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	SD! : Web boards : Sex & Fetishes : "A question regarding masturbation." 1 2 A question regarding masturbation. (18) Moved from IE Theory Sun 31 Aug 08, 1:13 AM 493-966-682 US(WI), 6 mths Y! First and foremost, i ask your forgiveness if this is in the wrong place. ~ The other day a question regarding masturbation arose. Why do males seem to find it enjoyable to watch females pleasure themselves? And conversely, why do females enjoy watching males? If someone could give a little insight to the human mind, perhaps? Evan's kitten. 31 Aug 08, 9:52 AM ravengirl UK, 5 mths I hate it! Being made to watch is a very effective punishment for me. It makes me feel redundant, like I don't deserve the right to give Him pleasure. Very humbling and humiliating. Edited 31 Aug 08, 7:21 PM by ravengirl 31 Aug 08, 10:42 PM 493-966-682 US(WI), 6 mths Y! Strange...though i can see how this would effect you. i look at it as a chance to see raw emotion and pleasure, and i want to be the source of that pleasure. Evan's kitten. 1 Sep 08, 3:14 AM kashta US, 9 mths Y! 493-966-682 wrote: The other day a question regarding masturbation arose. Why do males seem to find it enjoyable to watch females pleasure themselves? And conversely, why do females enjoy watching males? If someone could give a little insight to the human mind, perhaps? From my experience, males like to see how strongly a woman's body responds to sexual stimulation... when I've been observed like this, I was told it was exciting for him to watch what I was doing for HIM. And knowing that I did this for his enjoyment as much as - or even more than - for my own. Men also appreciate a woman's willingness to share the most intimate aspects of her sexuality with them. And that it was done willingly and without shame or embarassment. At other times in totally different circumstances, I was profoundly shamed by what he required me to do. So it can mean very different things at varying times for all of us. From the other side of this, it's the man's arousal that excites me more than anything else. As I look on, I feel my desire growing inside.... and I can't help thinking how strongly I want to touch him, to be given even just a little taste of him. I imagine how good it would make me feel for him to use that erection on me. (Or, rather, in me.) It's a complete tease for me to watch what he does. Makes me acutely aware of my own needs and desires. _____________ "If Passion drives, let Reason hold the reins." 1 Sep 08, 2:57 PM slavegail UK, 3 yrs Y! written with permission of NG1. i don,t know about Owners pleasure watching slave masterbate first she is not allowed to do it second the only time Owners order slave to do it is when they let her have an orgasm. and then they give her the dildo or other toyd then watch to see she only has one and does not continue after. owners pratice strict orgasm denile with a damaged clit it is some times hard for slave to cum but Owners know witch bottons to push at the right time. slavegail Property of NG1 2 Sep 08, 10:03 AM ravengirl UK, 5 mths 493-966-682 wrote: i look at it as a chance to see raw emotion and pleasure, and i want to be the source of that pleasure. That makes sense too. I guess it's about context. When I'm made to watch, it's because He wants to deny me. As much as I hate it, I love the effect it has on me. Hope that makes sense ? 4 Sep 08, 12:24 AM Master_BLUs_pet US, 10 mths Y! my Master says He likes to watch because it is erotic/hot to watch a female playing with themselves and He can see what makes me feel good. He mostly controls how i play with myself and i always have to beg for my orgasms. Most of the time He allows me to when He is ready. It was embarrassing at first for me to do this in front of Him but then i realized all the other things W/we have done together and now i am not. i like to watch Him masterbate in front of me for several different reasons! Its a complete turn on for me from start to finish. To see the emotions build on His face when He is getting close and when He is at full climax is priceless. Not only that but when He does climax i am rewarded - nothing is wasted!! Written with permission and at the request of MasterBLU. 8 Sep 08, 12:43 AM KarlyKitty US(WI), 4 mths I don't really know why some people like watching the opposite sex masturbate. Personally, I will never understand it, and David-Sama says He isn't that sort of Master so it is all okay. David-Sama's Tamed Lioness David-Sama acknowledges that I am still a person, and still have opinions, so though I am his Slave, I still have a "me/I". 8 Sep 08, 7:24 AM 996-150-083 AU, 13 mths I have never been allowed to watch Mistress masturbate. I have, however, been ordered to masturbate with other female doms present while Mistress Tamara flogged my butt. The doms definately enjoyed watching my punishment and one dom firmly grasped my shaft and collected my cum in her other hand and then ordered me to eat it - while the sexual release was good I was left with a strong feeling of humiliation, which was just what Mistress wanted as part of my punishment. Spanked Slave 996-150-083 8 Sep 08, 6:57 PM MasterAlan79 AU, 4 mths Y! 493-966-682 wrote: A question regarding masturbation. First and foremost, i ask your forgiveness if this is in the wrong place. ~ The other day a question regarding masturbation arose. Why do males seem to find it enjoyable to watch females pleasure themselves? And conversely, why do females enjoy watching males? If someone could give a little insight to the human mind, perhaps? well in the start of a relationship its a good way to see what she does and how to get ideas. also it gives me a chance to see her cum, which is important cos i hate girls who fake it, cos its basically lying. i dont know theres just something about watching a girls legs twitch that exciting, especially if a girl is a squirter. theres also the fact that you know its sort of not lady like to do that, or often seen that way. its just fin to see how the body reacts, you dont really see that during sex. there is just so many stimulous going on, as i watch i can see, hear, to a point feel, and smell. theres just something about the smell of a wet pussy thats intoxicating. ive never known a girl to like watching me unless i was watching them at the same time. so in that respect its also a good punishment, and in my mind more effective than spankings or any other punishment. to be honest i havent thought about it much, i like to so i do lol. 15 Sep 08, 2:14 AM David_sama US(WI), 4 mths Y! 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