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	SD! : Web boards : Ritual : "Collar at work?" 1 2 3 Collar at work? (30) 4 Sep 08, 12:34 AM MalyKot US, 6 mths a low budget alternative to the eternity collar too is a chain mail collar. Master recently gave me a chain mail collar and it just looks like chunky jewelry to the vanilla, naturally has lots of attachment points, and can close with either a lock or a hook. 11 Sep 08, 10:33 AM buckwhl US, 3 yrs Y! 234-086-891 wrote: Collar at work? I dont know if one has this problem but I would love your input. I wear my collar all the time with the exception of work. I feel the need to have it on all the time. The few times I have worn it at work and when I do I get corporate complaints, you see I train dogs for a living and so people tent to over analyze things, my desire to please my master and the need to support our family monetarily weigh heavy on my mind. my master and I are vary open about who we are and how we live. My question is...are there any other of you that have had to work through this kind of diversity? I can understand your need to wear the collar. I have the same feelings, but my job also would not understand it. Mistress got me a ring to wear that never comes off. That has raised a few questions but no odd looks. Buck 14 Sep 08, 8:52 PM MasterFred US(FL), 4 mths Have you thought of ome of those silk choker necklaces? Just an idea. Master Fred Alcohol is not the answer, it just makes you forget the question. 15 Sep 08, 2:07 AM His_namaste US, 4 yrs Y! Greetings, i have an eternity collar which i mear daily to my job in coporate america. When i asked i have told people it is a Sacred Symbol of the commitment between my SO and i. Always in His service, ~ Master Obsidian's namaste http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Exquisite_Enslavem... (for slaves ONLY) 23 Sep 08, 8:31 PM EsotericKen US(FL), 3 yrs I wear a axsmar cuff bracelet on my right wrist. She put it on 9-15-08. We ordered it with the permanent lock so it is going nowhere. I do not get many looks and so far no one has asked. For me it is a nice alternative to a collar. Discrete yet out there for all to see. We have tried eternity, rings of steel and others. I find rings of steel to be of better quality than eternity and the axsmar craftsmanship is excellent. 7 Oct 08, 3:05 PM Perfect10 UK, 15 mths As most slaves have agreed, you can wear some form of collar one way or another. Although i miss my collar while at work it just wouldn't be seen professional enough if i did. Therefore Master bought me a beautiful chain last Christmas i can wear under all my clothes. It has a silver tag on the end with my name and number engraved on it so its always close to my heart. And if I'm unable to wear that, i have several other items, bracelets, pins, ribbons. All designed to keep me focussed and close to Master if i'm not at his side....or his feet. xxx For my love, my demon, my saviour, My Master. Edited 7 Oct 08, 3:06 PM by Perfect10 9 Oct 08, 4:01 AM BunnySlave US, 15 mths I have a collar that I wear when I'm with my Master. During our collaring ceremony he also placed two matching rings on my hands. The are "O" rings. They have the BDSM emblem all the way around them with a ring hanging from the center like you would find on a collar. I wear these at all times. They have not been off my hands except for surgery recently. I've had several comments on them. Sometimes I say they are "charm" rings just without the charms yet because I haven't found any I liked. Other times when I'm comfortable with the people asking I tell them what they really are. I've even had a few people notice the emblem and what they are really for. Those people find the rings a very "political correct" way of saying I'm owned without the world giving me grief over it. Sometimes it bothers me that I have to lie about what the rings really are. People can be so rude and insulting when you acknowledge that you're a slave and very happy with the choices you've made. I didn't ask them to allow me to service them. IT's not like I ran out and handed them a whip either. I bet if other people knew what went on behind their closed doors they wouldn't be so quick to judge me. What if I decided to insult them because they liked giving blow jobs or they used the removable shower head in the shower without telling their spouse they like to get off? See, it isn't any different. So, I guess what I"m saying is I'm proud to be owned and I wish I could wear my collar everywhere without judgement. But until that day comes, I'll wear my rings at all times and my collar when it's "safe". 9 Oct 08, 11:03 AM 510-976-762 3 yrs I wear my collar 24/7 and have done so since I received it. Though Master died and I'm now moving on, his collar and the ceremony means a lot and I shall wear it always. At work people have become used to it and so long as I keep the Allen key handy just in case I have an accident and my collar needs to be removed in a hurry I am allowed to keep it on. x buckwhl wrote: 234-086-891 wrote: Collar at work? I dont know if one has this problem but I would love your input. I wear my collar all the time with the exception of work. I feel the need to have it on all the time. The few times I have worn it at work and when I do I get corporate complaints, you see I train dogs for a living and so people tent to over analyze things, my desire to please my master and the need to support our family monetarily weigh heavy on my mind. my master and I are vary open about who we are and how we live. My question is...are there any other of you that have had to work through this kind of diversity? I can understand your need to wear the collar. I have the same feelings, but my job also would not understand it. Mistress got me a ring to wear that never comes off. That has raised a few questions but no odd looks. Buck 9 Oct 08, 4:26 PM 562-683-786 DK, 3 mths Hi... I too have a collar (eternity) which I wear whenever my Mistress wants me to. This includes on my job - but since I have an executive position, it is natural to wear shirt and tie, which totally keeps it out of sight. However other people get to see it - and I have had no comments... 9 Oct 08, 5:08 PM 613-411-535 4 mths kashta wrote: I probably see this differently than many others here. If you don't want outsiders to know the true nature of your relationship, then don't go out in the vanilla world wearing a collar or other recognizeable symbol. The general public really isn't as unaware as we'd like to believe. They're not so easily fooled or oblivious to this. Even so, what they don't understand or can't appreciate, they tend to judge negatively. That could become a real issue for you at work, at church, or wherever else. Although the wearing of a collar is important to many, I tend to agree with kashta. For me, the collar is in my mind. It is my mind she wants and owns, so although the collar cannot be seen it is there just as surely as if it were made of steel. Next page