep 08, 3:59 PM Mistress_Tiara UK, 2 yrs Slapping a child's face is NOT an automatic association to Me! *~*Mistress Tiara*~* 8 Sep 08, 10:57 PM SimmeryAxe US, 2 yrs [/quote] Master White Knight does slap my face, but only rarely. Master knows that i have many problems with my mouth (Master and i are currently planning to remove all my teeth in the next two years, and have my tongue pierced for a leash tether) and Master would never wish to cause harm to Master's property. respectfully yours, slave silky whispers collared and owned property of Master White Knight [/quote] Curiosity overwhelms me. Is your Master planning to remove all your teeth because (1) your dentist advises replacement by dentures, or (2) your Master prefers oral submission without teeth, or both? As for the tongue tether, this is a very hot and sexy idea. I have not seen a tongue piercing used as a leash, but heard about it. I have seen a tongue stud used as an attachment for a little bell which hung just below the chin. It had something to do with correcting the slave's tendency to gossip. One of my favorites is a full-circle septum ring used as an attachment for a leash, or for a tether chain. Kind regards to you both. 9 Sep 08, 4:24 AM MasterSkye US, 5 mths I just wanted to thank those in this thread mentioning the dangers of hard face slapping. My slave loves when I intensify her pains and pleasures, and as we have found out she LOVES to be slapped in the face. Generally I just keep it to "soft" quick slaps as the skin on the face is very sensitive. From the sound of it I'll be keeping it that way! Thanks, Skye 15 Sep 08, 1:34 AM David_sama US(WI), 4 mths Y! I don't think I ever would do face slapping. It pushes some boundaries for me. It makes me think to much of abuse that I should be like jailed for or something, plus after reading thread if I accidentally caused severe permanent damage I would feel horrible. 15 Sep 08, 3:07 PM 002-969-319 US, 2 yrs SimmeryAxe wrote: 002-969-319 wrote: Master White Knight does slap my face, but only rarely. Master knows that i have many problems with my mouth (Master and i are currently planning to remove all my teeth in the next two years, and have my tongue pierced for a leash tether) and Master would never wish to cause harm to Master's property. respectfully yours, slave silky whispers collared and owned property of Master White Knight Curiosity overwhelms me. Is your Master planning to remove all your teeth because (1) your dentist advises replacement by dentures, or (2) your Master prefers oral submission without teeth, or both? As for the tongue tether, this is a very hot and sexy idea. I have not seen a tongue piercing used as a leash, but heard about it. I have seen a tongue stud used as an attachment for a little bell which hung just below the chin. It had something to do with correcting the slave's tendency to gossip. One of my favorites is a full-circle septum ring used as an attachment for a leash, or for a tether chain. Kind regards to you both. Master does want me to have my original teeth; for as long as possible, even if that means placing a few planned changes on hold that Master would like to do with my mouth (e.g. tongue piercing). Master knows that i take my pride in doing for Master, and Master does like to show off Master's property and having teeth right now is part of that as well, because Master and i both know it will not be the case shortly. i am a slave with health problems; Diabetes Type 1, Diabetic Neuropathy, Diabetic Sexual Dysfunction, Grand Mal Seizure, and others that Master has to address. i am very lucky to have a Master that is not only able to handle these issues, but understands them as well. For quite some time i was; and then my husband and i, were addressing my health issues. However, the last three years that Master has taken over all of my health concerns, i have been feeling better then i did ten years ago. So what i am saying is, i have the loss of teeth, hair, sight, and body parts in my future with or without being a slave or having a Master. But, at least i have a Master that i know can handle it and include it in our fun to enjoy life. So if my body is going to allow me to possibly end up as a blind, toothless, balled, and/or amputated lump of mass at the end of life then why not have fun with it. Master and i, are always looking at what we can now do and not at what i can no longer do. So in answer to you questions; Your dentist advises replacement by dentures? Or your Master prefers oral submission without teeth? Or both? Master and i, have been addressing this issue with my dentist for the past few years. However, it is now getting to be time to take some action regarding my teeth now. Master is thinking before the end of next year we will have this fully addressed and resolved. At the moment I am cracking and breaking them off at the gum line, on almost monthly bases. Master is looking at Dentures and Dental Implants options, but both are expensive and have issues. i am OK with Dentures, but if you look at the cost over a longer period they are more expensive then the Dental Implants, but the Dental Implants could be expensive if damaged from the leash tether and then the issue of keeping them away from Master cock. So i think