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	SD! : Web boards : Submission : "what to do" 1 2 what to do (11) Wed 10 Sep 08, 5:48 PM 646-577-833 US(RI), 3 mths  well i was justed freed for my master there is a guy on here by the name "themister" he wants me to come down to him to train sometime in the future. i dont know what to do. i have a gf back home in ri and a son. but i have no other exp in serving someone my gf will be me new master when i come home but i have to train her and but she already knows so much. i dont know what to do. i know she would love to see me be dom by another guy. but i dont think she wants me to leave state again i have been in the last 3 months in nc one month now in cal not on the 15th of this month im headiung home to ri. what should i do? 10 Sep 08, 6:08 PM anjuli UK, 16 mths  Honestly your post is almost impossible to read and I'm finding it hard to follow what you are trying to tell us but my question is this... why do you think strangers can tell you what is the right thing for you to do? Looking at your profile, you are going to people and calling them Master when you serve them for THREE days!?!? Frankly it will not compute with people here who commit to M/s relationships, or the desperate and frantic seeking of sensation which comes across from your profile. This leads me to suspect this is not the place for you. This site, and the board you've posted on, is for 24/7 M/s relationship discussions. (And I've popped admin a memo to ask them to move it somewhere more appropriate but that's by the bye). The only clue I can give you is that if your gf is to be your Master (and is not actually just being pushed by you into fulfilling your fantasies) then you should get your ass home and do as you're told. SHE should be telling you! And if that's not the case, she's not your Master in any sense of the word, sorry. I don't know if anyone else is prepared to offer a view but I think ultimatly only you can know what you should do and where you should be going. anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ Edited 24 Sep 08, 12:14 PM by anjuli 10 Sep 08, 6:38 PM property_of_MacCain US(PA), 9 mths  Whoa. Slow down dude and take a breath. Whats the hurry anyway? You just got released... from a three day slavery? Am i getting this right? Now you want us to decide for you if you should go back to your girlfriend? So she can be your "new Master"? Ugh. OK. Now you want to train her? Wait. My head hurts. i think you need to drink some warm tea, have a biscuit, and relax. That's what i think you should do. After your good and calm...(because i bet no Master wants someone behaving erratically catering to them) you can think about moving on. Edited to be more clear and less offencive...my bad I breathe because He allows me to, indulging Him indulges me. Edited 10 Sep 08, 7:24 PM by property_of_MacCain 10 Sep 08, 6:49 PM anjuli UK, 16 mths  <breathes> That is damn good advice there... <trots off to follow it herself> Tea and biccies! Thank you Property of MacCain. anjuli Edited down as the point is made. ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ Edited 10 Sep 08, 7:28 PM by anjuli 10 Sep 08, 7:21 PM property_of_MacCain US(PA), 9 mths  Please accept my apologies... i meant no ill will. Let me rephrase. To the OP: It would suit a Master better if you were to have your head in a calm space. Acting erratically and flitting from one "Master" to another, will not make your situation better. Taking a step back and analyzing your situation will. Again i am sorry if i offended. I breathe because He allows me to, indulging Him indulges me. 10 Sep 08, 7:26 PM anjuli UK, 16 mths  Honestly YOU didn't. I meant it when I said it was obvious the word was used without any bad intent. I just felt that for others the point had to be made. Thanks for being so good about it. anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ 10 Sep 08, 8:13 PM 000-874-172 UK, 5 yrs  Hmmm, How does that happen.. I always seem to miss the posts that mention tea and biccies.. 10 Sep 08, 8:35 PM anjuli UK, 16 mths  MasterS70 wrote: Hmmm, How does that happen.. I always seem to miss the posts that mention tea and biccies.. You do not! You always pop up! I reckon you have some sort of sniffer alert. <whispers to everyone else> I've had neighbours like him before... kettle goes on and there are biccies or cakes on the table... and he appears looking all innocent! 'Mmmm... something smells good! Well... I won't say no... now I'm here.' <giggles> anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ 11 Sep 08, 1:18 AM property_of_MacCain US(PA), 9 mths  ....Boy i never meant to derail the topic with my tea and biccies... Anjuli, No, thank you for being so cool. Didn't realise that word was offencive as it is used much differently here. Thank you for bringing it to my attention before feelings were needlessly hurt. I breathe because He allows me to, indulging Him indulges me. 24 Sep 08, 2:47 AM mynx_of_Sir US(TX), 4 mths  ok wait if your a guy and your looking for a Master, then wouldn't that be a guy? i'm sorry if i'm out of my league or anything. And wouldn't your g/f be your Mistress? the way you were talking i thought you were a female. Also from my understanding training takes awhile, more than 3 days. Tea sounds nice! may i? Love who you are, Never who you aren't Proud slave of Master Al. 24 Sep 08, 12:18 PM anjuli UK, 16 mths  There are many Dommes who choose to use the title of Master in preference to Mistress. Abandon all gender stereotypes and preconceptions and you'll fare much better. Don't assume anything about anyone's gender and you'll be less confused. Plus you won't risk giving offence when you don't intend to either. (Nothing worse than unintentional offence as opposed to the proper sort! <grins>) anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ Next page