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	SD! : Web boards : Submission : "Problem: A vanishing Dom" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 Problem: A vanishing Dom (71) 7 Sep 08, 12:31 AM 952-621-855 US(CA), 5 mths You're more then welcome nutshell. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* 7 Sep 08, 12:40 AM 504-178-417 US(AZ), 4 mths Have you tried getting a hold of someone else who would have been in communication with Him, such as relatives, friends, work/ co workers and if that fails...how do you feel about going to the police and filing a missing persons report on Him? Keep your chin up...and good luck. 7 Sep 08, 12:47 AM 952-621-855 US(CA), 5 mths I have called a mutual friend of O/ours and I will see what comes of that. If He was missing then I am positive His friends/relatives would of done so by now. I would of also been checked on by the police as I am a link to Him. I can't express enough how much all of Y/you are helping me with advice and just words of compassion. Thank Y/you. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* 7 Sep 08, 1:16 AM Blush4Him US, 8 mths clarice wrote: i understand that, Blush. However, i do not know if the OP is considered a submissive or slave. Nor do i know her state of mind regarding her relationship. Some feel that, though they could legally leave, they cannot if their Master says no. Also, if there is an out clause and the Master claims the sub/slave may not leave, then s/he could point this out to the Master as proof they may leave. In the end, it makes it easier and safer for the sub/slave. clarice. Forgive me for not clarifying in my comment. I do understand what you mean about the emotional aspects regarding leaving and do understand that some believe they do not have the ability to leave unless they've been released. I can see what you mean about having the out-clause as a CYA type thing and can see that it would make it emotionally easier - although I'm not sure how it could make it 'safer' (please explain). My point was, the contract doesn't mean a damn thing if she chooses to walk out that door. It's not *really* a legal contract (thus - matters not if there is an out-clause or not). She can still leave the relationship and I'm glad to see she realizes that. I hope others realize it as well. Blush I have yet to give my consent to being slashed! 7 Sep 08, 1:19 AM Blush4Him US, 8 mths 952-621-855 wrote: I have called a mutual friend of O/ours and I will see what comes of that. If He was missing then I am positive His friends/relatives would of done so by now. I would of also been checked on by the police as I am a link to Him. I can't express enough how much all of Y/you are helping me with advice and just words of compassion. Thank Y/you. I can only imagine what this must feel like. I believe I would be flipping back and forth between anger (knowing he's at work and ok) and hurt at the lack of compassion and respect (no contact even after your surgery). I hope you get the answers you need very soon. I have yet to give my consent to being slashed! 7 Sep 08, 2:10 AM 952-621-855 US(CA), 5 mths Indeed Blush. I am going through a whole range of emotions but doing my best to remain His. I care deeply for my Master but I do know that He may have been just using me or has tired of me. Only time will tell. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* 7 Sep 08, 3:08 AM Damsel US, 4 mths I think this is kinda messed up because a master has responsibilities too. He is kinda expected to treat a slave with a certain amount of respect I think. Just ditching you like this isn't fair or right in my opinion. 7 Sep 08, 3:09 AM clarice US(MO), 4 mths To Blush: By safer, i ment that *if* her Owner is using her, and she tries to leave, He may become violent. An out clause may help prevent this, as he would have proof of what He said and signed. PS, it may not be *completely* legal, but i've heard that it's been upheld in courts before whenever people get charged by abuse or kidnapping from being in a consentual non-consent relationship. The judge doesn't understand the act, but understands it was done while in a sound mind and must uphold it. To the OP (i wish i knew your name, dear): Let us hope your Owner is not using you. Perhaps something came up. Maybe He really is super busy with work, and just comes home and passes out each night. Or perhaps something happened in His family and He didn't have time to tell you. However, protect yourself and take precautionary measures as i and others have told you. clarice. clarice. Posted with my Master's permission. At His feet is where i belong. It is where i feel safe and comforted, and i would have it no other way. 7 Sep 08, 3:36 AM 952-621-855 US(CA), 5 mths In the past when there has been an emergency arise with my Master or His relatives, He has let me know that He is dealing with it and has always contacted me within a day. With so many comments and the thoughts that continue to flood me I am happy but sad at the same time to know that others think the same thing I do. Yes, there is a safety 'contact' phone thread in place. I am to call someone in the thread once a day to just say hi if I am not at work (one of my contacts works with me). It was in place before I even met with my Master the first time in a public outing. My name is Ginny. I know safety is of the upmost concern. I don't think or even fathom that my Master would screw up His goverment job. But, people do irrational things when their minds are screwy. Owned Property of Master Drew. Masters precious,beautiful pet. *~Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away~* 7 Sep 08, 3:49 AM clarice US(MO), 4 mths ... He's Government? Darling, what section, because Politics are tricky. My Master wants to go into Politics and said i would have to be especially good at hiding that i'm His slave, because if someone found out, He would be in LOTS of trouble. Any chance someone found out about your dynamics? clarice. clarice. Posted with my Master's permission. At His feet is where i belong. It is where i feel safe and comforted, and i would have it no other way. Next page