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	SD! : Web boards : Discipline : "reward" 1 2 3 4 reward (33) 27 Nov 08, 10:38 PM tangie US(MI), 6 yrs I don't get rewarded, particularly; mostly, he gives me positive reinforcement by letting me know he's pleased. Unlike some, I'm not rewarded with sex, but sometimes I do get chocolate . 28 Nov 08, 6:24 AM 373-468-022 US, 2 mths Y! i am rewarded often with verbal praise, i often here "you are such a good girl" which makes me melt. The days i hear "you are My excellent slave". After seeing how pleased He is, and the verbal praise, i've been much better. As far as material things, i am allowed to buy things i know will please him, but trips to the mall are a treat. So to please Him with things i know He will like, i have to be very good to get out to get them. Life can be so confusing MGs slave It's not what you call me, but what I answer to. African proverb 28 Nov 08, 9:16 AM LadyKit US(CO), 3 mths I use verbal praise (Good boy) and the opportunity to relax and watch anime (or read manga) in bed with me to let my slave know he's done well lately. I don't let him do those things often in my presence and when I do, he knows he's been good and earned it. Of course, that's simply the way I chose to reward him. Around holidays, its rough on and for the both of us. We're both running constantly and he works extremely hard for me. Its reward enough for him to simply relax together for an hour. Again, just my way of rewarding him. But it works. I'm not going into punishments, that's not really what this topic was about. These are the rewards I give.