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	SD! : Web boards : Discipline : "Punishment while on vacation" 1 2 3 Punishment while on vacation (27) 16 Aug 08, 7:54 PM 000-810-743 US, 4 yrs 365-195-714: Look, i'll try to make it a little more clear... http://www.seekdiscipline.com/wiki/Obedience/ http://www.seekdiscipline.com/wiki/Punishment/ you aren't looking for punishment in the way we know it. you are, as far as i can gather, looking for a intense pain play session. Most slaves don't go LOOKING for punishment. Punishment is (mainly) to end a undesirable behavior, to reap unpleasant consequences for displeasing the Owner. Not to get YOU going. If you have no regret, you have no respect. You are essentially a small child throwing the tizzy in the market to get the toy immediately. i have little patience for 'slaves' such as that, who are really just topping from the bottom for their own wants, to hell with what the Owner wants. This is not to say that i frown upon dynamics that employ this particular (brat) play, but i am not sure that they truly embrace IE theory when the disobedience is cultured and approved. Ugh, that is an oroborous argument! Thanks for the time on my soap box. i'll hop off now and go do the dishes. slave tora, devoted to Sir N 16 Aug 08, 7:56 PM 365-195-714 IT, 8 mths suitemindcrime wrote: 365-195-714 wrote: 000-810-743 wrote: Here's my suggestion - take it as you will or won't: Quit being a drama whore and behave yourself because she WANTS you to. What is the point of serving if you are only doing it because you will get in trouble if you don't? Where is the need, the drive to please her - not you? But then, looking at your other posts, i get the impression it isn't the service but the beatings that drive you, and nothing i say will change your mind. You would have been more truthful saying "how can she beat me without our guests hearing while we are on a yacht" instead of the way you approached it. slave tora, devoted to Sir N, very cranky from leg cramps and NOT in the mood to coddle The fact that I'm italian means that I'm not so good in typing and speaking in english. I do like a lot to serve and please my fiance. And I'm not completely out of line. what I mean is that I could behave a little bit better and I need some adjustment to my behavior. Sorry but I'm italian. the object of my post in fact was how can she beat me whithout our guest hearing while we are on a yacht?? Any other punishment could work? WTF does being Italian have to do with the fact that quite frankly, you're not a slave but instead are simply a bottom who doesn't have the desire nor the true need to serve? By your own words, you have no remorse. So very basically you're nothing more than a drama whore who just wants a beating and if your girlfriend isn't giving it to you, then you come here looking for wank material. Speaking of which, since you're not respecting any rules anyway, why should we believe that you're not jerking your gherkin without permission? You don't deserve punishment. IMHO, you aren't worthy of correction. Until you really WANT to be an owned slave, until your heart and soul drive you to your BEST, not your worst, then you'll not ever learn anything from a punishment given. Go play. That's all you're really doing anyway. (i offer sincere apologies to any i have possibly offended outside of the OP. Stuff like this REALLY annoys me.) 16 Aug 08, 9:53 PM 365-195-714 IT, 8 mths 365-195-714 wrote: suitemindcrime wrote: 365-195-714 wrote: 000-810-743 wrote: Here's my suggestion - take it as you will or won't: Quit being a drama whore and behave yourself because she WANTS you to. What is the point of serving if you are only doing it because you will get in trouble if you don't? Where is the need, the drive to please her - not you? But then, looking at your other posts, i get the impression it isn't the service but the beatings that drive you, and nothing i say will change your mind. You would have been more truthful saying "how can she beat me without our guests hearing while we are on a yacht" instead of the way you approached it. slave tora, devoted to Sir N, very cranky from leg cramps and NOT in the mood to coddle The fact that I'm italian means that I'm not so good in typing and speaking in english. I do like a lot to serve and please my fiance. And I'm not completely out of line. what I mean is that I could behave a little bit better and I need some adjustment to my behavior. Sorry but I'm italian. the object of my post in fact was how can she beat me whithout our guest hearing while we are on a yacht?? Any other punishment could work? WTF does being Italian have to do with the fact that quite frankly, you're not a slave but instead are simply a bottom who doesn't have the desire nor the true need to serve? By your own words, you have no remorse. So very basically you're nothing more than a drama whore who just wants a beating and if your girlfriend isn't giving it to you, then you come here looking for wank material. Speaking of which, since you're not respecting any rules anyway, why should we believe that you're not jerking your gherkin without permission? You don't deserve punishment. IMHO, you aren't worthy of correction. Until you really WANT to be an owned slave, until your heart and soul drive you to your BEST, not your worst, then you'll not ever learn anything from a punishment given. Go play. That's all you're really doing anyway. (i offer sincere apologies to any i have possibly offended outside of the OP. Stuff like this REALLY annoys me.) What does WTF means?? I have the desire to serve her I truly like it. I have remorse. I like when she is happy about my behavior. I don't surf on the internet for wank material and she usualy cheks what I surf. I'm not toching my self for 2 reason: first because we are allways togheather and second because I like her to know when I touch myself. What does IMHO means? I try to do my best but I'm not able to be perfect. 