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	SD! : Web boards : Submission : "Problem: A vanishing Dom" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Problem: A vanishing Dom (71) 6 Sep 08, 11:04 PM 952-621-855 US(CA), 5 mths Ah, even though I am new to this I did alot of research. I do have a 'clause'. For B/both of us it is lack of duties, responsibilities and/or lack of trust. All three of these do apply to this situation at this time. I do deny as alot of people do. Reading other posts and hearing stories from people first hand. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* 6 Sep 08, 11:08 PM clarice US(MO), 4 mths It's good you have an out clause. If not, then He could just say, "You agreed and now you can't leave". That isn't right unless you planned it that way. Like i said, give it a week or so, then try to get in touch with Him personally and/or try to obtain His wherabouts. If this doesn't work, contact Him by phone and email and say He has x days to get ahold of you. Sorry to say, dear, it seems to me like He isn't really a Dom and is using you. However, i'll give Him the benefit of the doubt and therefore capitalize His stuff. But i'm really itching not to. clarice. clarice. Posted with my Master's permission. At His feet is where i belong. It is where i feel safe and comforted, and i would have it no other way. 6 Sep 08, 11:16 PM Blush4Him US, 8 mths clarice wrote: It's good you have an out clause. If not, then He could just say, "You agreed and now you can't leave". That isn't right unless you planned it that way. clarice. Except of course you CAN leave. You consented to be his - remove the consent - you're not his. I have yet to give my consent to being slashed! 6 Sep 08, 11:23 PM clarice US(MO), 4 mths i understand that, Blush. However, i do not know if the OP is considered a submissive or slave. Nor do i know her state of mind regarding her relationship. Some feel that, though they could legally leave, they cannot if their Master says no. Also, if there is an out clause and the Master claims the sub/slave may not leave, then s/he could point this out to the Master as proof they may leave. In the end, it makes it easier and safer for the sub/slave. clarice. clarice. Posted with my Master's permission. At His feet is where i belong. It is where i feel safe and comforted, and i would have it no other way. 6 Sep 08, 11:31 PM nutshellsub UK, 4 mths Something similar has happened to me. Mistress had family matters to attend to and left me. After a few days and with help from people here I asked her if all was well. She said no, but she would send a daily note - I was on-line training. She also did appear on another website and taunted me, didn't respond to my responses and then two nights ago said to another "Mistress" (who I have known for ages and is nothing of the sort although aspires to play at it) that I was "ALL hers". I sent an E mail asking if I had been given away and have yet to receive a reply. She has ignored me again today, although she could see that I was there, and so I have concluded that our brief, and ultimately very frustrating, relationship has ended. I hope that the outcome of your relationship has a happier ending. Take care. 6 Sep 08, 11:34 PM 952-621-855 US(CA), 5 mths I understand fully about what B/both of Y/you are saying. I will sit back, continue on with the tasks each day until I have had enough which is growing closer each day there is no sort of contact. Yes, I did give my consent (gift of submission). Yes, I can withdraw it at anytime. However, I do like the fact that I have proof on paper that I have every right to leave due to actions or lack of them. It helps my mind to see His signature and know that He -did- agree to all of this as have I. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* Edited 6 Sep 08, 11:36 PM by 952-621-855 6 Sep 08, 11:41 PM 952-621-855 US(CA), 5 mths I am sorry of your outcome nutshell. Life's little twists and turns can cause chaos but W/we all must remember, even myself. There is always a rainbow after a storm. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* 6 Sep 08, 11:42 PM Eclectic1 US(ID), 13 mths This I would disagree with. If it is going to be a true test then the other should not be aware of it to get a true reading. Not being argumentative, just my opinion. Again, I do think if it is that the length of time is extreme. 6 Sep 08, 11:47 PM 952-621-855 US(CA), 5 mths Thank You Eclectic1. I, understand that sub/slaves are tested and I was fully aware from my studies that it could happen. I, also thought of a test as some of Y/you have. However, as I have heard the time does seem to go beyond a resonable frame of time. Just my opinion is all. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* 7 Sep 08, 12:26 AM nutshellsub UK, 4 mths That made me smile. Thank you. Next page