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	SD! : Web boards : Discipline : "HELP!! I was bad!!!" HELP!! I was bad!!! (3) Mon 18 Aug 08, 1:59 AM 994-437-094 US(PA), 3 mths  I am posting this with my Master's permission. I have come here to seek advice on a pending punishment that I have coming my way. Long story short I most definitely overstepped my boundaries as my Master's slave! I not only defied rules that He had set in place but disrespected Him in various ways. I verbally abused Him and as an immediate consequence, I almost lost my Master, my lover, and my best friend. Along with his forgiveness, He has asked me to post this in hopes of gathering a wide opinion on the punishment that His slave deserves. Do not hold back and please be specific. I need put back in my proper place! Obedience, Service, and Honor 18 Aug 08, 2:27 AM bratitude US(AZ), 14 mths  994-437-094 wrote: HELP!! I was bad!!! He has asked me to post this in hopes of gathering a wide opinion on the punishment that His slave deserves. Do not hold back and please be specific. I need put back in my proper place! In all honesty i can't tell you nor your Master what i believe is sufficient punishment. i have no idea what your likes and/or dislikes are. Only you and your Master can make a determination. i can only tell you it has been my experience that being distanced placed at "arms length" so to speak. Having my Master there but not have them acknowledge my presence. my Master mentions kneeling on rice, although i've never had the displeasure of having to do so i can imagine this would have plenty of time for painful contemplation. Given all that time to think without the benefit of being able to talk to my Master or laugh or joke or do any of the things we enjoy doing leaves room for all the thoughts to be sorted and examined and when He allows me to come to Him (He knows by my body language) words aren't even necessary at that point. But there again.. that's me. i do wish you the best of luck in finding the solution. i believe you both have it within you right now, without meaning any disrespect, i just think maybe you are not willing to approach it. Cryptic1's devoted bratitude "...The sweetest infection of body and mind; Sweetest injection of any kind..." Depeche Mode 18 Aug 08, 3:03 AM tangie US(MI), 5 yrs  with all due respect, I've seen posts like this before--"Master wants me to post to see how I should be punished." If this is a serious situation, punishment is to correct behavior. I'm sorry but an online board is the last place I hope my Master would look for "ideas" for punishment, unless it's an excuse for play time. If he doesn't know what he wants to do, doesn't have the mindset to create his own punishments, then I'd suggest he table "punishment" alltogether until he can work out a system that will be stable and long term. Barbara Edited to add: I'm sorry if I come off as snippy, but I've seen posts like yours too many times. It always makes me want to ask "what are they thinking" because I simply can't imagine leaving a serious punishment up to strangers. "Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted" Unknown. Edited 18 Aug 08, 3:05 AM by tangie 18 Aug 08, 4:32 AM 662-935-655 US, 2 yrs  bratitude wrote: 994-437-094 wrote: HELP!! I was bad!!! He has asked me to post this in hopes of gathering a wide opinion on the punishment that His slave deserves. Do not hold back and please be specific. I need put back in my proper place! In all honesty i can't tell you nor your Master what i believe is sufficient punishment. i have no idea what your likes and/or dislikes are. Only you and your Master can make a determination. i can only tell you it has been my experience that being distanced placed at "arms length" so to speak. Having my Master there but not have them acknowledge my presence. my Master mentions kneeling on rice, although i've never had the displeasure of having to do so i can imagine this would have plenty of time for painful contemplation. Given all that time to think without the benefit of being able to talk to my Master or laugh or joke or do any of the things we enjoy doing leaves room for all the thoughts to be sorted and examined and when He allows me to come to Him (He knows by my body language) words aren't even necessary at that point. But there again.. that's me. i do wish you the best of luck in finding the solution. i believe you both have it within you right now, without meaning any disrespect, i just think maybe you are not willing to approach it. i always found worrying about what, if any, punishment would be applied worse than the punishment - and Master knew it so He'd ignore me and leave me waiting for a LONG time, then ask "What punishment?" very innocently. With His health i never knew if He did forget and get wrapped up in a computer problem for days or if that was the punishment. But what on earth possessed you to do something like this - to OP? Sounds like me in really bad PMDD - which thank Heavens is no longer a problem, just disappeared one night. PMDD is kller PMS from Hades. i was quite a brat at those times and i think Master knew it was a physiological thing, so was lenient. You know PMS - alternately defined on 2 t-shirts Master once saw as "Putting Up with Men's Sh*t" or "Pack my suitcases" - what made those most funny is it was an, apparently Vanilla, couple wearing these, walking down the boardwalk of a beach together, holding hands. But man oh man, original Poster, what on earth made you decide to do THAT stuff? j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! "Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose" Janis Joplin