the answers is both, but not really. respectfully yours, slave silky whispers, collared and owned property of Master White Knight Edited 16 Sep 08, 2:12 AM by 002-969-319 24 Sep 08, 3:27 PM 122-760-889 UK, 22 mths has any owned slave ever been used in a toungue clamp slave lisa 26 Sep 08, 10:41 PM Miss_Becky 5 mths I'm not sure that I have anything to add to this post which hasn't already been mentioned, but I will give it a try anyway. Like some others, I use face slapping as more of a reward than a punishment, because I know my submissive likes it when I slap his face (his response is always "Thank you, Miss... more, please"). As far as what I can tell, through our conversations, he likes it because, to him, it is when I am at the height of exerting my physical dominance over him (I am a slightly larger gal, but my submissive is a very Big Man... strong and powerful... within his past profession there was a need for him to exert a lot of physical strength over others in order to keep them under control, and to allow me to so willingly and easily do it to him is a very real sign of him submission to me and my dominance over him. This is why it is a reward rather than a punishment. However, I was once on the other end of face-slapping. It was after the first time I ever slapped my submissive's face. It came as a surprise to him that I did it... and at that time I used it as a punishment. He knew that I was very upset with him. Probably to teach me a lesson, he returned the slap in kind (after re-reading my post, this has been edited to add that the slap was a rather playful gesture on the part of my submissive - certainly not conducted with abusive intentions - I just wanted to clarify that as when I re-read this post, I couldn't help but realise that I had perhaps given the impression it was rough/ abusive). I told him if he ever hit me again, that would be the end... of everything. Obviously this was my first response, an overreaction possibly... I felt belittled, degraded, disempowered, shamed... It is not something I would ever allow him to do to me again, without severe punishment (and not just because he is my submissive and I have certain expectations regarding his behaviour towards me). Overall, I view face-slapping as a very useful "tool" if administered correctly - whether to reward or punish, depending on the dynamics of the relationship... I prefer as a reward because I don't generally feel the need to degrade and belittle my submissive... I will punish him for wrongdoings, but my punishments tend to stray from degrading and lean more towards withholding certain things I know he enjoys, etc. The strongest and most effective force in guaranteeing the long-term maintenance of power is not violence in all the forms deployed by the dominant to control the dominated, but consent in all the forms in which the dominated acquiesce in their own domination. Edited 8 Oct 08, 9:17 PM by Miss_Becky 14 Oct 08, 12:04 PM wayoflife UK, 6 yrs I can't say I enjoy the exact moment of my face being slapped, it always comes swiftly and as a surprise, so shock is my first reaction. What I do appreciate though is the effect it has on me immediately afterwards in that it regains my focus as to my position (should it waver). I am therefore all in favour of face-slapping, it is simple and effective in its message and in one instant it replaces the need for a thousand words from Mistress. I am grateful that she is an advocate of it and would never wish to deny her the right to treat me in such a way. Whatever helps me to better serve her should bever be off limits, and slapping does have positive benefits. I can remember each instance clearly, and for each I thank her. 15 Oct 08, 12:32 PM 122-760-889 UK, 22 mths This written with Masters Permission. I have my face slapped fairly regularly for a variety of reasons 1. If am considered disobedient 2. If other friends of owner are invited to do so for their pleasure (especially other women) 3. If owner feels like slapping my face as part of sexual play slacve lisa 15 Oct 08, 4:47 PM 483-768-197 US, 15 mths Mistress_Tiara wrote: Face Slapping I have question about face slapping. Its one asked purely out of interest. I slap My boys face sometimes for both discipline & kink. I wonder though how many male Owners slap their female slaves face - does this feel inapproriate or cross a boundary for you? Do you do it as a purely erotic act or use face slapping as discipline? How do female slaves who do have their faces slapped by male Owners feel about it? I ask because it occured to Me this is an area that could be a blurred one for some people & I am ever inquisitive. I look forward to peoples responses. Master's cunt Loves when He slaps her face. she often Needs this. It seems to help her focus more closely, on her primary purpose: serving/servicing Master. There are no "limits", to what Master "can" do to His cunt. If there were, she thinks she would not be a slave, but a submissive. As a submissive, one asks whether they will perform a task for their master. As a slave, one asks How they will best perform the task for their master. just my (unoriginal) two cents. There is definitely and erotic side to face slapping for Uus. Thank you for bringing up this topic.