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	SD! : Web boards : The Slave Register : "Who is REAL LIFESTYLE, and who is just looking in?" 1 2 3 Who is REAL LIFESTYLE, and who is just looking in? (27) Thu 21 Aug 08, 4:44 PM Sungmehetu US(OR), 2 yrs  Ffriends I know it's been awhile since I posted, well over six months. I've been busy with My pokey. The collaring, the collaboration of funds and property, and recently the proposal of poly, suggested by My girl. So in the hunt of trying to find what would suit Oour Family, I've run into several barriers. Many of the people I talk to, don't believe I'm REAL. Never mind the pictures and history posted in My profile...That's not good enough. There are plenty of voyeurs and masturbators that post naked pics of porn stars. I took pokey's bare ass off the photos months ago because of the proclimation by Tanos. At any rate...I see these newcomers point. You know there is a site, (we'll call it "Collar It") that the population is, by My calculation, circa 90% non-practicing lifestylers. I have to give Tanos a round of applause. I'm willing to guess that over 60% of the population here is EXPERIENCED in lifestyle, not just looking into it, and May be dedicated. Forget Alt (ternator). com that is a pay site. They will make money however they can. I guess My summation is this: If you need to find Real lifestylers. This is the best, and most real community. And Yes...It's a community. Cause Wwe Aall stick up for each other. Be Well. Michael n pokey. Edited Thu 21 Aug 08, 5:05 PM by Sungmehetu 23 Aug 08, 12:28 AM 898-443-818 US, 19 mths  i agree this is the best resource so far for people like me.. just a slave, this is our life, may or may not be the same as yours, but it is real and it is 24/7. It's not a game or a fantasy. i actually met my Master on what we'll call "collar it"... i didn't realize what a miracle that was until i came here. i was only "on" there one day. This is a wonderful forum, and you can check me off as a "real live slave." 23 Aug 08, 4:17 PM 173-682-895 US(NY), 20 mths  i found this site after i was already collared and in a 24/7 M/s relationship. i was thrilled to find that there are many people who have similar interests to my own, many more than i had imagined. i believe that most of the people here are genuine, and the fakers are usually quite obvious. i find comfort here, plain & simple. Y/you are never more alive as when Y/you are at risk. Master's ~one~ 23 Sep 08, 10:58 PM Miss_Becky 4 mths  I find comfort as well. This website and the people who post here are an excellent source of knowledge and inspiration. I have confidence that any troubles or problems I am having, if posed to many of the members of this board, can probably be handled with their suggestions and advice. As a bit of a "newbie" I have already received excellent, most helpful advice. I thought that I would feel awkward, posing questions to much more experienced persons, but the truth is, many of the people here seem to be of such a kind and caring manner that they make it easy for others to express their queries or even add their own thoughts and feelings to the discussions. As a bit of an "outsider" looking in, I find the topics fascinating. There are so many questions and comments I have seen which made me reflect on my own lifestyle and relationship and I think I have actually grown a little. Unfortunately the life of D/s (or any other "alternative" non main-stream lifestyle, for that matter) has so many misconceptions and preconceived notions because of the things we hear and read in popular media... and this board helps dispel a lot of those myths. I'm glad I stumbled across this place... although, I'm still not sure how, exactly, I found it... The strongest and most effective force in guaranteeing the long-term maintenance of power is not violence in all the forms deployed by the dominant to control the dominated, but consent in all the forms in which the dominated acquiesce in their own domination. 23 Sep 08, 11:42 PM property_of_MacCain US(PA), 9 mths  MacCain sent me here as required reading after i'd been lamenting that i knew nobody else in a 24/7 relationship. i spent months reading posts and getting "to know" the natives, prior to posting. You can check me off as real time 24/7 TPE. p I breathe because He allows me to, indulging Him indulges me. 24 Sep 08, 9:17 AM 315-076-759 UK, 6 mths  For what its worth, here's my contribution. I am NOT a 24/7 slave but am in an LDR one. I keep weekly contact by phone and e-mail with Lady Mistress. I suppose by the site's definition I don't qualify as a "slave" per se but, I wear Lady Mistress ankle ring 24/7 which serves as a constant reminder. I feel I am a slave in spite of definitions. This is a most helpful and supportive site even for the likes of me. Its nice to know I'm not alone. To be a true slave is to be truly free Slave/Sklavos 24 Sep 08, 12:02 PM Authority UK, 4 yrs  It'd be a mistake to create some sort of hierarchy based on "experience", though. For one thing, some of us haven't yet met our partners, but that doesn't mean we're not serious. In fact I think some of us long-term single people are among the most serious. We're not interested in vanilla relationships, we're not interested in "play" and if we're not fortunate enough to meet someone suitable early, then we just keep plugging away till we get what we need. The second point is that experience does not in itself equal seriousness or competence. Both George Bush and Gordon Brown are experienced in government. 24 Sep 08, 1:58 PM jjsslave 13 mths  i have been on all the other sites and do find this to me full of more actual people that are in the lifestyle. a friends of mine told me about this site and i love it. ive been in the lifestlye for going on 7 years and am living in a 24/7 and loving every minute of it as a slave. so i guess i would say yes, i'm real 24 Sep 08, 5:26 PM 613-411-535 3 mths  I'm in an LDR. It suits us both for many reasons. I have R/T experience. Whether of not others would think this is "real" does not worry me. I know it is and that my promise of obedience and honesty is very very serious. When she speaks, I am her slave. I find the two tier system on this site very frustrating. I feel I cannot post on many boards here because only those in 24/7 relationships may do so. The issues raised are often just as relevent to my relationship as to any others. There are reasons for this discrimintion, of course, but I increasingly find that I cannot express myself here and have to go elsewhre. That's sad. (for me, anyway!) 24 Sep 08, 7:00 PM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs  613-411-535 wrote: I find the two tier system on this site very frustrating. I feel I cannot post on many boards here because only those in 24/7 relationships may do so. The issues raised are often just as relevent to my relationship as to any others. Simply because some of the boards are more geared toward 'the household' rather than a relationship of any kind in any case, it doesn't mean you aren't entitled to have an opinion about any subject on any of the forum boards here or anywhere, at all. Staying away from a specific board when you felt you had something valid to add to it, may actually detract from the whole value of a thread, and as such, devalue your part of the community as whole because you, albeit loosely represent it by doing so. Frankly I find that a shame, and perhaps you should reconsider your position on the subject; everyone 'is' entitled to an opinion here - we are all part of the same lifestyle and forum after all. Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ 24 Sep 08, 8:18 PM 597-866-048 US(CA), 9 mths  my "friend" sent me to this site, it was His way of showing me there were "others" whom had the same desires and thoughts that were in my own head..Indeed once i began to read i found a comfort from knowing i was not alone finding it later in my life..Once able to post i found advise..suggestions and opinions and people whom i trust and value their views, which i use now through private memo. It has been a process but i am close to where i desire and need to be, with my Sweet Master 24/7. We all have to start somewhere but progression is inevitable. promise only what you can deliver..Then deliver more than you promise.. Next page