16 Aug 08, 10:52 PM 000-810-743 US, 4 yrs Okay, one last time, so i can get my good karma badge for the day... Your first three posts contradict your last post. You don't get to play the misunderstood victim here...we were quoting you when we all made our posts. You like making your fiancee happy? Then quit being an ass and behave. That's how. Now if you are asking "How can we session while we have guests onboard?" then i can suggest mindplay, using gags, or hells bells, just [i]waiting[/i] until you drop em off and are alone again. For the glossary: WTF is What the F**k IMHO is In My Honest or Humble Opinion And this is just my curiosity, and i know it stir-fried the cat, but why are YOU always the one asking what kind of punishments you should get? Why is your Owner not here asking, why are you never asking for her, why does she even need to ask anyone? Do you misbehave so often she's run out of ideas? Does she even care, or is she just indulging you? My perfect idea for [i]punishment[/i] for you the way you say you are being, is total ignorance of you. As you are not behaving like her good property, you should be dismissed from sight immediately, so that your presence would not displease her. Sucks, huh. i'm really hoping that maybe you will sit down and think this out, and come to a conclusion on what it is that is more important to you, her pleasure and happiness or your need to act up. slave tora, devoted to Sir N 17 Aug 08, 3:43 PM 365-195-714 IT, 8 mths 000-810-743 wrote: Okay, one last time, so i can get my good karma badge for the day... Your first three posts contradict your last post. You don't get to play the misunderstood victim here...we were quoting you when we all made our posts. You like making your fiancee happy? Then quit being an ass and behave. That's how. Now if you are asking "How can we session while we have guests onboard?" then i can suggest mindplay, using gags, or hells bells, just [i]waiting[/i] until you drop em off and are alone again. For the glossary: WTF is What the F**k IMHO is In My Honest or Humble Opinion And this is just my curiosity, and i know it stir-fried the cat, but why are YOU always the one asking what kind of punishments you should get? Why is your Owner not here asking, why are you never asking for her, why does she even need to ask anyone? Do you misbehave so often she's run out of ideas? Does she even care, or is she just indulging you? My perfect idea for [i]punishment[/i] for you the way you say you are being, is total ignorance of you. As you are not behaving like her good property, you should be dismissed from sight immediately, so that your presence would not displease her. Sucks, huh. i'm really hoping that maybe you will sit down and think this out, and come to a conclusion on what it is that is more important to you, her pleasure and happiness or your need to act up. slave tora, devoted to Sir N Mind play is good but unfortunately there is at least one week before she can really punish me. She never surfes the web for this pages. She says she prefers me checking for her. 17 Aug 08, 7:34 PM 365-195-714 IT, 8 mths I hoped to find more people typing. 17 Aug 08, 11:02 PM 000-810-743 US, 4 yrs i disagree. you hoped to find more people willing to further your misbehavior and disrespect the M/s dynamic. slave tora, devoted to Sir N 17 Aug 08, 11:09 PM 365-195-714 IT, 8 mths 000-810-743 wrote: i disagree. you hoped to find more people willing to further your misbehavior and disrespect the M/s dynamic. slave tora, devoted to Sir N Tora, I think you are wrong and there is a general misunderstanding. I'm saying the truth. I jest want to find out ways in wich she could punish me. There are many people laying on blogs but not myself. 18 Aug 08, 12:26 AM MasterJC 5 mths the is not repsectful even here!!! Since when is domme a 'girlfriend' ??????? SHE is your MISTRESS, DOMME, OWNER,etc... I think the slave is not really a slave So how can it expect to be treated as one??? Master JC... 18 Aug 08, 10:59 AM 365-195-714 IT, 8 mths MasterJC wrote: the is not repsectful even here!!! Since when is domme a 'girlfriend' ??????? SHE is your MISTRESS, DOMME, OWNER,etc... I think the slave is not really a slave So how can it expect to be treated as one??? Master JC... I could also type HER NAME in capital but I don't respect her more because I type HER in capital. she is my girfriend in we will merry soon. We plan to live our life in a femdom relationship. salve s Next page