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	SD! : Web boards : Discipline : "How to solve bed abits (help pls)" 1 2 How to solve bed abits (help pls) (11) Tue 19 Aug 08, 8:30 AM 365-195-714 IT, 7 mths  I have to bed habbits that in one year and 8 month of our Ds relationship my Mistress was not able to solve. (we are both quite new to this lifestyle). First of all is finger in the nose: I put them very often and she still didn't manage to remove me this habbit. The second is regarding food: I love eating and I eat a lot (I weight 85 kg and I'm only 170 cm high). How you Master and Mistress solve/would solve the problem? What do you think subs?? thanks slave S 19 Aug 08, 9:44 AM 595-898-539 US(WI), 8 mths  365-195-714 wrote: I have to bed habbits that in one year and 8 month of our Ds relationship my Mistress was not able to solve. (we are both quite new to this lifestyle). First of all is finger in the nose: I put them very often and she still didn't manage to remove me this habbit. The second is regarding food: I love eating and I eat a lot (I weight 85 kg and I'm only 170 cm high). How you Master and Mistress solve/would solve the problem? What do you think subs?? i hope i can help. i myself have had issues with my own bad habits. When Mistress and i were still in a vanilla relationship, i was a rather heavy smoker (usually a pack, pack and a half, per day). And like most Americans, i used to eat way too much. Although i was thin, my nutrition was poor and i was frequently sick. When i became a slave, Mistress promised that my poor habits would be a thing of the past. Through patience, willpower, and some forceful 'encouragement' from Mistress, i was able to overcome. For example, Mistress would make me wear a ballgag every time i had an urge to smoke. After a few weeks, my lungs were on the path to healing and cigarettes became a thing of the past. Mistress has kept me nicotine-free for over a year already. yay! :D As for the poor eating habits, Mistress requires that i follow a vegetarian diet with Her. i am on a strict dietary regime, and have to exercise daily. On a few occasions, i would smuggle snacks and junk food into my diet. Whenever i was caught cheating on my diet; a ballgag, spreader bars, a paddle, and a big strap-on would keep me in place. Wanting to avoid completely preventable punishment, i simply gave up junk food. you see, 365-195-714, bad habits can be overcome with the right attitude. Its a matter of devotion: to be a slave and submit totally, you must be able change and adapt to whatever your Mistress wants. On the other hand, your Mistress will find a sense of empowerment and control when Her slave no longer treats his body poorly. See what works for both of you. What works for me might not work for you, and vice versa. In my case, coercion and swift, harsh punishment worked just fine ;P i hope my advice can encourage you to connect more with your Mistress. If She truly wants you to stop overeating and have better hygiene habits, take it to heart. Hope this helps. Good luck. 595-898-539 (Mel's Slave) Obediently serving Mistress Mel since 4-12-07. 20 Aug 08, 2:23 PM 365-195-714 IT, 7 mths  365-195-714 wrote: How to solve bed abits (help pls) I have to bed habbits that in one year and 8 month of our Ds relationship my Mistress was not able to solve. (we are both quite new to this lifestyle). First of all is finger in the nose: I put them very often and she still didn't manage to remove me this habbit. The second is regarding food: I love eating and I eat a lot (I weight 85 kg and I'm only 170 cm high). How you Master and Mistress solve/would solve the problem? What do you think subs?? thanks slave S Any other tip??? 21 Aug 08, 5:02 PM petdelysid US, 12 mths  Would you mind sharing what your Mistress has done to try to remove the habit of fingers in the nose? I can't think of helpful tips if I don't know what's been tried and hasn't worked. Your Mistress knows you better than we do, I hope, and if she can't think of any way of stopping you, how are we supposed to with no background? ~del~ 22 Aug 08, 2:20 AM MalyKot US, 4 mths  Well, with Master and I the issue wasn't eating too much, rather not eating enough...but you ought to be able to take the same approach. I've struggled on and off since childhood with eating disorders. Master is aware of this and his watchful eye has bolstered my will power enough that I haven't made any horrifically unhealthy choices since I've been with him. Essentially he told said that when I hurt my body by not eating (or in your case, eating too much) I not only disappoint him by willfully disobeying him, but I damage his property. He certainly doesn't "punish" me physically in any way when I disappoint him because I am admittedly a masochist and, on some level, I like receiving his attention in form, as I suspect most subs and slaves do, and any punishment might accidentally encourage the bad behavior. He's willing to grant me a little attention when I'm being tempted and need a listening ear in order to resist, but if I disobey him, I'm only going to be ignored. That's the worst punishment. And it works. I always scramble then to please him. I think an involved method like this is good for weight loss/ weight gain / other big issues because they require a lot of will power to resolve. As for picking your nose, well , it displeases your Mistress and could reflect poorly on her if you did it in public...so stop. It's just a habit. I doubt her involvement is really necessary to fix it. Learn to occupy your hands with something else. That's generally what one tells a child with the same problem. Good luck, hope that helps. 22 Aug 08, 10:55 PM 365-195-714 IT, 7 mths  petdelysid wrote: Would you mind sharing what your Mistress has done to try to remove the habit of fingers in the nose? I can't think of helpful tips if I don't know what's been tried and hasn't worked. Your Mistress knows you better than we do, I hope, and if she can't think of any way of stopping you, how are we supposed to with no background? Today she put toothpaste on my dick and a toothbrash up in my arse. 23 Aug 08, 9:41 AM 942-784-782 US(CA), 5 mths  I also have a tendency to eat too little. In my case, it's complicated by a medical condition that leaves me with very little to no appetite. Left to my own devices, I tend to not eat until I start to feel faint. Now, I just eat what I am given to eat, or eat when I am told to eat, whether I want to or feel like it or not. I eat as much as I can, whether or not I want to/feel like it, and my Master trusts me to be honest and straightforward about when I have eaten as much as I am able to. 26 Aug 08, 8:46 PM slavegail UK, 3 yrs  written with permission of NG1. when this slave first joined her Owners she was drinking to much and took drugs.one of Owners condistions for taking me as their slave was i would not be allowed any drink of any kind (ever) and for the first six months i would have a head mask on when they were not in the house. also part of agreement was slave would never leave the house without permission (unless for her health and safety) even then she was never to leave the grounds.slave has been here 4 years now and has NEVER had a drink and is compleatly clean of drugs. this slave does not say it was easy and yes it hurt but slave is happy she did it with owners help. slavegail Owned Property slavegail Property of NG1 5 Sep 08, 6:36 PM vistana CA, 8 mths  I'd suggest tabasco or something similar under the fingernails. Something that would burn if it got into the nose. (When I used to chew my nails I bought nail polish that tasted foul on purpose, it was designed to help people break that habit - I just picked it off before chewing, but the idea is sound) 11 Sep 08, 12:40 PM property_of_MacCain US(PA), 9 mths  365-195-714 wrote: Today she put toothpaste on my dick and a toothbrash up in my arse. Seems your Master may be addressing the wrong end of the problem... possibly addressing your head region would have more of a positive effect. Just a thought. p I breathe because He allows me to, indulging Him indulges me. 11 Sep 08, 12:51 PM anjuli UK, 16 mths  property_of_MacCain wrote: 365-195-714 wrote: Today she put toothpaste on my dick and a toothbrash up in my arse. Seems your Master may be addressing the wrong end of the problem... possibly addressing your head region would have more of a positive effect. Just a thought. p Priceless! Just priceless! Well said p. anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ Next page