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	SD! : Web boards : Submission : "Problem: A vanishing Dom" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Problem: A vanishing Dom (71) Sat 6 Sep 08, 6:23 PM 952-621-855 US(CA), 4 mths  *If this is not in the right area, I am sorry* If anyone can offer advice with a problem at hand I would greatly appreciate it. My Master has now been gone without a word for three weeks. I continue my daily routines set forth by my Master.I call(always his voice mail)and e-mail as I am expected. Although now Master never returns either. Master used to respond to either or by nights end. The last time Master and I were together there was nothing different in His demeanor and I know for a fact that I did not dishonor nor upset Him in anyway. During our 'cool down' period after play he was "more pleased" with me then he has ever been. I just need sounding boards especialy if Y/you have had a Dom or sub just 'vanish' into thin air. Thank Y/you to the O/ones that can offer advice on this subject. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* 6 Sep 08, 6:31 PM allalone47 US, 3 yrs  He didn't send any word to you at all? Are you just a online slave? 6 Sep 08, 6:39 PM 952-621-855 US(CA), 4 mths  Thank You for a response. Not a word at all. No, real life. W/we don't live together. *Edited due to spelling and clarification* Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* Edited 6 Sep 08, 7:10 PM by 952-621-855 6 Sep 08, 7:58 PM slave_emma US(OK), 2 yrs  In my mind you have 2 options. You can send him an email or call him and tell him you are breaking off the relationship due to lack of contact. Or you could go knock on his door to see if he is okay and if he is what is going on. Just because your slave or a submissive, doesn't mean that you have to be treated this way. Best wishes, slave emma Master Howard's little girl 6 Sep 08, 9:04 PM Eclectic1 US(ID), 12 mths  Not knowing what kind of work he does and his martial status, I would try leaving a phone message explaining your concern and state that if you don't hear from him you will come over and check on his welfare in say 48 hours. The other possibility could be is he testing you? Extreme time yes but possible and not unheard off. 6 Sep 08, 10:01 PM allalone47 US, 3 yrs  952-621-855 wrote: Thank You for a response. Not a word at all. No, real life. W/we don't live together. *Edited due to spelling and clarification* I true Master shood answer unless he can't or is not a real Master. if you contacted him as he instructed you to. 6 Sep 08, 10:03 PM allalone47 US, 3 yrs  Eclectic1 wrote: Not knowing what kind of work he does and his martial status, I would try leaving a phone message explaining your concern and state that if you don't hear from him you will come over and check on his welfare in say 48 hours. The other possibility could be is he testing you? Extreme time yes but possible and not unheard off. However a Master doing this tes will let you know befor hand it is a test. so that you know that he is not just sluffing you off. 6 Sep 08, 10:17 PM Blush4Him US, 7 mths  Eclectic1 wrote: Not knowing what kind of work he does and his martial status, I would try leaving a phone message explaining your concern and state that if you don't hear from him you will come over and check on his welfare in say 48 hours. The other possibility could be is he testing you? Extreme time yes but possible and not unheard off. I think it's time to knock on his door. The idea that he's testing you by not communicating for THREE weeks seems a little beyond my comprehension. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I know you must be scared and feeling lost. I hope you find out what has happened and move on from here. I have yet to give my consent to being slashed! 6 Sep 08, 10:20 PM clarice US(MO), 3 mths  allalone47 wrote: However a Master doing this tes will let you know befor hand it is a test. so that you know that he is not just sluffing you off. That isn't true, allalone. If He is truly testing her, He would want to know how she handles it without knowing what is going on. i do admit, however, that three weeks is a bit long. To the OP: How long have you two been together? Are you able to go to His house to check on Him? Can you call His relatives to see if they know anything? clarice. Posted with permission from my Master At His feet is where i belong. It is where i feel safe and comforted, and i would have it no other way. 6 Sep 08, 10:42 PM 952-621-855 US(CA), 4 mths  Thank Y/you all for the responses and the possible reasons behind such an act. W/we have been together for close to two months now. There was a time that I went on vacation for two weeks and even during that time He remained in constant contact with me. A test is possible but I do doubt this for a reason or atleast for this amount of time. He has never 'allowed' a time to go by that He didn't check on His pets wellbeing. Especially I would think knowing due to myself leaving a message on His answering machine that I was taken to the E.R. and had minor surgery. Yes, I am lost and confused. I have called Him but I have not laid out an ultimatum (sp). I don't feel right in doing such but the time is near that I need to know whether or not I am wanted/needed. Any further suggestions or words to help me through this time is very much appreciated and welcomed. Thank each and E/everyone of Y/you. I, myself have gone to His place of work and each time He was 'unavailable'. Sounds fishy I know. I am unsure of everything and anything at this moment. Yes, He is my first Master since being invited to explore this side of myself. *edited to answer a question I had missed.* Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* Edited 6 Sep 08, 10:47 PM by 952-621-855 6 Sep 08, 10:55 PM clarice US(MO), 3 mths  Darling, i would be careful. My first Mistress was a bit like this. Different, but a bit similar. i think maybe in just the feeling i get from it. With her (Not capitalized. According to my Master [He dated her after i did... lol] she actually is submissive. Wanted Him to Dominate her a lot) i was always on edge, not sure if i was really wanted. She always told me that she was going to dump me and i would beg her not to. This happened every few weeks. She eventually broke up with me and then dated my best friend and proceded to screw Him over (He was her sub.) and then dated my Master. Very confusing, i know. But your situation has the same feel as that one did. The not knowing, the being on edge, the sneaking suspicion, deep down, that you're being used (even if you deny it. i know i denied it...). i would be careful. If you know where He lives and when He's home, visit. If you know relatives, call. If this goes on for another week... Dear, that would be half of your relationship with Him not talking to you. It's not worth it. If, in another week He's yet to respond, leave Him a message saying that He has x days to respond or else you are no longer His. Please tell me you didn't sign a contract with no "out clause"? clarice. Posted with my Master's permission. At His feet is where i belong. It is where i feel safe and comforted, and i would have it no other way. Next page